[Bluepill] personality actually matters sometimes

Tyrionlannistercel

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After months browsing this site it sounds ludicrous to say that personality matters even a little bit, I know, I feel weird about it too. But it's true.

I know a couple of girls who are best friends. And one of them mogs the other (she has a more defined jawline and smaller nose) but I have talked a lot more to the one that gets mogged and I actually enjoy her personality more (as in she likes dark humour and isn't a normie, also has similar interests) and now, even though I can logically see that her best friend has a higher PSL I'd still rather fuck the one I spent more time with and got to know her personality.

[blackpill] Obviously I'm not delusional, I'm aware this is only the case because both are cute and the difference between their looks level isn't big. Otherwise personality wouldn't be enough to make her more attractive, but it's not to say that it doesn't matter at all. Of course if she was really ugly then there's no amount of personality that could make up for that.

But this is lifefuel for normie looking guys like me. As long as you pass a certain looks threshold you can increase by a lot your perceived attractiveness with your personality and how much time you spend with the girl.
 
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Of course a foid's personality matters to a guy, but the guy's personality does not matter to the foid if the looks threshold is met.
 
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Nothing bluepilled here, for males personality is important, for females it's not.
Edit: I once had a crush on a girl who was somewhat chubby and far from Stacy just because she was quite intelligent. Obviously she didn't want to do anything with me because I didn't meet her standards
 
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As long as looks threshold is met, personality doesnt mean shit unless he has serial killer tier anger control problem.
 
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As long as looks threshold is met, personality doesnt mean shit unless he has serial killer tier anger control problem.
if you're slightly under the treshold it can bring you within the treshold
or

if you're exactly or slighty above the treshold and you're super boring to her she may replace you with a snap of a finger that looks as good as you do and not as boring

i wouldnt even call it "personality". i would call it social skills, social intelligence, verbal iq etc. you have to be able to express yourself in a pleasant way, what you say doesnt even matter most of the time you just have to make her comfortable with your non verbal communication (posture, tonality, speed of speech, eye contact, speed of breathing, gestures, facial mimicks etc)
 
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As long as looks threshold is met, personality doesnt mean shit unless he has serial killer tier anger control problem.
I disagree. I think there are two thresholds.

The first one is when the girl looks at you and thinks: he's alright
If thats the case then sex isn't guaranteed by any means but it's possible to work with that and maybe get it, the better looking you are, the easier it will be.

The second one is when the girl looks at you and thinks: THIS GUY IS SO FUCKING HOT
in this scenario then you're all set. even if you say you worship hitler and you have raped a little boy she probably will still want to fuck you.
 
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I disagree. I think there are two thresholds.

The first one is when the girl looks at you and thinks: he's alright
If thats the case then sex isn't guaranteed by any means but it's possible to work with that and maybe get it, the better looking you are, the easier it will be.

The second one is when the girl looks at you and thinks: THIS GUY IS SO FUCKING HOT
in this scenario then you're all set. even if you say you worship hitler and you have raped a little boy she probably will still want to fuck you.
Totally agreed.
 
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Male and female mindsets work differently sometimes.
It's the same for women. There was a study done on this, but personality+money+status matters more for them when evaluating mates than us. While men mainly care about looks.
Of course a foid's personality matters to a guy, but the guy's personality does not matter to the foid if the looks threshold is met.
I hate to say it, but it's not true.
Nothing bluepilled here, for males personality is important, for females it's not.
Edit: I once had a crush on a girl who was somewhat chubby and far from Stacy just because she was quite intelligent. Obviously she didn't want to do anything with me because I didn't meet her standards
Here is the study for you three. Although I'm NOT saying looks don't matter, because they 100% do.




everything matters, personality included

denialists and defeatists like to extremise looks theory and blackpill whereas in real life its way more chaotic and random than its presented on the forums. obviously the foundations of BP are undeniably true nevertheless
Which fundamentals? I'm not disagreeing, I'm seeing if our beliefs match up.
 
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It's the same for women. There was a study done on this, but personality+money+status matters more for them when evaluating mates than us. While men mainly care about looks.

I hate to say it, but it's not true.


Here is the study for you three. Although I'm NOT saying looks don't matter, because they 100% do.





Which fundamentals? I'm not disagreeing, I'm seeing if our beliefs match up.
Females are more lookist.
 
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5/10 virgin gf >10/10 slut
 
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Which fundamentals? I'm not disagreeing, I'm seeing if our beliefs match up.
just the very basics of the blackpill. people often go too deep into theories that dont even make sense and end up focusing on the wrong thing

this will be partly the theme of my next thread in following days
 
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Females are more lookist.
Society in general is very lookist.

