[Discussion] Anyone here ever succeded with cold approaching?

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Unless you are Chad or Gigachad, cold approaches are a waste of time, especially in the West...
 
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Unless you are Chad or Gigachad, cold approaches are a waste of time, especially in the West...
From my experience approaching isn't even a thing here in the Netherlands.
Atleast going up to someone in a busy city etc.
Library, school settings are different
 
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Unless you are Chad or Gigachad, cold approaches are a waste of time, especially in the West...
I already failed tinder (Zero).

What else is there to do? The only friends I can make are with other male autistic virgins.

I cant get an NT social circle with foids.
 
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I already failed tinder (Zero).

What else is there to do? The only friends I can make are with other male autistic virgins.

I cant get an NT social circle with foids.
Do you look older or younger for your age?
If younger, or just normal for your age give Yubo (full of JB's a try) ded srs
 
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30 cold approaches 0 numbers. Gona try again this weekend gonna be brutal
 
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I did it when young with 50%+ success but it must be in parties, schools, clubs, etc.
With IOIs, it's almost guaranteed.
Not in the street with a complete stranger.
I guess times have changed.
 
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Do you look older or younger for your age?
If younger, or just normal for your age give Yubo (full of JB's a try) ded srs
I'm 18 and people tell me I look older. Truecel trait tbh.
 
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I'm 18 and people tell me I look older. Truecel trait tbh.
Depends, if you just look mature face wise or old because of shit collagen.
 
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I really mirin your low inib, +100 rejections and still trying
No. You are wasting your time. If you really feel the need to, approach in clubs. Cold approaching in the day won't bring you anything as a uglycel. I got 200 rejections in clubs but then I fucked one girl. Even if you had 1 success, it would just mean a phone number or paying her a dinner.
 
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@Colvin76 What do u say to foids when you approach?
 
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This guy using pua and shit. U noticed any improvement after all those rejections ore beiing low inhib?
Hey
You look quite a fun person to talk to
 
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@Colvin76 What do u say to foids when you approach?
I'd say something about the weather and then get straight to the point and ask them out.

This guy using pua and shit. U noticed any improvement after all those rejections ore beiing low inhib?
No improvement tbh
 
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This guy using pua and shit. U noticed any improvement after all those rejections ore beiing low inhib?
JFL I was joking on that sentence "you seem quite fun a person to talk to". It is the phrase that 1st person approacher always used in his cringe videos (before getting arrested and his channel being deleted).

Anyway, those rejections actually made me become higher inhib for few months. I always was low inhib. By the way, I can choose to become low inhib whenever I want and each rejections actually give you some kind of experience that will help your neural paths be ready in future conversations (with everyone).

Cold approaching is one of the hardest way you can try to become lower inhib. Also, most girls not even stop talking to you so it's just nonstop humiliation and you aren't able to develop social skills.

To be more outgoing I used to talk with people at bus stops, at supermarkets, at bars when having a coffee, at offices when waiting in line etc. Just making observations or asking for something, and from there developing a conversation that escalates.

Anyway, being confident and low inhib =/= getting women. And that was really an hard truth for me, because I used to believe in personality and shit.

You NEED to be at least a 6.25-6.5/10 imho to say that it's worth approaching or even just talking to girls. If not, it's only humiliation or a waste of time.
 
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Never did streetgame, but i had good success with approaches during nightgame.
 
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I'd say something about the weather and then get straight to the point and ask them out.


No improvement tbh
did foids give you obvious fuck off signals when you approached?
 
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Most of the time yes.

Some of them tried to hide their disgust though
jfl i could never cold approach tbh. how you do it my nigga tbhngl
 
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I have had success whether you choose to believe this is your choice.
But I look ok/normie, am 5'9' and did many approaches.
Student clubs are the most productive.

If you have autistic/under socialised vibe no girl will want to talk to you in the daytime. Daytime requires decent social ckills
 
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I was hardcore PUA. 0 lays but around 30 makeouts. I approached over 2000 girls though. Very tiring and low success ratio but if you’re a validation junkie like me it can be worth it.
 
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I am average and I had success with cold approachig back in my PUA days in 2014/15. But it wasnt instant sex, just normal getting to know each other and eventually meeting at her place and escalating.
 
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I had mild succcess the first time I tried it - see my latest posts. It seems that for the majority of guys it’s a waste of time though
 

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