Griffith
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I saw a few threads about people being lonely in Uni so here's some personal experience/observations that helped me out. This probably won't really work if you are ugly though.
You need to make friends within the first week! Most social circles get formed at the beginning and it's hard AF to infiltrate group of friends. And if you manage to infiltrate you will always be the left-over friend that gets invited last or doesn't get invited at all.
Especially the first day, take a low dosage of Molly or get a slight buzz or whatever if you are an anxious bitch.
When i started college a few years ago, even though i am sorta low inhib. I lifted hard before to get a dopa rush and took some caffeine pills and everybody was acting shy and high inhib, i talked to everyone i saw. Just stupid small talk, why i choose for Uni x, made some jokes about some other poverty uni's etc. Important to exchange numbers and add on social media, then when classes start sit next to a few groups of people. Talk shit about the subject, the intro day and just whine about how hard everything is.
Having a social circle is not only needed for slaying but networking for jobs later, sharing notes, people giving you rides, study sessions etc. It's so much easier to do uni activities like rowing, bouldering etc when you go with a group of people you know.
Meanwhile all the people that missed the intro week or didn't talk to people during the first week remained alone for the rest of the year, struggled to form groups, dropped the course, got shit grades in general (always saw them at resits) and looked depressed as fuck.
It is just very important to make friends when everybody is in the same situation as you in the beginning, everybody is feeling insecure about not having friends so they are generally very open to any kind of conversation.
You need to make friends within the first week! Most social circles get formed at the beginning and it's hard AF to infiltrate group of friends. And if you manage to infiltrate you will always be the left-over friend that gets invited last or doesn't get invited at all.
Especially the first day, take a low dosage of Molly or get a slight buzz or whatever if you are an anxious bitch.
When i started college a few years ago, even though i am sorta low inhib. I lifted hard before to get a dopa rush and took some caffeine pills and everybody was acting shy and high inhib, i talked to everyone i saw. Just stupid small talk, why i choose for Uni x, made some jokes about some other poverty uni's etc. Important to exchange numbers and add on social media, then when classes start sit next to a few groups of people. Talk shit about the subject, the intro day and just whine about how hard everything is.
Having a social circle is not only needed for slaying but networking for jobs later, sharing notes, people giving you rides, study sessions etc. It's so much easier to do uni activities like rowing, bouldering etc when you go with a group of people you know.
Meanwhile all the people that missed the intro week or didn't talk to people during the first week remained alone for the rest of the year, struggled to form groups, dropped the course, got shit grades in general (always saw them at resits) and looked depressed as fuck.
It is just very important to make friends when everybody is in the same situation as you in the beginning, everybody is feeling insecure about not having friends so they are generally very open to any kind of conversation.
