My final thoughts on NT

[Deleted member 10987]

If you read my thread i said being nt comes natural u cant change even if u wanted to

What if you ascend and remain the same ?

 

[Deleted member 10987]

@ArvidGustavsson is right, just observe how women talk about good looking men, most of the time they literally come "crawling" to them on social media. I'd also add that most normies definitely aren't successful with women, it's just that they're larping about it because they can't handle the fact that they're not desirable to them. One blowjob from a drunk landwhale after a party isn't exactly getting laid.

Fucking this
Let normies inhale copiul

 

[Deleted member 12303]

What if you ascend and remain the same ?

U have to conpensate with looks thats my point

 

[Deleted member 10987]

U have to conpensate with looks thats my point

Yeah but only looks matter

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Yeah but only looks matter

 

[Deleted member 6908]

I think it's best time to stop saying NT and start saying personality.

Personality = Social status, Social approval, Respected by peers and with Peers who have a mainstream touch about them. If you are able to flow and have good timing for humour and carry yourself with relaxation then that's a good personality to a chick. If she has a problem and you have a logical fix, which she never thought about because her head is too consumed by worry and stress, that again is a good personality for a chick. If you choke under pressure because you are too obsessed with what is FAMILIAR to you and associate that familiarity to your social identity, then you need to change that.

I speak as someone who has always been "NT" as you put it. I am not being big headed but my humour isn't bad and I've tended to always made girls laugh. I am a little charismatic and hold my frame. I used to be decent looking and now I am just dead average with fat. So yes, a NT personality with social acceptance and approval does compensate for a lack of looks and even as someone good looking you need these other factors as a man. It's only Chad looking men who don't need it. Like @Amnesia who is an introvert that doesn't find mainstream society interesting at all, like as in he can't even fake it and still gets away with that because he is sexy af to women.

If you have 5'7+ height, compact midface, ok sense of humour, broad perspective on shit in life, while understanding mainstream thinking, then all you need to do is create habits and build contacts. Basically make friends. MALE FRIENDS. Who are more mainstream and NT. That's really it. If that involves sucking up to them for a bit, so be it. Then you'll be around girls more and understand how the game works and that they are passive creatures that look for things that look good and entertain them. If you can look acceptable and entertain, then you're gonna get that validation which you all crave on here that builds your confidence.

You're all Zoomers (Under 25) and you should be doing this. If you find it hard, look at places on MeetMe and join a club. Then just fall into making friends. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, but the more clubs you do join and go to, the higher probability there is of it happening. Sure there'll be others who are not NT that join these clubs too, but there'll be others that are whom do too.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

I think it's best time to stop saying NT and start saying personality.

Personality = Social status, Social approval, Respected by peers and with Peers who have a mainstream touch about them. If you are able to flow and have good timing for humour and carry yourself with relaxation then that's a good personality to a chick. If she has a problem and you have a logical fix, which she never thought about because her head is too consumed by worry and stress, that again is a good personality for a chick. If you choke under pressure because you are too obsessed with what is FAMILIAR to you and associate that familiarity to your social identity, then you need to change that.

I speak as someone who has always been "NT" as you put it. I am not being big headed but my humour isn't bad and I've tended to always made girls laugh. I am a little charismatic and hold my frame. I used to be decent looking and now I am just dead average with fat. So yes, a NT personality with social acceptance and approval does compensate for a lack of looks and even as someone good looking you need these other factors as a man. It's only Chad looking men who don't need it. Like @Amnesia who is an introvert that doesn't find mainstream society interesting at all, like as in he can't even fake it and still gets away with that because he is sexy af to women.

If you have 5'7+ height, compact midface, ok sense of humour, broad perspective on shit in life, while understanding mainstream thinking, then all you need to do is create habits and build contacts. Basically make friends. MALE FRIENDS. Who are more mainstream and NT. That's really it. If that involves sucking up to them for a bit, so be it. Then you'll be around girls more and understand how the game works and that they are passive creatures that look for things that look good and entertain them. If you can look acceptable and entertain, then you're gonna get that validation which you all crave on here that builds your confidence.

You're all Zoomers (Under 25) and you should be doing this. If you find it hard, look at places on MeetMe and join a club. Then just fall into making friends. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, but the more clubs you do join and go to, the higher probability there is of it happening. Sure there'll be others who are not NT that join these clubs too, but there'll be others that are whom do too.

I think it has to do more with a social energy you emit than your personality. It sounds far fetched but there a reason I believe in it. Some boring guys who talk little and are akward have alot of friends and get decent girls. Its because they have a good vibe to them. I think your personality doesnt matter if your presence is uncomfortable. Maybe you have this energy and thats why you dont relate.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

I think it has to do more with a social energy you emit than your personality. It sounds far fetched but there a reason I believe in it. Some boring guys who talk little and are akward have alot of friends and get decent girls. Its because they have a good vibe to them. I think your personality doesnt matter if your presence is uncomfortable. Maybe you have this energy and thats why you dont relate.

