Chasing and approaching foids is the biggest waste of time

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

If you are at least above average foids will approach you approaching women is a redpill scam and useless as fuck. Foids are the sexual selectors they choose with whom they mate not you so the trick is to looksmax as hard as you can exist in social gatherings be neurotypical and wait for the sexual selectors to select you. If foids never approach you it's fuckinh over. But the only red pill knowledge you'd need is how to pick on signs of interest in foids and to escalate once the foid is interested in you and that's it all the mental gymnastics out there are utter fucking bullshit

 

[Framletgod]

Chasingband?

 

[Deleted member 245]

Legit. All my lays come from foids approaching me. Approaching foids never worked out well for me. At most it led to going on a boring ass date with the foid sitting there like a vegetable.

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

Chasingband?

Typo my guy my phone screen is fucked up

Legit. All my lays come from foids approaching me. Approaching foids never worked out well for me. At most it led to going on a boring ass date with the foid sitting there like a vegetable.

Same

 

[Ekeoma_The_BBC]

yeah, before I knew about my subhumanity I always blamed myself thinking "maybe I'm just too autistic and not talkative enough" but after finding out about psl theories I finally understand that its just me being subhuman. I can rest in peace knowing nothing was my fault at least

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

yeah, before I knew about my subhumanity I always blamed myself thinking "maybe I'm just too autistic and not talkative enough" but after finding out about psl theories I finally understand that its just me being subhuman. I can rest in peace knowing nothing was my fault at least

Yap gives you the knowledge to know what to do

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Yeah girls will approach if their interested

But even still you should approach regardless but there’s a time and place for everything

Like clubs, festivals, concerts etc

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

Yeah girls will approach if your interested

But even still you should approach but there’s a time and place for everything

Like clubs, festivals, concerts etc

Yeah an occasional approach in a festival or concert might pass but it shouldn't be overdone or you'll get depressed

 

[ibetucnt]

a man creates his own chances

this thread is useless

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

a man creates his own chances

this thread is useless

Okay mr redpill fedora guy

 

[ibetucnt]

Okay mr redpill fedora guy

this aint redpill, this is real life

i've been approached by girls in nightclubs, but none was above 6 PSL
beautiful girls have too much pride to approach, they have been approached and given attention all their life, they won't all of a sudden go out of their way and approach a guy.
instead they will give you signs, and you'll need to pick them up, man up and approach

if you think you can just sit on your chair, be handsome and wait for girls to approach you you're coping and making excuses.
people will just think you're a shy awkward guy. an alpha has fun, go up and talk to girls he likes with confidence, he's not there sipping on a drink all night alone waiting for girls to come to him

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

this aint redpill, this is real life

i've been approached by girls in nightclubs, but none was above 6 PSL
beautiful girls have too much pride to approach, they have been approached and given attention all their life, they won't all of a sudden go out of their way and approach a guy.
instead they will give you signs, and you'll need to pick them up, man up and approach

if you think you can just sit on your chair, be handsome and wait for girls to approach you you're coping and making excuses.
people will just think you're a shy awkward guy. an alpha has fun, go up and talk to girls he likes with confidence, he's not there sipping on a drink all night alone waiting for girls to come to him

Now i partially agree with you when you rephrased it this way very hot girls will never approach so that's the only permitted time to approach if she gives positive signs

 

[Deleted member 2527]

if you aren't approaching girls who are giving you signals then you are missing out.

but yes I agree you need to be good looking to get those signals in the first place.

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

if you aren't approaching girls who are giving you signals then you are missing out.

but yes I agree you need to be good looking to get those signals in the first place.

I agree i said approach only if they give signs of interest and very clear ones

 

[CopeAndRope]

If you are at least above average foids will approach you approaching women is a redpill scam and useless as fuck. Foids are the sexual selectors they choose with whom they mate not you so the trick is to looksmax as hard as you can exist in social gatherings be neurotypical and wait for the sexual selectors to select you. If foids never approach you it's fuckinh over. But the only red pill knowledge you'd need is how to pick on signs of interest in foids and to escalate once the foid is interested in you and that's it all the mental gymnastics out there are utter fucking bullshit

Imagine letting some deluded beings with one extra hole "selecting" you.

