Nofap failing REEE

[janoycresva]

Need some advice

> 4 months ago
> fapping to weird porn daily
> female at Uni talks to me every time I see her
> female asks for my social media, I say I don't have any
> female tells me her plans for the summer, that are very specific in detail
> summer starts and I decide to do no fap for spiritual reasons with no desire for so called super powers
> Uni starts, 2+ months of no fap in the book
> see female, first words out of my mouth are "how was said specific plan?" instead of just "how was your summer?"
> female realizes I have no SMV because I must have been thinking about her all summer to remember said specific plan
> now every time i see female, she just waves slightly with no smile on her face.
> maybe something is bothering her
> "muh no fap super powers"
> still incel
> still delusional
> going to start meditating and doing week long fasts while continuing no fap

do you boyos have any advice or is it ogre?

 

[BigBoy]

that shows you remembered certain things she said. that makes most ppl like u more.

 

[Luke LLL]

Need some advice

> 4 months ago
> fapping to weird porn daily
> female at Uni talks to me every time I see her
> female asks for my social media, I say I don't have any
> female tells me her plans for the summer, that are very specific in detail
> summer starts and I decide to do no fap for spiritual reasons with no desire for so called super powers
> Uni starts, 2+ months of no fap in the book
> see female, first words out of my mouth are "how was said specific plan?" instead of just "how was your summer?"
> female realizes I have no SMV because I must have been thinking about her all summer to remember said specific plan
> now every time i see female, she just waves slightly with no smile on her face.
> maybe something is bothering her
> "muh no fap super powers"
> still incel
> still delusional
> going to start meditating and doing week long fasts while continuing no fap

do you boyos have any advice or is it ogre?

She just lost interest

 

[Deleted member 2788]

"muh nofap superpowers" lmao

Just cuz u acted autistic as you probably usually do, you dont need to blame that on nofap, wtf? Nofap is good to control your dopamine levels. It aint gonna give you superpowers i'm sorry.

 

[janoycresva]

that shows you remembered certain things she said. that makes most ppl like u more.

that's what I would think but since then she's been strange, seems like she's avoiding me lmao.

She just lost interest

ur right, but fuck that sucks cuz she's the only girl that's showed at least some level of interest in me who I've been attracted to back.

"muh nofap superpowers" lmao

Just cuz u acted autistic as you probably usually do, you dont need to blame that on nofap, wtf? Nofap is good to control your dopamine levels. It aint gonna give you superpowers i'm sorry.

i agree. no fap is a good thing which is why im gonna keep doing it but like you said, yeah that super powers attraction thing where females can't resist you because of your retained semen is BS. I actually thought it was legit for a bit because Evola and some Hindu's wrote about semen retention giving you sexual superpowers lmao

 

[Deleted member 2788]

that's what I would think but since then she's been strange, seems like she's avoiding me lmao.

ur right, but fuck that sucks cuz she's the only girl that's showed at least some level of interest in me who I've been attracted to back.

U waited the whole summer to end to talk to her again and u wonder why she lost interest. Next time take action and don't miss the opportunity, fag. She prob met someone more interesting in summer. Women like man with attitude.

 

[janoycresva]

U waited the whole summer to end to talk to her again and u wonder why she lost interest. Next time take action and don't miss the opportunity, fag. She prob met someone more interesting in summer. Women like man with attitude.

she was in a different city all summer boyo, that would have been impossible. How do I get this so called "attitude" that femoids like? I can't looksmax any farther unless i grow out a blonde beard, get 2 tattoo sleeves and hop on gear. That's impossible right now tho.

 

[Deleted member 1464]

try drinking soy

Spoiler

 

[janoycresva]

try drinking soy

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piss

 

[Deleted member 2788]

she was in a different city all summer boyo, that would have been impossible. How do I get this so called "attitude" that femoids like? I can't looksmax any farther unless i grow out a blonde beard, get 2 tattoo sleeves and hop on gear. That's impossible right now tho.

Improve your social skills. Start some sport activity like basketball where you have to interact with people. Swimming lessons. Dancing lessons. Anything you like. Try to make friends with more people. Talk to everyone. Be nice to everyone. Dont walk at uni with a psycho face. Work on your charisma.
If u need help, there's some posts here talking about low inhib supplements that could help. U can also try ashwaganda, @PrettyBoyMaxxing said it helps with anxiety so you can try that.
Go at night bars and cold approach woman. This will help you lose fear of talking yo woman a bit. Drink alcohol to help with low inhib when doing so.
Lots of things you can do m8

 

[janoycresva]

Improve your social skills. Start some sport activity like basketball where you have to interact with people. Swimming lessons. Dancing lessons. Anything you like. Try to make friends with more people. Talk to everyone. Be nice to everyone. Dont walk at uni with a psycho face. Work on your charisma.
If u need help, there's some posts here talking about low inhib supplements that could help. U can also try ashwaganda, @PrettyBoyMaxxing said it helps with anxiety so you can try that.
Go at night bars and cold approach woman. This will help you lose fear of talking yo woman a bit. Drink alcohol to help with low inhib when doing so.
Lots of things you can do m8

Basketball? Bro I'm not ethnic or a white kid who listens to rap. I hate basketball.

