How the fuck do people get into a social circle?

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Shit makes no sense to me.

Does it form out of mid air or some shit? I've never been able to get into social circles because of being excluded all through out high school.

Never even began for me.
 
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Unironically talking to people/finding people with similar interests. I've met one of my best friends this year through music. And a lifelong friend through Lego Star Wars :lul:
 
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Unironically talking to people/finding people with similar interests. I've met one of my best friends this year through music. And a lifelong friend through Lego Star Wars :lul:
Was this before or after you finished high school
 
Was this before or after you finished high school
Lego before, in elementary or basischool as its called here in NL (i was like 7) metal lad this year in highschool (16)
 
Tbh I’ve never seen it where it wasn’t the case of just be first theory. I had the same friends in middle school that I had in high school, and everyone I know in college hangs out with people they met the first week
 
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Got the same problem. Reason's that I don't talk to people or that when I do it's awkward/autistic. Try alcohol or Xanax I've had people tell me "I'm like a different person".
 
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Got the same problem. Reason's that I don't talk to people or that when I do it's awkward/autistic. Try alcohol or Xanax I've had people tell me "I'm like a different person".
Alcohol is a Looksmin AND healthmin.

Not too sure about Xanax though.
 
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tbh only social circle I had in HS was a group of Asians because we played video games (incel trait)
 
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Alcohol is a Looksmin AND healthmin.

Not too sure about Xanax though.
If i'm correct certain alcoholic drinks can act as a diuretic. I usually take a little bit for becoming low inhib
 
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If i'm correct certain alcoholic drinks can act as a diuretic. I usually take a little bit for becoming low inhib
18-20 year olds cant drink alcohol in the United States
 
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Dude in the US it really isn't that hard.

Go to a chess club if you enjoy chess. Try to find meet ups for the stuff that you are interested in. I mean you are going to make friends and then just keep the ones that you like.
 
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Jesus why must everything in the states suck ass :lul:
He is retarded, the US offers unparalleled opportunities but will this low-T cuck use them or will he succumb and eat doritos at home.
 
He is retarded, the US offers unparalleled opportunities but will this low-T cuck use them or will he succumb and eat doritos at home.
Eh could be, clogncheeselands mog
 
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Jesus why must everything in the states suck ass :lul:
Alcohol isn't even that good anyway.

Its a looksmin + healthmin that probably tastes bad and I'm glad I never had it.
He is retarded, the US offers unparalleled opportunities but will this low-T cuck use them or will he succumb and eat doritos at home.
I dont eat doritos or even own a bag of doritos you greycel retard.

"Low T" yet I bet I'm still stronger than your greycel ass. Have you ever even gymcelled before?
 
Alcohol isn't even that good anyway.

Its a looksmin + healthmin that probably tastes bad and I'm glad I never had it.

I dont eat doritos or even own a bag of doritos you greycel retard.

"Low T" yet I bet I'm still stronger than your greycel ass. Have you even gymcelled before?
Imo in moderation its ok.
For the taste eh differs from person to person.
 
"Low T" yet I bet I'm still stronger than your greycel ass. Have you even gymcelled before?
Only thing you are stronger than me is mentally. If I got rejected more than 10 times I'd have roped already.
Gym is cope, I've a nice jaw and have lost count of aproaches btw.
 
Only thing you are stronger than me is mentally. If I got rejected more than 10 times I'd have roped already.
Gym is cope, I've a nice jaw and have lost count of aproaches btw.
So you said you never gymcelled which means you can't deadlift 535lbs / 243kg for a one rep max or bench press 295lb / 134kg for a 1 rep max which means you arent physically stronger than me. good to know (also I can PM you video proof if you have doubts).
 
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So you said you never gymcelled which means you can't deadlift 535lbs / 243kg for a one rep max or bench press 295lb / 134kg for a 1 rep max which means you arent physically stronger than me. good to know (also I can PM you video proof if you have doubts).
You deadlifted 243kg as a 5' 6 manlet? Send proof.
 
