Lack of female attention/sex is not the reason for our unhappiness.

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Or even validation, take it from me. To many users here, I am currently receiving close to ideal attention from a female.
-16 year old
- virgin
- attractive
- feminine
- conservative
- clingy

yet i find myself to be rotting in my room all throughout the week, sometimes i drink by myself or smoke some weed and im only 17 jfl. Once you get an ounce of female attention you realise how useless it is, life is much more than just females and sex/attention/validation. If I'm receiving such a wonderful thing, why am I bored with no direction in life? Why can I not bring myself to do coursework or homework that has been set for months? I have no motivation to play even video games sometimes.

I live for the weekends, where I occasionally do drugs or very often smoke some weed and life is just one big repetitive mess regardless of "muh social life" muh "virgin girl"
 
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Mental health is very underrated on this site

I actually will make a high effort thread in this section for mental health maxxing instead of my usual shitposting

Having no inner peace and constant mental issues and unresolved trauma is a recipe for disaster even if your chad
 
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Mental health is very underrated on this site

I actually will make a high effort thread in this section for mental health maxxing

Having no inner peace and constant mental issues and trauma is a recipe for disaster
Yeah nothing truly seems to stick for me though, i just hate school, i hate the fact that routine occupies my life. I am going to grow up another year, go to university, become some 9-5 drone and destined to live some average life which isn't even possible after being blackpilled.
 
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Mental health is very underrated on this site

I actually will make a high effort thread in this section for mental health maxxing

Having no inner peace and constant mental issues and unresolved trauma is a recipe for disaster even if your chad
yas queen
 
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Or even validation, take it from me. To many users here, I am currently receiving close to ideal attention from a female.
-16 year old
- virgin
- attractive
- feminine
- conservative
- clingy

yet i find myself to be rotting in my room all throughout the week, sometimes i drink by myself or smoke some weed and im only 17 jfl. Once you get an ounce of female attention you realise how useless it is, life is much more than just females and sex/attention/validation. If I'm receiving such a wonderful thing, why am I bored with no direction in life? Why can I not bring myself to do coursework or homework that has been set for months? I have no motivation to play even video games sometimes.

I live for the weekends, where I occasionally do drugs or very often smoke some weed and life is just one big repetitive mess regardless of "muh social life" muh "virgin girl"
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only thing I'll say is women lie about being a virgin a LOT.
It's hard to tell though esp when they're conservative. Thinking the girl you're talking to is the 'exception' ain't the way to go
 
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Or even validation, take it from me. To many users here, I am currently receiving close to ideal attention from a female.
-16 year old
- virgin
- attractive
- feminine
- conservative
- clingy

yet i find myself to be rotting in my room all throughout the week, sometimes i drink by myself or smoke some weed and im only 17 jfl. Once you get an ounce of female attention you realise how useless it is, life is much more than just females and sex/attention/validation. If I'm receiving such a wonderful thing, why am I bored with no direction in life? Why can I not bring myself to do coursework or homework that has been set for months? I have no motivation to play even video games sometimes.

I live for the weekends, where I occasionally do drugs or very often smoke some weed and life is just one big repetitive mess regardless of "muh social life" muh "virgin girl"
you don't need validation whatever happens. you need validation when you deserve it, if u find a girl like that u motivated af
 
only thing I'll say is women lie about being a virgin a LOT.
It's hard to tell though esp when they're conservative. Thinking the girl you're talking to is the 'exception' ain't the way to go
Yeah but all the signs are there fortunately, she seemed very inexperienced (couldnt even go more than 2 inches during oral)
doesnt post on instagram
ability to pair bond very well etc

i do sometimes doubt she is, but i do believe she is a virgin, hopefully anyway

did u find out ur gf wasnt a virgin or smth?
you don't need validation whatever happens. you need validation when you deserve it, if u find a girl like that u motivated af
what u mean? i dont understand
 
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Being ugly and socially rejected is a good reason to be unhappy. A complete lack of female attention is a symptom of that.

I do agree though that it's not everything. I ascended at 23yo, but my neorotransmitters were already fried from 23 years of inceldom so it's over for me tbh. Neurotransmitter pill is too much to take.
 
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Being ugly and socially rejected is a good reason to be unhappy. A complete lack of female attention is a symptom of that.
I havent been ugly/socially rejected for a long time now..
 
I havent been ugly/socially rejected for a long time now..
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tbh we just live in one of the worst times to be alive. Society is completely fucked and meaningless.
 
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Mental health is very underrated on this site
Don't you dare talk about this or a gang of unhappy, low T assholes will call this coping. Misery loves company, which is why most try to bring others down here.
 
