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everyone can get a GF except me💔
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Ofc outliers exist but good looking, funny, likeable and people with money, status etc are not on Tinder.
They are popular IRL, getting invited to parties or meetups etc and meet chads/stacies there and are having fun, gaining real life experience while goodlookinglosers are sitting alone at home swiping on an app and competing with 1000 men for average girls. Ofc if you want to slay only this is fine
Extreme example: did you ever see a famous guy/girl on tinder? Probably not, because they meet enough people IRL who are not basementdwellers obviously with fun lifes.
So basically what i want to say is that we should socialmaxx too, ofc looksmax as much as you can but work on other important traits too like beeing fun and likeable.
Maybe im just projecting but yea getting invited to cool parties is giving me a bigger dopamine spike than matching with a cutie on tinder. Sad thing is that i get invited to parties with girls that i dont know happens rarely but im working on it.
Thoughts?
They are popular IRL, getting invited to parties or meetups etc and meet chads/stacies there and are having fun, gaining real life experience while goodlookinglosers are sitting alone at home swiping on an app and competing with 1000 men for average girls. Ofc if you want to slay only this is fine
Extreme example: did you ever see a famous guy/girl on tinder? Probably not, because they meet enough people IRL who are not basementdwellers obviously with fun lifes.
So basically what i want to say is that we should socialmaxx too, ofc looksmax as much as you can but work on other important traits too like beeing fun and likeable.
Maybe im just projecting but yea getting invited to cool parties is giving me a bigger dopamine spike than matching with a cutie on tinder. Sad thing is that i get invited to parties with girls that i dont know happens rarely but im working on it.
Thoughts?
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