Swimming lessons? I already know how to swim, I took lessons for half my life, I've met the US Navy SEAL PFT competitive marks for the 500 yard breast stroke when I was a fat 230lbs powerlifter with shit tier cardio.

Dancing lessons? I'm not gay, Im not a slave and I'm not a woman. Why would I dance?

Anything I like? I don't like anything, the things I do in my life are to build characters, every thing I do BUILDS CHARACTER. I don't like, I do. The only pleasure in my life comes from watching a YouTube video with a cheat meal on Friday. I run 50+ miles a week and I lift 3 times a week, I don't have time to do more shit that I like.

Friends? They're all in a different area right now.

Talk to everyone? People think you're a creep if you approach everyone.

Be nice to everyone? I am.

Don't walk around uni with a psycho face? What's a psycho face? I don't think I do that.

Charisma? Bro, I'm an autistic fuark. I know I need to work on my charisma. I don't know how, that's what I'm asking.

Go to bars and cold approach? Cold approach doesn't work, femoids will approach you and make it super obvious if they really want you or not at night clubs.

I'll try ashwaganda.

REEEEE THIS SHIT WOULD BE SO MUCH EASIER IF I JUST LOOKED LIKE LACHOWSKI.

 

[GenericChad1444]

that shows you remembered certain things she said. that makes most ppl like u more.

no, it means she lived in his rent free the entire summer whilst she completely forgot about him and was getting railed every night

 

[janoycresva]

no, it means she lived in his rent free the entire summer whilst she completely forgot about him and was getting railed every night

U think she knows that? Because that is what happened, I sat in my room browsing forums while she was traveling and probably having intercourse with Chad.

 

[GenericChad1444]

U think she knows that? Because that is what happened, I sat in my room browsing forums while she was traveling and probably having intercourse with Chad.

100% u remembered such a specific thing after 3 months, she thinks ur easy and needy

 

[janoycresva]

100% u remembered such a specific thing after 3 months, she thinks ur easy and needy

it's over

this is the honest answer i was looking for

 

[BigBoy]

it's over

this is the honest answer i was looking for

it depends on how u said it

 

[TylerDurden]

You are overthinking this a bit too much; this is in all honesty what probably happened :
> you meet the girl, make small talk and all that; you start to like her because she's kind of cute and one of the few, (if any) cute, decent girls that seems to have expressed a romantic interest in you.

> she meets you, probably thinks you're cute enough to ask you all that stuff or whatever, but you aren't Chad so she isn't drooling, but willing to give you a chance.

Take a step back and examine this situation closely. In this power-dynamic there is ALWAYS a winner and a loser.
1 - the winner - (the girl) the person who cares the least. This person has all the power simply because they are the better-looking/more options available in this interaction.
2 - the loser - (you, this is not meant to be an insult) you cared more from the beginning because why wouldn't you ? She was one of the only cute girls to take this interest in you so of course you would start to like her and such.

With Chad, these roles are usually always reversed and if you made a move right from the beginning (like you should've), you would've had a chance at reversing the power dynamic. You didn't, and that power dynamic got solidified and your window was slammed shut. Now you are the only one who lost something in this dynamic (time, thinking about her, all that BS), meanwhile she couldn't give a rat's ass.

 

[janoycresva]

You are overthinking this a bit too much; this is in all honesty what probably happened :
> you meet the girl, make small talk and all that; you start to like her because she's kind of cute and one of the few, (if any) cute, decent girls that seems to have expressed a romantic interest in you.

> she meets you, probably thinks you're cute enough to ask you all that stuff or whatever, but you aren't Chad so she isn't drooling, but willing to give you a chance.

Take a step back and examine this situation closely. In this power-dynamic there is ALWAYS a winner and a loser.
1 - the winner - (the girl) the person who cares the least. This person has all the power simply because they are the better-looking/more options available in this interaction.
2 - the loser - (you, this is not meant to be an insult) you cared more from the beginning because why wouldn't you ? She was one of the only cute girls to take this interest in you so of course you would start to like her and such.

With Chad, these roles are usually always reversed and if you made a move right from the beginning (like you should've), you would've had a chance at reversing the power dynamic. You didn't, and that power dynamic got solidified and your window was slammed shut. Now you are the only one who lost something in this dynamic (time, thinking about her, all that BS), meanwhile she couldn't give a rat's ass.

Wow, this is also a very good and rational answer. Really put the whole thing into a clear perspective. Thanks.

So is there any way to potentially win back this femoid or is it ogre since she's closed the window?

it depends on how u said it

I was just like, "hey "femoids name" how was "such and such plan""? lol

 

[TylerDurden]

Wow, this is also a very good and rational answer. Really put the whole thing into a clear perspective. Thanks.

