I need 5 to 8 hobbies to try this year that will help me meet women. To have sex with.

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People keep saying "Try new hobbies! Broaden your horizons!" I've been doing that. No dice so far. But I'll keep trying. They say you need to commit 6 to 7 weeks to a hobby before you give up on it. By then if you're not into it, feel free to move on. That gives me time for about 5-8 hobbies to really hit hard this year.

But I'm looking for hobbies that will help me meet women. I'm surrounded by dudes, I need to meet women. Ideally, sexually loose women. I'll start the list.

  1. Cooking
  2. Yoga
  3. Art
  4. Rock Climbing
 
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People keep saying "Try new hobbies! Broaden your horizons!" I've been doing that. No dice so far. But I'll keep trying. They say you need to commit 6 to 7 weeks to a hobby before you give up on it. By then if you're not into it, feel free to move on. That gives me time for about 5-8 hobbies to really hit hard this year.

But I'm looking for hobbies that will help me meet women. I'm surrounded by dudes, I need to meet women. Ideally, sexually loose women. I'll start the list.

  1. Cooking
  2. Yoga
  3. Art
  4. Rock Climbing

And ur gay
 
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Do not do Hobbys for attention/affection


Only do it for yourself

Foids are literal NPCs and Normies mostly too

If you are a Chad and you are very fucking good at a non-NT hobby, they will follow you and might try it too or they will praise you for it
 
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U are still on the Bluepill my nigga, go study the principles of the Blackpill

 
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Do not do Hobbys for attention/affection


Only do it for yourself

Foids are literal NPCs and Normies mostly too

If you are a Chad and you are very fucking good at a non-NT hobby, they will follow you and might try it too or they will praise you for it

U are still on the Bluepill my nigga, go study the principles of the Blackpill




Where am I supposed to find women to impress with my skills? I need a social environment. Not just one or two women who've never met each other. I need enough of a social circle that gossip can spread about me.
 
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Don't try to get into "hobbies" just for the attention from women. Do what hobby fits you, and if women come with it, even better, but even if they don't, its ok, cus it's for your enjoyment. Women won't make the hobby fun.
 
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I put u on ignore on incels.is because you post so much bluepilled shit, be careful what u post here boyo
 
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book club, language exchange, anything involving animals, helping seniors, cooking, art
 
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Don't try to get into "hobbies" just for the attention from women. Do what hobby fits you, and if women come with it, even better, but even if they don't, its ok, cus it's for your enjoyment. Women won't make the hobby fun.

I don't actually enjoy anything then. All I want is to live an exciting life of sex-having.

book club, language exchange, anything involving animals, helping seniors, cooking, art

Cooking and art I already included. The other things though, what's a "language exchange?" Also, when you say "helping seniors," does it have to be seniors, or can it be volunteering for anyone in need?
 
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I already have enough hobbies to cope aside from looksmaxing:

Cooking / good food
Traveling
Photography
Hiking
Reading
Museum
Learning languages
Escortcelling

And yes all of them can be enjoyed alone because I hate being social
:feelshaha:
 
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I already have enough hobbies to cope aside from looksmaxing:

Cooking / good food
Traveling
Photography
Hiking
Reading
Museum
Learning languages
Escortcelling

And yes all of them can be enjoyed alone because I hate being social
:feelshaha:

Nah, I need hobbies where I'll meet down women. Not solitary hobbies.
 
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Salsa dancing
 
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there is no point having sex unless you are chad tbh sex is only worthwile if there is mutual appraisal for intrinsic value expressed in terms of face, height and frame
 
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Become a male stripper
 
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Chad sits in on the couch all day jacking off and still has girls texting him to come over
 
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3 options:

Sports
Language
Music

Do something related to those 3 options tbh
 
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learn how to play a guitar = instant respect from both genders
if you are low inhib and can sing well AND play a guitar = reaction from girls -> (Wow so cool:love:)

This is not easy tho. Will take at least few years to be decent at it and learn music theory.
Sports
Language
This is good too
 
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Chad sits in on the couch all day jacking off and still has girls texting him to come over

How do women find him?

3 options:

Sports
Language
Music

Do something related to those 3 options tbh

How would an adult do sports if they weren't in college? The only sports people watch are school sports and professional sports.

learn how to play a guitar = instant respect from both genders
if you are low inhib and can sing well AND play a guitar = reaction from girls -> (Wow so cool:love:)

This is not easy tho. Will take at least few years to be decent at it and learn music theory.

This is good too

I don't need years. I just need a couple of months to see if I'm actually interested in it.
EDIT: But suppose I do get good at music. Where am I supposed to find women to impress with my guitar?
 
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How do women find him?



How would an adult do sports if they weren't in college? The only sports people watch are school sports and professional sports.