Talking little doesn't make you boring. This is the thing. It's your perspective that's wrong. You conflict the two.

If you talk little, but when you do talk, what you say is valuable/interesting/funny or whatever and adds to the flow of the social dynamic, then you are a valuable asset to the team. As your touch assists. Sure you aren't the extrovert but without you it wouldn't be the same. And yes, your presence definitely helps if you are good looking and what you say has twice the impact if you are good looking. Absolutely. But like you say, there are many average guys who have social circles and girlfriends that are equally average, just with makeup and do fine. They can say little too

The mark of a great man is one who has the option to be bad and dangerous. If you have the option to speak and be interesting/funny but just play it calm until spoken to then you're gonna be fine. As you are equipped. That's the difference between someone who chooses to stay quiet and someone who is forced to through social anxiety / fear. You believing becoming better looking will sort your social anxiety / fear may hold some truth to it, but because you are so used to being in a state of anxiety/fear it may not pan out that way in real life if you ever do become good looking through surgery, development or whatever. Because your brain is hard wired now. It takes time to change your brain's habits and then you may feel the pressure of having to live up to your looks.

Even back in the day I was never extroverted. More in between I would say and only spoke when it was relevant.

Looks are massive. No doubt. Black pill is real. No doubt. But the reason the average or marginally below average guys on here see it more than others is due to a lack of social interaction and being inadvertently outcasted from society. Things just panned out that way unfortunately. Conforming is wise at a young age and little boys have it tougher than girls in this regard. Esp in today's age where the internet dominates and is always with you in your smartphone. Men need real life experience. Much more so than bitches.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Talking little doesn't make you boring. This is the thing. It's your perspective that's wrong. You conflict the two.

If you talk little, but when you do talk, what you say is valuable/interesting/funny or whatever and adds to the flow of the social dynamic, then you are a valuable asset to the team. As your touch assists. Sure you aren't the extrovert but without you it wouldn't be the same. And yes, your presence definitely helps if you are good looking and what you say has twice the impact if you are good looking. Absolutely. But like you say, there are many average guys who have social circles and girlfriends that are equally average, just with makeup and do fine. They can say little too

The mark of a great man is one who has the option to be bad and dangerous. If you have the option to speak and be interesting/funny but just play it calm until spoken to then you're gonna be fine. As you are equipped. That's the difference between someone who chooses to stay quiet and someone who is forced to through social anxiety / fear. You believing becoming better looking will sort your social anxiety / fear may hold some truth to it, but because you are so used to being in a state of anxiety/fear it may not pan out that way in real life if you ever do become good looking through surgery, development or whatever. Because your brain is hard wired now. It takes time to change your brain's habits and then you may feel the pressure of having to live up to your looks.

Even back in the day I was never extroverted. More in between I would say and only spoke when it was relevant.

Looks are massive. No doubt. Black pill is real. No doubt. But the reason the average or marginally below average guys on here see it more than others is due to a lack of social interaction and being inadvertently outcasted from society. Things just panned out that way unfortunately. Conforming is wise at a young age and little boys have it tougher than girls in this regard. Esp in today's age where the internet dominates and is always with you in your smartphone. Men need real life experience. Much more so than bitches.

Reports from men who have failed after hiring PUAS made me lose all hopes of learning to become social

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Reports from men who have failed after hiring PUAS made me lose all hopes of learning to become social

PUAs can only help guys that are good looking.

Cold approaching is only for good looking normies at bare minimum.

All these idiots that paid PUAs are either ugly, below average or average. Average only runs if you're 6'1 bare minimum.

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Nt is cope unless you're a gigamentalcel
Those average guys getting girls its just that the girl had no choice and he was the best option at the moment and no not every girls are whore so when they get in a relationship they dont always leave you the first chance they get.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Nt is cope unless you're a gigamentalcel
Those average guys getting girls its just that the girl had no choice and he was the best option at the moment and no not every girls are whore so when they get in a relationship they dont always leave you the first chance they get.

It enough to fufill your sexual needs

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Sex with a girl that doesnt actually want you is like jerking off with a lose grip and a bad porn video.

It depends on what you're into. Being with hookers that didn't want me was very appealing to my sadistic side. I even went so far as to intentionally make them more uncomfortable.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Example of someone incredibly NT with a mainstream cool personality but is average to may be slightly above average looking at best:

Phillion.

Sure he has put on a bit of fat during quarantine, but he is 6/10 at best

Watch the whole video:

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Most guys are super ugly thats why you see this.

if a girl wants a relationship the majority has no choice but to settle with some subhuman

 

[pakipassion]

Looks open you first door and you will get much more invitation for carrying things further you need to be NT.

And you have to learn NT habbits by force if you are intovert or have grown up in environment with lots of self imposed restrictions. Good thing is that habbits can be learned

Just make a list of thing that will help you reaching particular point , like suppressing approach anxiety , overcoming social anxiety, not caring about what people will think and so on ..Work on this religiously for 6 weeks and you will see the results.