So is there any way to potentially win back this femoid or is it ogre since she's closed the window?

I was just like, "hey "femoids name" how was "such and such plan""? lol

It's over. I can tell you caught feelings (wanting to win her over and thinking about her past a summer), but it's all just hope at the end of the day. It is just your brain hoping that you guys will end up together because you liked her. I know it stings, but the truth is it's been over; the sooner you start avoiding her/getting her out of your head, the sooner your brain can stop hoping for something to come of her and you can get over her.

No foid is special. The best solution is to looksmaxxx until you have girls like her at your disposal and am the one they are day-dreaming about and not vice-versa.

 

[janoycresva]

It's over. I can tell you caught feelings (wanting to win her over and thinking about her past a summer), but it's all just hope at the end of the day. It is just your brain hoping that you guys will end up together because you liked her. I know it stings, but the truth is it's been over; the sooner you start avoiding her/getting her out of your head, the sooner your brain can stop hoping for something to come of her and you can get over her.

No foid is special. The best solution is to looksmaxxx until you have girls like her at your disposal and am the one they are day-dreaming about and not vice-versa.

Thanks, makes sense. That's all I needed.

 

[Ruby]

lol it doesnt matter whether you remembered her plan or not you probably behaved like a needy virgin

 

[janoycresva]

lol it doesnt matter whether you remembered her plan or not you probably behaved like a needy virgin

lol i act very nonchalant for the most part, I try to avoid taking action and approaching first because I feel like people just don't want to be around me. what @TylerDurden said is pretty much what happened

 

[Ruby]

bu

lol i act very nonchalant for the most part, I try to avoid taking action and approaching first because I feel like people just don't want to be around me. what @TylerDurden said is pretty much what happened

bullshit why would she interact with you if she didnt like you? dobt just lose hope be a man and straight up ask her out

 

[janoycresva]

bu

bullshit why would she interact with you if she didnt like you? dobt just lose hope be a man and straight up ask her out

because i have this mental block bro, im just an autist, i think i have AVPD or some shit

 

[Ruby]

because i have this mental block bro, im just an autist, i think i have AVPD or some shit

hmm i dont think you have autism many guys can get a word out of their mouth when they talk to girls you could go somewhere where nobody knows you and practice with random girls

 

[janoycresva]

hmm i dont think you have autism many guys can get a word out of their mouth when they talk to girls you could go somewhere where nobody knows you and practice with random girls

thanks for the advice but i think i'd just embarrass myself, maybe I'll stroll the Coronado bars with my Navy SEAL Operator buddies after I pass BUD/S.

Spoiler: listen guy

srs not srs, maybe srs

 

[Ruby]

thanks for the advice but i think i'd just embarrass myself, maybe I'll stroll the Coronado bars with my Navy SEAL Operator buddies after I pass BUD/S.

Spoiler: listen guy

srs not srs, maybe srs

maybe you will embarrass yourself but who cares you will never see those girls again

 

[Chintuck22]

Need some advice

> 4 months ago
> fapping to weird porn daily
> female at Uni talks to me every time I see her
> female asks for my social media, I say I don't have any
> female tells me her plans for the summer, that are very specific in detail
> summer starts and I decide to do no fap for spiritual reasons with no desire for so called super powers
> Uni starts, 2+ months of no fap in the book
> see female, first words out of my mouth are "how was said specific plan?" instead of just "how was your summer?"
> female realizes I have no SMV because I must have been thinking about her all summer to remember said specific plan
> now every time i see female, she just waves slightly with no smile on her face.
> maybe something is bothering her
> "muh no fap super powers"
> still incel
> still delusional
> going to start meditating and doing week long fasts while continuing no fap

do you boyos have any advice or is it ogre?

Fuck her bro, imagine having a friend for 7 years, and he dumbs you because you said something stupid, it ain't worth it

 

[onnysk]

>Be constantly dominant with female and never let her have edge over me
>Female wants to see me and gives me hints she's attracted and that she's not that interested in her bf
>Fap to extreme porn daily in the meantime
>Fall for nofap meme to improve my chances even further
>See female again and she senses she has the power now because nofap makes you bluepilled and slave to pussy
>Female ghosts and keeps contact to minimal


Nofap = beta cuck

Fap + porn = dark triad psychopath



Women hate porn and videogames, wonder why? because they work and get your mind of pussy, making you attractive to women, however they don't like that you can cheat that feeling, they want only natural Chads to not care about women. They need normal men to invest in her so she can cuck them or else she has to do the work. So when they sense that you do nofap they see a prey like a shark sees blood in water, not satisfying your sexual urges makes you easy to manipulate and creates a need in your mind.

I never seen a nofapper get laid first date, usually it happens on 4th or 5th, I wonder why

 

[Bennett]

How the fuck did you not ask her out once during the summer