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tbh we just live in one of the worst times to be alive. Society is completely fucked and meaningless.
That's what I believe the main cause is, here are some factors that i think contribute to the MASS DEPRESSION ACROSS THE WORLD (NAMELY FIRST WORLD/2ND WORLD COUNTRIES)

- sexual liberation, which is bad for both genders, but especially bad for women (destroys their ability to pairbond)
- the death of the nuclear family
- the realisation of how we are being manipulated by the elite, 9-5 drones for the rest of our lives
- normies are incels in denial. Life sucks for the average man, yet it is fine for the average woman (at least until she truly hits the wall, which happens later than 30 despite what copers here say)
 
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That's what I believe the main cause is, here are some factors that i think contribute to the MASS DEPRESSION ACROSS THE WORLD (NAMELY FIRST WORLD/2ND WORLD COUNTRIES)

- sexual liberation, which is bad for both genders, but especially bad for women (destroys their ability to pairbond)
- the death of the nuclear family
- the realisation of how we are being manipulated by the elite, 9-5 drones for the rest of our lives
- normies are incels in denial. Life sucks for the average man, yet it is fine for the average woman (at least until she truly hits the wall, which happens later than 30 despite what copers here say)
Agree with you completely. At the same time there is a culture of self-hatred/victimhood in the west and completely ambition-less leadership and governance.

Not a single shred of idealism or long-term goals in my country (Netherlands).

I've said before but personally I would see myself volunteering for a nationalist socialist paramilitary force if it ever arises like it did 100 years ago in Europe. It's time for big changes and within this political climate it is impossible to do so, so there's a big need for a violent civil war tbh. It would give me some purpose at least.
 
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Agree with you completely. At the same time there is a culture of self-hatred/victimhood in the west and completely ambition-less leadership and governance.

Not a single shred of idealism or long-term goals in my country (Netherlands).
Yeah leftism cucked ur country, it did the same to me as well (UK)

The left are slowly destroying this world lol
 
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I think my constant unhappiness lies in my eternal desire for more, for better, and for things I've never got. When I was in LTR with female attention 24/7 I got bored quickly and started to long for better looking girls. I also look at people who had happier, more fulfilling youth and compare it to my adolescence. Then I just become depressed and only want to rotmaxx.
 
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I think my constant unhappiness lies in my eternal desire for more, for better, and for things I've never got. When I was in LTR with female attention 24/7 I got bored quickly and started to long for better looking girls. I also look at people who had happier, more fulfilling youth and compare it to my adolescence. Then I just become depressed and only want to rotmaxx.
I think hedonism and overstimulation is the core reason for unhappiness, entertainment is everywhere, and hedonism leads to the degenerate behaviour in society
 
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I think my constant unhappiness lies in my eternal desire for more, for better, and for things I've never got. When I was in LTR with female attention 24/7 I got bored quickly and started to long for better looking girls. I also look at people who had happier, more fulfilling youth and compare it to my adolescence. Then I just become depressed and only want to rotmaxx.
Same shit here with the shitty childhood situations. I have become extremely black/white perfectionist in my thinking, I cannot relax in my present because I want to compensate for my shit past.
 
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Same shit here with the shitty childhood situations. I have become extremely black/white perfectionist in my thinking, I cannot relax in my present because I want to compensate for my shit past.
Yeah I had a tough childhood too. Pretty sure I already told you about my sociopathic father and bipolar emotionally damaged mother.
 
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Same shit here with the shitty childhood situations. I have become extremely black/white perfectionist in my thinking, I cannot relax in my present because I want to compensate for my shit past.
Now my biggest wish is to reverse aging, change my identity, lie about my age and live like a teenager till my 40s tbh
 
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Yeah I had a tough childhood too. Pretty sure I already told you about my sociopathic father and bipolar emotionally damaged mother.
Yup. My parents are complete nutjob retards aswell. Idk how you get over a shit childhood tbh.
 
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Mental health is very underrated on this site

I actually will make a high effort thread in this section for mental health maxxing instead of my usual shitposting

Having no inner peace and constant mental issues and unresolved trauma is a recipe for disaster even if your chad
looking forward to reading it. I was gonna make one too soon, idk which subforum to post it on. I guess off topic since it’s not “looksmaxing”?
 
Now my biggest wish is to reverse aging, change my identity, lie about my age and live like a teenager till my 40s tbh
Same. I want to do anything as close as possible to reliving a childhood. I can't see myself happily working a 9-5 job with other adults in my current mental state when I never got to be a child.
 
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Yup. My parents are complete nutjobs retards aswell. Idk how you get over a shit childhood tbh.
I think you have to truly just try to "let go" and live your life. I believe the bluepilled advice for happiness is actually legit, blackpilled thinking is way too toxic.
 
Same. I want to do anything as close as possible to reliving a childhood. I can't see myself happily working a 9-5 job with other adults in my current mental state when I never got to be a child.
My biggest chagrin is that I'm getting old without even having been young
 
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Yeah nothing truly seems to stick for me though, i just hate school, i hate the fact that routine occupies my life. I am going to grow up another year, go to university, become some 9-5 drone and destined to live some average life which isn't even possible after being blackpilled.