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

Imagine letting some deluded beings with one extra hole "selecting" you.

Not "selecting" me i mean wait for a foid you find acceptablz to approach cause approaching is bullshit women are biologically the gate keepers of sex wether you like it or not

 

[Pietrosiek]

this aint redpill, this is real life

i've been approached by girls in nightclubs, but none was above 6 PSL
beautiful girls have too much pride to approach, they have been approached and given attention all their life, they won't all of a sudden go out of their way and approach a guy.
instead they will give you signs, and you'll need to pick them up, man up and approach

if you think you can just sit on your chair, be handsome and wait for girls to approach you you're coping and making excuses.
people will just think you're a shy awkward guy. an alpha has fun, go up and talk to girls he likes with confidence, he's not there sipping on a drink all night alone waiting for girls to come to him

cope. my hot oneitis, she was the hottest in my class in middleschool was textig her current bf for 2 months, while he was ghosting her. He wrote this on his ig when they had anniversary or something

 

[ibetucnt]

cope. my hot oneitis, she was the hottest in my class in middleschool was textig her current bf for 2 months, while he was ghosting her. He wrote this on his ig when they had anniversary or something

you're clearly retarded and can't seem to make a difference between approaching and texting

 

[Pietrosiek]

you're clearly retarded and can't seem to make a difference between approaching and texting

She was making moves to fuck him. That's what i mean by approaching. He was in her social circle so she wanted to go for a date with him. To be cold approached on the street you need to be really god tier. Being approached by social circle (class, school, some group of friends etc.)aka foid make a first move either irl on by texting is possible from 5-5.5 psl. That's what i mean

 

[Ruby]

If you are at least above average foids will approach you approaching women is a redpill scam and useless as fuck. Foids are the sexual selectors they choose with whom they mate not you so the trick is to looksmax as hard as you can exist in social gatherings be neurotypical and wait for the sexual selectors to select you. If foids never approach you it's fuckinh over. But the only red pill knowledge you'd need is how to pick on signs of interest in foids and to escalate once the foid is interested in you and that's it all the mental gymnastics out there are utter fucking bullshit

well most of the girls who liked me never approached me they complimented me and always tried to talk to me only ugly girls cold approached me on the street

 

[SurgerySoon]

I have never been approached or signaled by a girl once in my entire life. Will turn 32 in 3 months. I don't look forward to birthdays anymore.

 

[LordNorwood]

What does it mean if you get approached occasionally but the girl is usually below your standards? I've only been approached by one girl I thought was attractive enough to date but I fucked it up after a month by being a neurotic fuck lol

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

I have never been approached or signaled by a girl once in my entire life. Will turn 32 in 3 months. I don't look forward to birthdays anymore.

I am sorry man looksmax as hard as you can don't give up

What does it mean if you get approached occasionally but the girl is usually below your standards? I've only been approached by one girl I thought was attractive enough to date but I fucked it up after a month by being a neurotic fuck lol

I. T means you're at least slightly above average girls are hypergameous they approach men better than them

 

[SurgerySoon]

I am sorry man looksmax as hard as you can don't give up

Believe me, I'm pulling all the stops, but I have a feeling that I will succumb to the agepill very soon and my looksmaxxing efforts will be rendered futile.

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

Don't succumb man if you take care of yourself don't lose your hair work out and stay in shape you'd still do okay with women 10 years younger than you till your mid 40s you still have hope man don't give in do whatever it takes

 

[LordNorwood]

I. T means you're at least slightly above average girls are hypergameous they approach men better than them

I'd like to say that makes me feel better but all it really means is you have to either be Chad or death lol, being above average alone doesn't cut it I guess or I wouldn't be a neurotic V at 24
ascension or rope

 

[SurgerySoon]

Don't succumb man if you take care of yourself don't lose your hair work out and stay in shape you'd still do okay with women 10 years younger than you till your mid 40s you still have hope man don't give in do whatever it takes

I am, but I just find it hard to believe that I'll be able to do okay with women as a 32+ oldcell when I couldn't get anywhere for shit with them during my twenties (technically my "prime").

