Anyone know how to improve social skills and become more socially adjusted?

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Im 20 years old now and find it so hard to make friends and talk to people. I think it is because my dad used to beat me like a dog when I was little and fucked up my neurotransmitters during childhood and important developmental years ded srs. Now Im scared to even do anything or go outside much nowadays. I get scared by sudden movements like for example when someone would bring their hand up to give me a high-five I would flinch, or even when a bird fly too close to me I would cower in fear. Im KHHV and pretty much no experience talking to girls.

Whenever I check FB and Insta (ultimate suifuel :feelsrope:) I see everyone is out having fun and making memories, meanwhile I celebrated my 18th birthday wageslaving (my dad forced me to work for his business btw and would beat me if I disobeyed him). Pls help me NT max boyos, what will I tell people when they ask about my hobbies, interests, aspirations??? I like to play videogames and post on incel forums? :lul:

I don't have any game or any social skills whatsoever or even any normie hobbies like going to parties, play sports and listen to music. One time a girl talked to me and conversation went something like this:

Her: "Hey LordGodcat, do you have snap?" (snapchat)

Me: "Yeah...

...snap your neck" :feelskek:


























Anyways, the conversation didn't go anywhere and I think she lost interest very soon after. So... anybody here can help me out??? :feelsautistic:
 
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Try toastmasters.
 
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I think its safe to say it might be over, try low inhib drugs
 
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become better looking
 
There's no guide or tutorial to become NT-maxxed. You'll slowly become more NT as you spend more time in social circumstances. You'll learn what to say and when and how to deal with different kind of people.

By people I mean men, women are all the same and here's the golden rule to follow when interacting with women: women=bad
 
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Lemme tell ya, being on this site only hurts your social skills. Get out and socialize if you wanna get better. Observe people who are good at socializing and see what they do/say/how they say it.
 
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And being NT-maxxed is lifefuel tbh. Don't listen to people here who will tell you that your career/social life is dependent on your looks. I'm sub5 and i've had friends who are literal Chads. You can still become popular and appreciated among social circles dominated by men.
 
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Lemme tell ya, being on this site only hurts your social skills. Get out and socialize if you wanna get better. Observe people who are good at socializing and see what they do/say/how they say it.

I know but this site is just too addicting. I want to be around people and have a social life but at the same time it's just so hard, all the years of abuse from my father have scarred/damaged me for life. I will try though.

And being NT-maxxed is lifefuel tbh. Don't listen to people here who will tell you that your career/social life is dependent on your looks. I'm sub5 and i've had friends who are literal Chads. You can still become popular and appreciated among social circles dominated by men.

Thanks buddy boyo. It isn't really looks that are my problem but Im gonna try and force myself into more social situations anyways. Someone here recommended drugs like propranolol to lower inhibition, do you think this is good idea?
 
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No, don't rely on drugs. You can't be on drugs 24/7 and you will only be given the illusion that you NT-maxx, as soon as you have to socialise without the drugs you're back at square one. As stated earlier, NT-maxxing is a slow process and will require you to be authentic.

I know so many people who act like complete austists in school/work and when there's a party they'll get wasted and pretend to be NT just because they want to feel appreciated for a brief moment.
 
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Thanks buddy boyo. It isn't really looks that are my problem but Im gonna try and force myself into more social situations anyways. Someone here recommended drugs like propranolol to lower inhibition, do you think this is good idea?

No, don't rely on drugs. You can't be on drugs 24/7 and you will only be given the illusion that you NT-maxx, as soon as you have to socialise without the drugs you're back at square one. As stated earlier, NT-maxxing is a slow process and will require you to be authentic.

I know so many people who act like complete austists in school/work and when there's a party they'll get wasted and pretend to be NT just because they want to feel appreciated for a brief moment.
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You have any experience with toastmasters?
I do. When i started i was really scared cuz i never speak in front of a high volume of people but i was very good 1on1. people there are supportive and shit but what you get out of it is what you put in. push for speaches as much as you can and you will progress tremendously, ]
if ur gonna go there then be productive, you arent there to listen to other people you are there to get better at speaking. once you master this you become less socially inhibited and can conquer more with your newfound communicative abilities. godspeed.
 
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try cabergoline
 
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Try meditation 20 mins morning 20 mins night. just sit down, close eyes and focus on breath. After few weeks you will become calmer, more emotionally intelligent. Afterwards just talk with people and you will learn
 
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practice makes perfect. socialize with people you dont care about so that if u fuck up it doesnt matter.
 
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Im 20 years old now and find it so hard to make friends and talk to people. I think it is because my dad used to beat me like a dog when I was little and fucked up my neurotransmitters during childhood and important developmental years ded srs. Now Im scared to even do anything or go outside much nowadays. I get scared by sudden movements like for example when someone would bring their hand up to give me a high-five I would flinch, or even when a bird fly too close to me I would cower in fear. Im KHHV and pretty much no experience talking to girls.

Whenever I check FB and Insta (ultimate suifuel :feelsrope:) I see everyone is out having fun and making memories, meanwhile I celebrated my 18th birthday wageslaving (my dad forced me to work for his business btw and would beat me if I disobeyed him). Pls help me NT max boyos, what will I tell people when they ask about my hobbies, interests, aspirations??? I like to play videogames and post on incel forums? :lul:

I don't have any game or any social skills whatsoever or even any normie hobbies like going to parties, play sports and listen to music. One time a girl talked to me and conversation went something like this:

Her: "Hey LordGodcat, do you have snap?" (snapchat)

Me: "Yeah...

...snap your neck" :feelskek:


























Anyways, the conversation didn't go anywhere and I think she lost interest very soon after. So... anybody here can help me out??? :feelsautistic:
Just listen to the Joe Rogan Podcast (highly recommend) and find a guest that interests you and imitate them
 
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Just say whatever you want bro
 
Exactly 2 things: exposure and testosterone maxxing.
Put yourself into as many social situations as possible and be healthy with a good hormonal profile.
 
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