How do you deal with loneliness?

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I've tried online dating for a while but it only lead me to feeling down, ugly and frustrated. I was ghosted a couple of times and nothing came out of it, not even a date.

I'm completely commited to Self-improvement and looksmaxxing but im also isolated from people and lack social circles.

Socializing would take me too much Time that I already use for my looksmaxxing journey but I dont know how to cope with loneliness and sexual frustration.

Masturbation Is a band aid at most, and it only increases my libido on the long run. Weed and booze works to some degree, but it's not sustainable for me to get high and tipsy (I avoid being drunk cause of gymcelling) everyday so I only keep it for weekends.

I'm starting ti think that escortcelling would be a good alternative, but I've never done it before and i have my doubts; what if I feel like shit afterwards? It's also a Lot of money.

Any advice?
 

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I've tried online dating for a while but it only lead me to feeling down, ugly and frustrated. I was ghosted a couple of times and nothing came out of it, not even a date.

I'm completely commited to Self-improvement and looksmaxxing but im also isolated from people and lack social circles.

Socializing would take me too much Time that I already use for my looksmaxxing journey but I dont know how to cope with loneliness and sexual frustration.

Masturbation Is a band aid at most, and it only increases my libido on the long run. Weed and booze works to some degree, but it's not sustainable for me to get high and tipsy (I avoid being drunk cause of gymcelling) everyday so I only keep it for weekends.

I'm starting ti think that escortcelling would be a good alternative, but I've never done it before and i have my doubts; what if I feel like shit afterwards? It's also a Lot of money.

Any advice?
If you want advice for me I would say joint Church. The women there are good quality and want a husband. A lot of them are virgins even into their 20s so there is hope. Just be good looking , go to church , and be a decent man and you've got a wife who will love you and be loyal
 

treedude

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You improve yourself until you get compliments. :yes:
It's counter-intuitive to watch YouTube and reddit all day and cry.
 

Creep

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play videogames until you die bro
 

LifeIsNEET

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I love music. Creating, Performing, and organizing it. I need to go get professional lessons and maybe look into surgery to correct some damage and actually advance my *serviceable* ability once I get over the anxiety.

I like to listen to podcasts about obscure topics. Like Jim Cornette breaking down 1920's pro-wrestling is the most fascinating thing to me and it's just a world lost to time. I love a lot of intellectual and political podcasts as well.

I practice French and Arabic while I run and can understand/read Japanese pretty well since talking to a longtime friend a lot of the time.

I read a lot of classic literature on and off. It's hard for me to remember a lot of it, but I try to apply the lessons to my everyday life.

Love to work out and try new goals. Like I ran a mile in the time I wanted. Let's try to do a standing backflip, Okay did that let's try to jump this distance, etc. Also, enjoy meditating afterward.

I like to research UFO's and stuff. Mainly obscure stuff (Africa, 1940's encounters, etc.) Love 1920's - 1950's Sci-Fi & Horror movies as well.

Charity and volunteer work. Being loved by someone and making a moment in their life they'll never forget is wonderful.

I just try to refine my personality, mind, and body as much as I can 24/7 any time and learned to find happiness in myself. I used to have some insecurity about playing music out loud or dancing while I jog or something, but who cares honestly. I just smile, am nice to everyone I meet, try to pay forward for both my mistakes and accomplishments. It's a lot of work and it's daunting, but I've faced so much adversity life is a total cakewalk at this point. I also have a pretty strict punishment and self-discipline system for myself though. So while it's easy. Breaking that consistency would be pretty bad, at least by my standards.
 

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If you want advice for me I would say joint Church. The women there are good quality and want a husband. A lot of them are virgins even into their 20s so there is hope. Just be good looking , go to church , and be a decent man and you've got a wife who will love you and be loyal
Sorry bro but church girls in their 20s aren't usually virgins unless they are sub-3. Many have had boyfriends and have at least sucked a few dicks if not done anal
 

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