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

I'd like to say that makes me feel better but all it really means is you have to either be Chad or death lol, being above average alone doesn't cut it I guess or I wouldn't be a neurotic V at 24
ascension or rope

Look at the quote in my avatar

 

[LordNorwood]

Look at the quote in my avatar

fucking kek didn't even see that

 

[6'4 looksmaxxxer]

I am, but I just find it hard to believe that I'll be able to do okay with women as a 32+ oldcell when I couldn't get anywhere for shit with them during my twenties (technically my "prime").

It's better late than never

 

[LordNorwood]

I am, but I just find it hard to believe that I'll be able to do okay with women as a 32+ oldcell when I couldn't get anywhere for shit with them during my twenties (technically my "prime").

Your prime isn't your 20s so long as you make good money, its actually your 30s for a man
Source: my ass
no for real most studies indicate male prime is in 30s because female attraction is so profoundly status driven and when you're in your 30s you're young enough that it isn't hella weird to date you yet successful enough that you make the status hamster go wild
For a long time I've harbored the suspicion that women subconsciously view male phenotypes as hot depending on how closely they line up with high status phenotypes, for example 10 years ago if you looked like Justin Bieber you were in there simply because he was the big girl crush of the era. Another example: the Beatles. Ugly as fuck but it doesn't matter because they were so high status

 

[SurgerySoon]

Your prime isn't your 20s so long as you make good money, its actually your 30s for a man
Source: my ass
no for real most studies indicate male prime is in 30s because female attraction is so profoundly status driven and when you're in your 30s you're young enough that it isn't hella weird to date you yet successful enough that you make the status hamster go wild
For a long time I've harbored the suspicion that women subconsciously view male phenotypes as hot depending on how closely they line up with high status phenotypes, for example 10 years ago if you looked like Justin Bieber you were in there simply because he was the big girl crush of the era. Another example: the Beatles. Ugly as fuck but it doesn't matter because they were so high status

You make good points, but I don't think anything will make up for the validation that guys like me never got in our teens/twenties from having girls be attracted to us based purely on our looks. It's better than nothing, of course, but having a girl be "attracted" to you because of money/status just isn't the same as having a girl at a bar/club give you overt IOI's purely on the basis of her being physically attracted to me. I guess I could be wrong, but I'm assuming that ship has sailed for me, regardless of how much I may or may not improve from getting surgery and by implementing other looksmaxxing strategies.

 

[LordNorwood]

You make good points, but I don't think anything will make up for the validation that guys like me never got in our teens/twenties from having girls be attracted to us based purely on our looks. It's better than nothing, of course, but having a girl be "attracted" to you because of money/status just isn't the same as having a girl at a bar/club give you overt IOI's purely on the basis of her being physically attracted to me. I guess I could be wrong, but I'm assuming that ship has sailed for me, regardless of how much I may or may not improve from getting surgery and by implementing other looksmaxxing strategies.

Bro I feel you, believe me, but you gotta take what you can get. Looksmax like a motherfucker and kill it in life. The point is it isn't too late for you.
IMO don't base your self worth on what a woman finds attractive, just see it as a game you have to play. Doesn't determine who you are. 2000 years ago women probably loved Norwooders who went around raping and pillaging simply because they were the chads of the day and that's why so many of us have their bullshit Norwood genes JFL, its arbitrary and the biggest motivator is status

 

[SurgerySoon]

Bro I feel you, believe me, but you gotta take what you can get. Looksmax like a motherfucker and kill it in life. The point is it isn't too late for you.
IMO don't base your self worth on what a woman finds attractive, just see it as a game you have to play. Doesn't determine who you are. 2000 years ago women probably loved Norwooders who went around raping and pillaging simply because they were the chads of the day and that's why so many of us have their bullshit Norwood genes JFL, its arbitrary and the biggest motivator is status

I see where you're coming from, but what makes things more difficult for me is that I'm not interested in having relationships with women, and that's pretty much what betabuxxing entails. TBH I either see myself escortceling (preferable to being cucked in an LTR) or roping in a year or two. Still going to looksmaxx hard and see what happens, I guess.

