KrissKross
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Take a look at this graph. It shows how couples met over the decades. As you can see, back in the day the most common ways were friends, family and highschool/college. Meeting in a restaurant or bar was very low. I assume only chads were doing that back then even. It was off limits for normies and subhumans even back then. Social circle was the predominant way back then, and for normies now it is the same I would say. Only chads and NOTICEABLY high status normies can/could pull off bar approaches back then and online maxxing now. If you can't approach in a bar now in 2021, you probably would have been no better off in 1921 either. This is a common cope I see in PSL, that things would be ok if we could just go back in time to a time where society was different. It was different, but not enormously so. The same rules still applied.
Slaying was as rare then as now, and unless you were John Wayne or Marlon Brando, you were career maxxing and waiting to meet someone in your social circle, same as now.
Furthermore, the increase in meeting through bars and clubs in recent times I believe is due to the bias that these days only chads and stacies attend clubs and bars. For users who have been to clubs much, you will know what I am talking about, the average height is higher than in everyday life and low tier normies and subhumans usually stay away (they have given up). Back in the day, the bar was for everyone to just enjoy, not a place designed mainly for (((hookup culture))) as it is today.
Interesting to note that the "meeting through friends" route has fallen drastically. I have a theory this may be due in part not only to higher incel rates (in that they are not meeting women so can't even answer the survey) but also the current phenomenon of men having very few friends these days to meet women through and non existent social lives. By the way, if you have no friends, objectively yes you are a loser but by the averages of today, you are actually well within normal. So, don't worry, the majority of men are in the same boat as you.
This means, if you want to normie maxx, then social circle game is what you need to focus on. Invest in that.
If you want to chad maxx, then invest more into bar approaches and online avenues.
One should not strive for chad tier in all cases, for some of us, normie tier so that you may normie maxx is not only enough, but would better suit your aims.
For me personally, it's chad or death but that's only because I am aspie socially crippled doomcel so normie maxxing was never an option.
Slaying was as rare then as now, and unless you were John Wayne or Marlon Brando, you were career maxxing and waiting to meet someone in your social circle, same as now.
Furthermore, the increase in meeting through bars and clubs in recent times I believe is due to the bias that these days only chads and stacies attend clubs and bars. For users who have been to clubs much, you will know what I am talking about, the average height is higher than in everyday life and low tier normies and subhumans usually stay away (they have given up). Back in the day, the bar was for everyone to just enjoy, not a place designed mainly for (((hookup culture))) as it is today.
Interesting to note that the "meeting through friends" route has fallen drastically. I have a theory this may be due in part not only to higher incel rates (in that they are not meeting women so can't even answer the survey) but also the current phenomenon of men having very few friends these days to meet women through and non existent social lives. By the way, if you have no friends, objectively yes you are a loser but by the averages of today, you are actually well within normal. So, don't worry, the majority of men are in the same boat as you.
This means, if you want to normie maxx, then social circle game is what you need to focus on. Invest in that.
If you want to chad maxx, then invest more into bar approaches and online avenues.
One should not strive for chad tier in all cases, for some of us, normie tier so that you may normie maxx is not only enough, but would better suit your aims.
For me personally, it's chad or death but that's only because I am aspie socially crippled doomcel so normie maxxing was never an option.
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