Anyone else notice how easy it was to get a date before online dating?

[johnnydeep222]

Before -(When I was in h.s middle school etc.) before 2014-Girl liked you, may approach you. You talk back. Done deal.

Today-You approach girl. She seems interested at first. Then there comes a point when she loses interest. She just smiles, talks back and smiles at you from time to time, plays with her hair etc. She stairs at you and thinks about you. She decided you are not up to her standards. Goes for a Chad or Brad or some rich sugar daddy she finds on Tinder or Bumble. You approach another bish. and the same thing happens.

 

[dogtown]

no bro

 

[johnnydeep222]

no bro

You must be Chad.

 

[dogtown]

You must be Chad.

no bro.

just young.

 

[MadMong]

It's easier when you have something in common. If you meet a girl doing something you have in common then you can build a connection through the initial conversation. Otherwise your interaction may as well have been on Tinder.. if you don't spark a sense of intrigue or connection in your first interaction then it's over. Women have so much choice why would they pick someone who doesn't give them the tingles? They can have it all and they know it.

 

[Vitruvian]

more than that is fashion for younger girls is turbo sexualized now. i see pre-teens with their parents going in to costco wearing crop tops and yoga pants jfl at this world. i cant imagine public school being different every other girl must be arching her back

 

[Soulsmaxx]

no bro.

just young.

15 yr old slayer squad checking in

 

[dogtown]

15 yr old incel squad checking in

 

[Soulsmaxx]

15 yr old aspie squad

 

[dogtown]

15 year old incel squad but we're all gonna make it brah

 

[Soulsmaxx]

15 yr old incel squad but @dogtown lies to me

 

[buflek]

it sucks to say but you kinda need to adapt to these shitty mind games. when i approached my gf, she was so fucking interested (saw old chatlogs with her best friend and she literally had asperger while talking to me). then after a few meetings i realized how she lost interested, then after 3 4 dates i asked if shes looking for a relatiobship and she went like "hmmm i dont know". i waited for a few weeks and asked if she wants to be my gf. again she said i dont know if i want a relationship atm.

i broke contact and didnt message her for a week (before daily) then she asked me if i want to go to her house. later that night she asked me if i want to be her bf.

if they lose interest, you have to show no interest too.

 

[rockndogs]

Never approached so i dont know

 

[medialcanthuscel]

This will be the minimum standard to have a thin girlfriend in 2020

 

[Deleted member 685]

no bro.

just young.

 

[SLA]

I remember my early high school days, before tinder, snapchat, and instagram. Best girls had to whore was on facebook, which was still fairly new and popular at time. It was very reserved compared to now. It was just easier. People asked people out IRL. People asked people for their personal phone numbers in person. Women couldn't get attention as easy.

Was it any easier for someone like me, a truecel, to get a date? Nah. But for the average man who struggles now? Hell yeah.

 

[Einon]

no bro.

just young.

and chad

 

[GoonCel]

SHE STAIRS AT YOU

 

[Deleted member 245]

This will be the minimum standard to have a thin girlfriend in 2020

Not even hyperbole tbh. It's pretty much like that now.

 

[Chuck14]

Not even hyperbole tbh. It's pretty much like that now.

Most mid normans have or had average gf's.

 

[johnnydeep222]

Most mid normans have or had average gf's.

It gets harder as you grow older. When i was young, girls would approach me. Now I have to do the approaching.

 

[BrettyBoy]

It’s over for many men.