 

[LordNorwood]

I see where you're coming from, but what makes things more difficult for me is that I'm not interested in having relationships with women, and that's pretty much what betabuxxing entails. TBH I either see myself escortceling (preferable to being cucked in an LTR) or roping in a year or two. Still going to looksmaxx hard and see what happens, I guess.

Well I can't argue with that. If you aren't interested in having a relationship or starting a family then I don't see anything wrong with escortceling and just working on your goals. Honestly probably the only difference for me is simply that I want to have kids.

 

[SurgerySoon]

Well I can't argue with that. If you aren't interested in having a relationship or starting a family then I don't see anything wrong with escortceling and just working on your goals. Honestly probably the only difference for me is simply that I want to have kids.

Man, I couldn't imagine having kids. That is probably the number one thing I know I don't ever want to have, aside from getting married. Different strokes, right? LOL

 

[LordNorwood]

Man, I couldn't imagine having kids. That is probably the number one thing I know I don't ever want to have, aside from getting married. Different strokes, right? LOL

Dude honestly in some ways I envy you, you don't have to deal with the headache of trying for a relationship with a woman who you think is worthy of being the mother of your kids, even thinking about it is the most stressful shit in my life aside from closing out my bachelor's and getting a fucking career
I have latent daydreams of setting up a family dynasty and taking over the world, marrying a woman who looks like she could give birth to Julius Caesar is step 1

 

[SurgerySoon]

Dude honestly in some ways I envy you, you don't have to deal with the headache of trying for a relationship with a woman who you think is worthy of being the mother of your kids, even thinking about it is the most stressful shit in my life aside from closing out my bachelor's and getting a fucking career
I have latent daydreams of setting up a family dynasty and taking over the world, marrying a woman who looks like she could give birth to Julius Caesar is step 1

LOL, good luck with it man. I would say to definitely get your career on track before you worry about getting married and starting a family. I wasted so much time back when I was in my 20s and made so many bad decisions that I'm just now about to start my first legit career. So much time and money wasted.

 

[LordNorwood]

LOL, good luck with it man. I would say to definitely get your career on track before you worry about getting married and starting a family. I wasted so much time back when I was in my 20s and made so many bad decisions that I'm just now about to start my first legit career. So much time and money wasted.

Word, that's solid advice. Definitely want to get to a solid position ASAP both status and looks wise

 

[Gosick]

Man, I couldn't imagine having kids. That is probably the number one thing I know I don't ever want to have, aside from getting married. Different strokes, right? LOL

I would only have children if my partner/wife was goodlooking, otherwise its not worth it. After you get tired of fucking sluts in bars, what comes next? are you going to rope or get a ltr? I assume just fucking sluts at bars would become tiresome at some point, fucking sluts in bars is something you do in your early-mid twenties, after that most people just get tired of it. I can see why your interested in it since you missed out.

 

[SurgerySoon]

I would only have children if my partner/wife was goodlooking, otherwise its not worth it. After you get tired of fucking sluts in bars, what comes next? are you going to rope or get a ltr? I assume just fucking sluts at bars would become tiresome at some point, fucking sluts in bars is something you do in your early-mid twenties, after that most people just get tired of it. I can see why your interested in it since you missed out.

Not sure TBH. Still not sure if I will even get to that point since I still have to see how much improvement I'll actually get from my eye area surgery. It's also going to depend on how effective my collagenmaxxing strategies are. It's probably over for me once I start looking legit old to most girls.