I don't need years. I just need a couple of months to see if I'm actually interested in it.
EDIT: But suppose I do get good at music. Where am I supposed to find women to impress with my guitar?

running and swimming are still sports bro
 
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running and swimming are still sports bro

I don't understand. Suppose I wanted to take up running as a sport. Like, running around the block? Is there some running league I'm supposed to join? Who would watch me? Are women supposed to watch me? How do I meet women through running?
 
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I don't understand. Suppose I wanted to take up running as a sport. Like, running around the block? Is there some running league I'm supposed to join? Who would watch me? Are women supposed to watch me? How do I meet women through running?

Your city doesnt have a park or some place that people go to do some exercise? That people create groups to do exercises together?
 
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The best hobby is fucking and photoshopping Tinder and Instagram pics
 
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Your city doesnt have a park or some place that people go to do some exercise? That people create groups to do exercises together?

Oh, join an exercise group? Okay, now I getcha. Do they have swimming groups?
 
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Do not do Hobbys for attention/affection


Only do it for yourself

Foids are literal NPCs and Normies mostly too

If you are a Chad and you are very fucking good at a non-NT hobby, they will follow you and might try it too or they will praise you for it
What’s NPC
 
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Oh, join an exercise group? Okay, now I getcha. Do they have swimming groups?

idk. Probably? You have to go to a swim club or something like that.

The main ideia IMO is to go to a place that you can see the same woman frequently without seeming to tryhard.

Learning a new language, doing exercises or learning some instrument are the first things that come to my mind where, from others perspective, you are doing this because you want to do this, and not because you're chasing women.
 
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If you try to take on that many at once you won’t get good at any of them pick two
 
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If you try to take on that many at once you won’t get good at any of them pick two

I'm not doing them all at once, I'm committing to one at a time, for about 6-7 weeks each.

idk. Probably? You have to go to a swim club or something like that.

The main ideia IMO is to go to a place that you can see the same woman frequently without seeming to tryhard.

Learning a new language, doing exercises or learning some instrument are the first things that come to my mind where, from others perspective, you are doing this because you want to do this, and not because you're chasing women.

I'm absolutely doing this to chase women. I only want hobbies where I can chase women.
 
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So there's this degenerate soy cuck, this dickless, hopeless worm of a human being, who asked women what their hobbies are.



artinair6: I love to cook. I'm also into photography. My biggest hobby addiction is shopping. Not even necessarily buying things, just window shopping and trying in clothes is fun.

CarmaAlert: Playing badminton, reading, D&D, drawing, knitting, fishing and procrastinating dangerously much

3v420694: Gaming, drawing, painting

bigswampgoblin: netball, horse riding and DIY

JulesUtah: Podcast, do a little side hustle for a PI who sucks at genealogy type research, collect Fiestaware, play Heroes of the Storm.

bubblegumscorpio: yoga, baking, reading

MonkeysFanny: Gaming, building furniture, and remodeling.

Maes-Truth-: Wood burning art, ghost hunting, photography, exploring abandoned buildings, writing my books and comics, hanging at cemeteries

bruceoverdose: Pole dancing. Not for anyone, just for me, I enjoy it and challenging myself to learn moves but also be stronger and more flexible to help myself be better. It’s also not a mindless activity, I find if I went to a gym and did a routine of ten this and ten of that I just go into my own head and reflect on my life/day/week when sometimes I don’t have the healthiest thoughts. Pole dancing isn’t strenuous mentally but you still have to think about what you’re doing - this hand here, that one there and how to transition to next move.

buzzcocksrule: reading. gaming. visiting concerts. cuddle with my cat.

green-roses: Writing, watching movies, altering clothes, embroidery.

fueled_by_rootbeer: Reading fantasy/adventure novels, playing videogames, and med/large scale metalworking

lemontiffy: Drawing, jogging.

sneakosgirl: Calligraphy, Aquariums, Programming, Cooking,

KeldeoKillsDragons: Drawing, Reading, playing music(on the flute) and playing my switch when I get the time. I took up cooking because I suck at it and should know how to feed myself. I do miss tae kwon do.

Jellyoscar: Photography.

ThatOneWhoSparkles: Manga, anime, drawing, video games

SquigglyBong: Sims. Sims and reading.

Look at this shit. This is almost useless to me. They're almost ALL solitary activities! Look at this shit!!! WHY is Reddit filled with so many fuckin' nerds??? And I'm glad that they're happy. Far be it from me to tell people what to enjoy. But fuck, this is some bad advice for me to take. These people know nothing about the kind of life I wanna live. It gets to the point where I'm sick of "introverts" or whatever people wanna call it now. I'm sick of this Netflix and cat GIFs culture. Why don't people go out and do things anymore?
 