That's me, fucking literally me, I've been thinking of dropping out of the formative course I'm doing rn, and spend 1 year trying to get the most amount of money I can do. I wasted all my life anyways.
 
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That's me, fucking literally me, I've been thinking of dropping out of the formative course I'm doing rn, and spend 1 year trying to get the most amount of money I can do. I wasted all my life anyways.
How old are you? im 17, and already want to LDAR my whole life i dont want to be some slave to society

I just can never focus on school, or school work, u have the same problem?
My biggest chagrin is that I'm getting old without even having been young
27 isnt too bad tbh, u kinda fucked up with LTR but i guess its not that bad. If u have good aging genetics, dont listen to retards here saying u hit the wall everyday.. just take good care of urself

no sugar
no drugs
no smoking
no alcohol

that is if u want to keep ur youth
 
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Yeah but all the signs are there fortunately, she seemed very inexperienced (couldnt even go more than 2 inches during oral)
doesnt post on instagram
ability to pair bond very well etc

i do sometimes doubt she is, but i do believe she is a virgin, hopefully anyway

did u find out ur gf wasnt a virgin or smth?

what u mean? i dont understand
nah she sounds a lot like the girl you're talking to.
You just can't ever know though. Girls aren't retarded. Lying is their lifeline
 
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How old are you? im 17, and already want to LDAR my whole life i dont want to be some slave to society

I just can never focus on school, or school work, u have the same problem?

Turned 18 2 months ago, can't even focus on myself. That's the biggest problem, I can't even play video games or get satisfaction from anything.
 
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nah she sounds a lot like the girl you're talking to.
You just can't ever know though. Girls aren't retarded. Lying is their lifeline
She sends me essays about how much she likes me, literally 500 words sometimes, she wants me to commit etc.. also yeah i do agree, but despitte wwhat this forum thinks there are clearly girls or women out there that arent complete trash..
Turned 18 2 months ago, can't even focus on myself. That's the biggest problem, I can't even play video games or get satisfaction from anything.
Same here, sometimes i think its the weed/or drugs that made me realise how much better a life of a rapper or some shit would be. i am 17, but u havent really lost out on your youth..
 
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I can't see myself working a job ever, because of a simple mental reason:

If I can't be happy right now in my early 20s, with good physical health, well-off financially (compared to other students that have little money so it doesn't matter that I am 'poor' aswell), reasonable looks, surrounded with young energetic people, etc.

How the fuck is money from some 9-5 job going to help me? Worst thing is that since I have been NEETing, incel friends of mine have been graduating and starting their careers: They aren't any happier or better off than when they were still students. Usually worse off and longing back to those times, even though they weren't happy as students either. They just cope by spending money on random materialistic shit and thinking they are better than other because they make more money and have a job and are 'responsible'. JFL cope.

Seems like life just gets worse the older you get and the more you start living an adult life. Problem is my life was shit to begin with even in childhood, so it goes from shit, to shittier, to shittiest, to rope. :feelsrope:

The blackpill/realism seems to be extremely effective at destroying copes in your mind designed to cope with the shittyness of life.
 
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no sugar
no drugs
no smoking
no alcohol
I never touched the latter 3 things but I used to sugarmaxx (coke, candy, ice cream, chocolate), junkfoodmaxx (kfc, burger King), stressmaxx and sleepmin. Now I'm making up for the mistakes I used to make.
 
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Or even validation, take it from me. To many users here, I am currently receiving close to ideal attention from a female.
-16 year old
- virgin
- attractive
- feminine
- conservative
- clingy

yet i find myself to be rotting in my room all throughout the week, sometimes i drink by myself or smoke some weed and im only 17 jfl. Once you get an ounce of female attention you realise how useless it is, life is much more than just females and sex/attention/validation. If I'm receiving such a wonderful thing, why am I bored with no direction in life? Why can I not bring myself to do coursework or homework that has been set for months? I have no motivation to play even video games sometimes.

I live for the weekends, where I occasionally do drugs or very often smoke some weed and life is just one big repetitive mess regardless of "muh social life" muh "virgin girl"
Because your dopamine receptors are fried u need to have a fat dopamine fast for a few days no music no porn no drugs no social media
 
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My neurotransmitters are fried too from being the fat kid during my childhood and early teen years, bonus having a pizza face, i was truecel tier because of those two factors and truly ugly. What even more comical is that st my early teen years i thought it's cute to expose your eyes as much as possible with UEE and all and i looked like a absolute faggot cuck. I really want to punch my old self because of it
 
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Because your dopamine receptors are fried u need to have a fat dopamine fast for a few days no music no porn no drugs no social media
Ur from UK aren’t you?
Because your dopamine receptors are fried u need to have a fat dopamine fast for a few days no music no porn no drugs no social media
also i’m on nodal atm, and no porn. No drugs is doable but i would like to keep smoking weed, and social media is very hard to give up
 
Same here, sometimes i think its the weed/or drugs that made me realise how much better a life of a rapper or some shit would be. i am 17, but u havent really lost out on your youth..

