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Looks, Charisma, Masculine Virtues
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I think it's best time to stop saying NT and start saying personality.
Personality = Social status, Social approval, Respected by peers and with Peers who have a mainstream touch about them. If you are able to flow and have good timing for humour and carry yourself with relaxation then that's a good personality to a chick. If she has a problem and you have a logical fix, which she never thought about because her head is too consumed by worry and stress, that again is a good personality for a chick. If you choke under pressure because you are too obsessed with what is FAMILIAR to you and associate that familiarity to your social identity, then you need to change that.
I speak as someone who has always been "NT" as you put it. I am not being big headed but my humour isn't bad and I've tended to always made girls laugh. I am a little charismatic and hold my frame. I used to be decent looking and now I am just dead average with fat. So yes, a NT personality with social acceptance and approval does compensate for a lack of looks and even as someone good looking you need these other factors as a man. It's only Chad looking men who don't need it. Like @Amnesia who is an introvert that doesn't find mainstream society interesting at all, like as in he can't even fake it and still gets away with that because he is sexy af to women.
If you have 5'7+ height, compact midface, ok sense of humour, broad perspective on shit in life, while understanding mainstream thinking, then all you need to do is create habits and build contacts. Basically make friends. MALE FRIENDS. Who are more mainstream and NT. That's really it. If that involves sucking up to them for a bit, so be it. Then you'll be around girls more and understand how the game works and that they are passive creatures that look for things that look good and entertain them. If you can look acceptable and entertain, then you're gonna get that validation which you all crave on here that builds your confidence.
You're all Zoomers (Under 25) and you should be doing this. If you find it hard, look at places on MeetMe and join a club. Then just fall into making friends. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, but the more clubs you do join and go to, the higher probability there is of it happening. Sure there'll be others who are not NT that join these clubs too, but there'll be others that are whom do too.
Personality = Social status, Social approval, Respected by peers and with Peers who have a mainstream touch about them. If you are able to flow and have good timing for humour and carry yourself with relaxation then that's a good personality to a chick. If she has a problem and you have a logical fix, which she never thought about because her head is too consumed by worry and stress, that again is a good personality for a chick. If you choke under pressure because you are too obsessed with what is FAMILIAR to you and associate that familiarity to your social identity, then you need to change that.
I speak as someone who has always been "NT" as you put it. I am not being big headed but my humour isn't bad and I've tended to always made girls laugh. I am a little charismatic and hold my frame. I used to be decent looking and now I am just dead average with fat. So yes, a NT personality with social acceptance and approval does compensate for a lack of looks and even as someone good looking you need these other factors as a man. It's only Chad looking men who don't need it. Like @Amnesia who is an introvert that doesn't find mainstream society interesting at all, like as in he can't even fake it and still gets away with that because he is sexy af to women.
If you have 5'7+ height, compact midface, ok sense of humour, broad perspective on shit in life, while understanding mainstream thinking, then all you need to do is create habits and build contacts. Basically make friends. MALE FRIENDS. Who are more mainstream and NT. That's really it. If that involves sucking up to them for a bit, so be it. Then you'll be around girls more and understand how the game works and that they are passive creatures that look for things that look good and entertain them. If you can look acceptable and entertain, then you're gonna get that validation which you all crave on here that builds your confidence.
You're all Zoomers (Under 25) and you should be doing this. If you find it hard, look at places on MeetMe and join a club. Then just fall into making friends. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, but the more clubs you do join and go to, the higher probability there is of it happening. Sure there'll be others who are not NT that join these clubs too, but there'll be others that are whom do too.