Just join clubs or sports or something. I got a pretty decently sized friend group doing that.
 
So you said you never gymcelled which means you can't deadlift 535lbs / 243kg for a one rep max or bench press 295lb / 134kg for a 1 rep max which means you arent physically stronger than me. good to know (also I can PM you video proof if you have doubts).
Mogs me mirin BBC strength tbh.
 
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He is retarded, the US offers unparalleled opportunities but will this low-T cuck use them or will he succumb and eat doritos at home.
Eat shit, the neo-Darwinian hellscape that is socializing as middle class kid in the US is crazy complex and not easy
 
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Its so hard to build a social circle in school after the first week.
 
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Over. I always have shit luck on the first month of school
Same, I fucked up first month of middle school then first month of high school. And Im gonna fuck up my first month of college, so brutal.
 
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Same, I fucked up first month of middle school then first month of high school. And Im gonna fuck up my first month of college, so brutal.
If we had the looks, we would be in every social circle.

But because we dont... we are stuck to rot on here or on .co
 
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What do you look like?
 
Just make friends and be normal.
 
By leaking nudes for high e black foids to thirst at


As lil wayne says (timestamped)
 
Shit makes no sense to me.

Does it form out of mid air or some shit? I've never been able to get into social circles because of being excluded all through out high school.

Never even began for me.
First day or sports and mutual friends otherwise idk tbh
 
I’ve basically been a loner all throughout high school. Need to fix myself asap. Maybe I will move to another country or some shit to make a new start where no one knows me and more open to making new friendships, because where I live people mostly keep their friends from youth. My aspergers is also mild, so I should have a chance.
 
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You start with preferably one to two friends
 
I’ve basically been a loner all throughout high school. Need to fix myself asap. Maybe I will move to another country or some shit to make a new start where no one knows me and more open to making new friendships, because where I live people mostly keep their friends from youth. My aspergers is also mild, so I should have a chance.
Just Asianmax
 
Being completely isolated is better than being rejected by all the girls in your social circle if you're lucky enough to have one tbh
 
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You must have some negative energy work on your personality next
 
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Ever heard of "cliques"? If you are stranger and you try to approach a group of social circle, most likely you will be told to fuck off unless you bring "something" valuable to the table (usually in form of status, lifestyle (money), connection to other people, know popular girls, or you are hot girl, etc)
 
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Don't be ugly. It is that simple.
 
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Got the same problem. Reason's that I don't talk to people or that when I do it's awkward/autistic. Try alcohol or Xanax I've had people tell me "I'm like a different person".
Truth. I'm a happy drunk apparently and become dangerously low-inhib.

OP, your best bet is to look like you have nothing to do, and wait for people to ask you for favours or help, do it half-ass and start a talk with them. Works for me. Don't look busy or it doesn't work though.
 
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Tbh I’ve never seen it where it wasn’t the case of just be first theory. I had the same friends in middle school that I had in high school, and everyone I know in college hangs out with people they met the first week
Over if you didn't have friends in school
 
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Just be friend of 1 person and then they'll introduce you to their social circle
 
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In a school setting, you're really not safe if you are sub chad and don't have a close friend group or a belong to a clique. Even the nerds and aspies need their clique to survive. These are mostly static environments. And once the status quo has been set, that's pretty much it. And that's the problem. Imagine being lessthannormie and having no friends to back you up, no one to introduce you to people, get you into parties, school clubs, events, etc.

These are your formative years. It's priceless, but NOT everything. Yet, you can't deny the effect of constant rejection on your psyche. Your inner confidence will be shot and need to be built from the ground up. Most people can't handle that pressure and just fold and LDAR.

Once you're outside of the school setting, things do change and become more dynamic. You still have to work hard on yourself to fit in more places, and become a well rounded person though.
 
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