Ghosted after sex with her for the first time. How bad is it?

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I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
 
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I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
br0...
 
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Ezp73t7oqxs51
 
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Another brutal thread. Wtf?
 
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Definitely wasn't your penis. You fucked twice and 5 inches isnt exactly rope tier. I hate to sound like a redpill youtuber but deadass this shit happens lol even if the night goes well. If you pulled this girl and she's good looking, why aren't you talking to others?
 
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13 cm is small my dude

Look into bathmate or jelqing
 
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The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

This is honestly more brutal than a story of a sexless guy being rejected.
 
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13 cm is small my dude

Look into bathmate or jelqing

I am about 14.5 cm and I have been doing kegels (and holding it for 5 seconds) all last week.

I look bigger and thicker now.

Yesterday

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Dude this is textbook how most Western women today are lol,if you don't believe me,go scroll r/datingoverthirty
imagine trying for a relationship with one of them lol,at least you got some sex,just take it for it was and move on.
 
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I am about 14.5 cm and I have been doing kegels (and holding it for 5 seconds) all last week.

I look bigger and thicker now.

Yesterday

[NSFW] View attachment 972932 [/NSFW]
Nigga, the spoiler didn't work. I was just scrolling down and I unexpectedly saw a cock.
 
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Women value social, sexual, economic and cultural dominance, if you cannot assist a woman in further living a life in line with attaining increasing supply of social, sexual, economic and cultural dominance, she will not bother even considering you as a prospective partner.
 
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I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
I can't sympathize. You got to have no strings attached sex with an attractive person (twice) and even got to sleep with her afterwards. Wtf man I don't feel pity for you I feel jealousy
 
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if it was because of his penis she wouldnt fuck him a second time jfl
 
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Dude this is textbook how most Western women today are lol,if you don't believe me,go scroll r/datingoverthirty
imagine trying for a relationship with one of them lol,at least you got some sex,just take it for it was and move on.

He has a 13cm cock.

Do u think a chick would ghost him totally if he was 17cm?
 
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is all in u r hed op

 
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usually the guys does the ghosting not the girl im sorry bro your high e and shes high t
 
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I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
Say to her that she break your trust and that she will never find a man like you :bluepill:
 
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It's even worse to be used like a sex-doll than be an incel tbh.
 
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Lmao what a loser! Can’t relate all girls want me back. Beg me. Once after I made this fat girl squirt while her friend was sleep on the coach in the next room. Anyways when I left I ease-dropped and heard saying how I was the best dick she ever had. Anyways I ghosted her after that and she stalked me for awhile. Anyways you’ll never exp that cause you don’t have bbc pill! Just rope old man
 
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Definitely wasn't your penis. You fucked twice and 5 inches isnt exactly rope tier. I hate to sound like a redpill youtuber but deadass this shit happens lol even if the night goes well. If you pulled this girl and she's good looking, why aren't you talking to others?
5inches is small dude lol
 
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Yeah obviously but average is like 5.5 so realistically you'll be fine. It's not micro
Theres no difference between 5 and 5.5 in how the fucking feels.

The so called "average" is SMALL
 
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I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
Also I'm assuming this copy pasted from somewhere right? I I always thought u were gay maybe its because your username.is toth
 
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5 dates in 1 year = low tier human trait
 
If your dick is legit 13 cm NBPL, measured from top, it's almost average, but if you measure your dick from side/bottom and you press to bone, rip.
 
You had sex, so not so bad
 
I've been seeing a really attractive girl for almost a year, but we've only been on 5 dates, because she kept canceling. I gave up multiple times, but she would keep messaging me and trying to arrange something.

Now, I'm someone who's lonely, and have been dealing with FA issues my whole life. This girl looks like a model. I'm also 30, and she's 23.

Because I have nothing going on with anyone else, I never cut contact with her, and about two weeks ago she asked for one last try to meet up, and I said yes to one last time. We agreed to meet at my place last Thursday, and lo and behold, she actually showed up.

I'm relaxed buy nervous, because I knew it would be now or never to try to cement this relationship with sex. We made dinner and talked for hours, and .. the one good thing about me is that I can make a girl laugh. I'm also very conscientious, and you know, I could tell she was having a good time.

The one thing that's held me back my whole life in terms of hooking up with girls is my penis size, which I'm absolutely ashamed and embarrassed by; 13cm. It's why I waited until she basically had to leave to make my move, but I managed to go for it, and we immediately began embracing each other.

We go into my bedroom and she's totally wild. We start fucking, and she has the body of a pornstar, and fucks like one too. I'm having trouble getting fully erect because of nervs and just, everything, so I know it's not my best performance, but I'm trying. I also hold back on fingering and oral, because I feel most girls are uncomfortable with that on the first time?

Anyways, we fuck twice, and I ask if she wants to spend the night (it's like 1am) and she said yes. The last thing we did before falling asleep was I massaged and scratched her back a bit, and she asked me to keep going, which i did, until she fell asleep.

The next morning, she seemed very rushed to leave. I work from home, and had to get online shortly, but she quickly got on her clothes and was out the door.

I had a bad feeling right away, and we didn't text that day. I sent her a message on snapchat yesterday, which she took hours to open, and didn't respond, and today I noticed she's deleted me from snapchat and instagram.

I feel crushed. We talked so much, and it's been so long, and then she just ghosts me like that.

But it made me think.. this girl gets solicited by guys all the time; guys even offering her thousands of dollars for her underwear and stuff on instagram, and she can get any guy she wants.

If my penis and sex really was terrible, I get why she wouldn't want to put up with it, and why ghosting me is the easiest way to get out.

But I still feel terrible, and alone.
jesus christ, 5 dates before you tried to fuck her ? litteraly simp nation
 
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jesus christ, 5 dates before you tried to fuck her ? litteraly simp nation
Not exactly tbh. I’ve only done it once because I liked the girl and timing was off but I feel you usually 2nd date or I’m out lmao
 
how thick is your dick?
 
A 5.1 inch dick should not be holding you back bro... learn to use your mouth and fingers. Most girls can't even get off to only piv sex. I'm 6.1 inches and I still use lots of fingering/mouth to get her off, its pretty unlikely that you will get her off without it (for an average girl). There's literally studies on this. I usually use mouth/finger during the first hook up but I don't hook up with random tinder whores, I at least somewhat know the girls ive fucked beforehand. Keep in mind that this insecurity will hold you back from performing your very best in bed. Just embrace it man. Also girls ghost all the time. Don't look into it too much. A guy with options wouldn't care if he got ghosted, the only reason you care is because you don't have options. Accept it an move on. Remember that this girl was attractive and wanted you.
 
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