It's not that I lost my youth, is just that I've been dodging reality for 18 years, and now it's hitting me hard. Atleast now I know that I've been dodging it, but I seem so lost rn, I have a few positive expectations and I'm starting to change some habits, if after a year I still am the guy I've always been I'll just off myself.
 
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It's not that I lost my youth, is just that I've been dodging reality for 18 years, and now it's hitting me hard. Atleast now I know that I've been dodging it, but I seem so lost rn, I have a few positive expectations and I'm starting to change some habits, if after a year I still am the guy I've always been I'll just off myself.
19 is far too early to give up. What’s your problems
 
Ur from UK aren’t you?

also i’m on nodal atm, and no porn. No drugs is doable but i would like to keep smoking weed, and social media is very hard to give up
Ye I am I get u see weed as a soft drug shit still fries your dopamine receptors u gotta stop for a while and afterwards I promise you the little things in life become more enjoyable again
 
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Not tryna be a 9-5 drone in an office. Especially during a time of stagnant Wage growth, rising wealth inequality, rampant financial insecurity and unaffordable housing. Fuck this shit bro
 
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female attention makes me MORE mentally unstable in a very bad way, more depressed, more shit. better off alone?
 
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Ye I am I get u see weed as a soft drug shit still fries your dopamine receptors u gotta stop for a while and afterwards I promise you the little things in life become more enjoyable again
I’ve been smoking since 14, 17 atm. my use was not that much until late 15/16 where it started being multiple times in the week and sometimes weekends or vice versa, then i started occasionally doing other drugs at 16 but not excessively so it can’t have fried my brain. I believe the sadness comes from the fact how much more fun I have off a pinger compared to sober in my room alone rotting
female attention makes me MORE mentally unstable in a very bad way, more depressed, more shit. better off alone?
Talk to me ooooohhhh
 
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19 is far too early to give up. What’s your problems

You could be right, but I feel like giving myself a deadline will get me the internal pressure I need.
 
Not tryna be a 9-5 drone in an office. Especially during a time of stagnant Wage growth, rising wealth inequality, rampant financial insecurity and unaffordable housing. Fuck this shit bro
Exactly, what other ways can you make money though, that are not as unreliable as a con artists word or illegal..
You could be right, but I feel like giving myself a deadline will get me the internal pressure I need.
What’s your height and face rating, no bias. you can pm me if u want honest rate
 
Or even validation, take it from me. To many users here, I am currently receiving close to ideal attention from a female.
-16 year old
- virgin
- attractive
- feminine
- conservative
- clingy

yet i find myself to be rotting in my room all throughout the week, sometimes i drink by myself or smoke some weed and im only 17 jfl. Once you get an ounce of female attention you realise how useless it is, life is much more than just females and sex/attention/validation. If I'm receiving such a wonderful thing, why am I bored with no direction in life? Why can I not bring myself to do coursework or homework that has been set for months? I have no motivation to play even video games sometimes.

I live for the weekends, where I occasionally do drugs or very often smoke some weed and life is just one big repetitive mess regardless of "muh social life" muh "virgin girl"

Do the following:
-expose yourself, meet and interact with people constantly everyday
-self Cognitive behavior therapy
-take cabergoline and shrooms
 
I’ve been smoking since 14, 17 atm. my use was not that much until late 15/16 where it started being multiple times in the week and sometimes weekends or vice versa, then i started occasionally doing other drugs at 16 but not excessively so it can’t have fried my brain. I believe the sadness comes from the fact how much more fun I have off a pinger compared to sober in my room alone rotting

Talk to me ooooohhhh
How does weed feel like? I never tried it
 
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Exactly, what other ways can you make money though, that are not as unreliable as a con artists word or illegal..

What’s your height and face rating, no bias. you can pm me if u want honest rate
I guess you can invest and build up a passive income but apart from that there’s nothing.

Social unrest is coming in the next 10-15 years guaranteed. Another recession like 2008 will tip things over
 
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Do the following:
-expose yourself, meet and interact with people constantly everyday
-self Cognitive behavior therapy
-take cabergoline and shrooms
I’m not a rotter, my life generally goes like this

weekends i’m out at least one day being social
in the week, i occasionally go out to smoke weed with one friend particularly but can be anyone.

I don’t wanna build a tolerance to more substances, i already am dependent on weed and sometimes cigarettes. What is self cognitive behaviour therapy?
 

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