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People keep saying "Try new hobbies! Broaden your horizons!" I've been doing that. No dice so far. But I'll keep trying. They say you need to commit 6 to 7 weeks to a hobby before you give up on it. By then if you're not into it, feel free to move on. That gives me time for about 5-8 hobbies to really hit hard this year.

But I'm looking for hobbies that will help me meet women. I'm surrounded by dudes, I need to meet women. Ideally, sexually loose women. I'll start the list.

  1. Cooking
  2. Yoga
  3. Art
  4. Rock Climbing
Just lol if u thing those hobbies will make women interested in u. My advice is to find a job where you can money and status max
 
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Just lol if u thing those hobbies will make women interested in u. My advice is to find a job where you can money and status max

It's not about making women interested in me. It's about finding women.
 
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religion as a hobby. don't chose a religion, where women are very restricted sexually. These buddhist clubs for example, 70% female
 
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The best activity you can do, and I tried many things is joining an acting class, group or amateur theater troupe. It's great because it teaches you how to act, how to pretend that you are another person, how to speak loud and clearly, how to control your body language and your gestures, etc.
Also, there a lot of girls in these groups and many of them are quite promiscuous, I couldn't believe how many of them were from single parent families, they were raised only by their moms and didn't have a father figure around, so they had this desire to become famous and be wanted by many men.
 
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Okay, so far I've got...

  1. Yoga
  2. D&D/roleplaying
  3. Cooking
  4. Food festivals?
  5. Art
  6. Rock Climbing
  7. Book Club
  8. Language Exchange/Learn a new language
  9. Something involving animals
  10. Helping seniors/Volunteering?
  11. Salsa dancing
  12. Music festivals
  13. Stripping/pole dancing
  14. Exercise group
  15. Sports (Badminton, netball)
  16. Horse riding
  17. Tae Kwon Do
  18. Learn an instrument
  19. Religion (Buddhism?)
  20. Acting/Theatre

Yoga and D&D can go, I already tried those and nothin's shakin'. I still need clarification from @auboutduprecipice, @Lifewasted, and @DoctorPMA.

@auboutduprecipice: When you say "helping seniors," does it have to be seniors, or can it be volunteering for anyone in need?

@Lifewasted: Did you say "food festivals?"

@DoctorPMA: If I learn to sing/play an instrument, where am I supposed to find women to impress with my talents? What good is knowing how to sing if I have no one to sing to?
 
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Okay, so far I've got...

  1. Yoga
  2. D&D/roleplaying
  3. Cooking
  4. Food festivals?
  5. Art
  6. Rock Climbing
  7. Book Club
  8. Language Exchange/Learn a new language
  9. Something involving animals
  10. Helping seniors/Volunteering?
  11. Salsa dancing
  12. Music festivals
  13. Stripping/pole dancing
  14. Exercise group
  15. Sports (Badminton, netball)
  16. Horse riding
  17. Tae Kwon Do
  18. Learn an instrument
  19. Religion (Buddhism?)
  20. Acting/Theatre

Yoga and D&D can go, I already tried those and nothin's shakin'. I still need clarification from @auboutduprecipice, @Lifewasted, and @DoctorPMA.

@auboutduprecipice: When you say "helping seniors," does it have to be seniors, or can it be volunteering for anyone in need?

@Lifewasted: Did you say "food festivals?"

@DoctorPMA: If I learn to sing/play an instrument, where am I supposed to find women to impress with my talents? What good is knowing how to sing if I have no one to sing to?
Some of these hobbies sound decent. It is odd to go for hobbies JUST do get girls. If you don't enjoy them then its waste of time. Dont do it JUST to get women. The reason I suggested guitar is because its what girls like and its a good skill to have. Of course there is no guarantee that you will sing to anyone, it just kind of happens in social situations. Out of all these hobbies music festivals are definitely the fastest way to meet women but I would not call that a hobby. Again, don't go there just to meet women. Go for the music festival and if you meet someone then great, of not, its whatever. Don't push it.
 
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Some of these hobbies sound decent. It is odd to go for hobbies JUST do get girls. If you don't enjoy them then its waste of time. Dont do it JUST to get women. The reason I suggested guitar is because its what girls like and its a good skill to have. Of course there is no guarantee that you will sing to anyone, it just kind of happens in social situations. Out of all these hobbies music festivals are definitely the fastest way to meet women but I would not call that a hobby. Again, don't go there just to meet women. Go for the music festival and if you meet someone then great, of not, its whatever. Don't push it.

Ah, see you don't understand. I have no social situations. How could I possibly? That's why I need hobbies strictly for meeting women. Because I need the social situation.
 
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Are you at least a low-tier normie (preferrably at least mid-tier tho) and NT? Imo hobbies won't do much if you don't fit the above criteria. They can halo u ofc but only if you're at least average looking and socially adept.
 
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scratch this year goodbye
 
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