But I don't like females more in the looks regard. While if a guy has an ugly girl approach him he wouldn't think she was creepy, but if a girl has an ugly guy approach her she will automatically think he's creepy in most cases.
just the very basics of the blackpill. people often go too deep into theories that dont even make sense and end up focusing on the wrong thing

this will be partly the theme of my next thread in following days
Bet, tag me in the comments when you make it in case I don't get to see it. I'm interested to see what you write.
 
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It's the same for women. There was a study done on this, but personality+money+status matters more for them when evaluating mates than us. While men mainly care about looks.

I hate to say it, but it's not true.


Here is the study for you three. Although I'm NOT saying looks don't matter, because they 100% do.





Which fundamentals? I'm not disagreeing, I'm seeing if our beliefs match up.
Bluepilled kikedstudies I'm not touching them probably what happened the female went for the 7ft guy and said she liked his confidence
 
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It’s all your hormones at the end of the day.

Ashwaganda is a good step in the right direction. Everyone should be cortisol minning. Even when I was at my ugliest, literally, moments I still had “good” days thanks to the Ashwagandha.
 
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Bluepilled kikedstudies I'm not touching them probably what happened the female went for the 7ft guy and said she liked his confidence
No lol, it's blackpilled af. It's one of the few studies that pushed me towards incel culture.

It demonstrates that looks matter more to women that pop culture has you to believe. You have to first meet a woman's looks standards before she starts considering your "personalitee". It's just the people here were saying if you meet her looks threshold she's ready to fuck you.
 
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It’s all your hormones at the end of the day.

Ashwaganda is a good step in the right direction. Everyone should be cortisol minning. Even when I was at my ugliest, literally, moments I still had “good” days thanks to the Ashwagandha.
Who the hell is Ashwaganda. Is he another cult Buddhist scam god?
 
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If looks does matter i'm fucked up
If personality matter i'm fucked up
It's over for me moneymax and cope or rope or ER
 
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everything matters, personality included

denialists and defeatists like to extremise looks theory and blackpill whereas in real life its way more chaotic and random than its presented on the forums. obviously the foundations of BP are undeniably true nevertheless
Personality doesn't matter period. People don't understand that being well liked isn't the same as being attractive. Normies often mistake positive attention from women as to mean that they are attracted to them where as in reality a woman can like you "as a friend" but not think you are attractive. I will admit that personality CAN matter for making friends as long as your looks are at least low tier normie level, but for getting laid it just makes literally no difference.
 
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Personality doesn't matter period. People don't understand that being well liked isn't the same as being attractive. Normies often mistake positive attention from women as to mean that they are attracted to them where as in reality a woman can like you "as a friend" but not think you are attractive. I will admit that personality CAN matter for making friends as long as your looks are at least low tier normie level, but for getting laid it just makes literally no difference.
Who cares about friends? Fucking bitches is more fun than waisting time with normies
 
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Who cares about friends? Fucking bitches is more fun than waisting time with normies
Yeah that's not the point of whole thing he wrote.
 
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Personality doesn't matter period. People don't understand that being well liked isn't the same as being attractive. Normies often mistake positive attention from women as to mean that they are attracted to them where as in reality a woman can like you "as a friend" but not think you are attractive. I will admit that personality CAN matter for making friends as long as your looks are at least low tier normie level, but for getting laid it just makes literally no difference.
this is such a narrow mindset coming from someone who probably interacted very little with females. never have i said looks arent the main denominator, it always has been and will. i also stated in my 2nd post in this thread under personality i don't mean your interests and PUA style pickup things, more so things related to non-verbal communication that are still part of your personality including posture, eye contact, speed of breathing/speech, facial gestures, tonality etc.

i also said these mostly matter if your close to the treshold. if your way above her treshold of what she'd fuck, she'll likely fuck you no matter what or if you're too much under it wont matter anything either way

but in certain cases it can be the deciding variable
 
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After months browsing this site it sounds ludicrous to say that personality matters even a little bit, I know, I feel weird about it too. But it's true.

I know a couple of girls who are best friends. And one of them mogs the other (she has a more defined jawline and smaller nose) but I have talked a lot more to the one that gets mogged and I actually enjoy her personality more (as in she likes dark humour and isn't a normie, also has similar interests) and now, even though I can logically see that her best friend has a higher PSL I'd still rather fuck the one I spent more time with and got to know her personality.

[blackpill] Obviously I'm not delusional, I'm aware this is only the case because both are cute and the difference between their looks level isn't big. Otherwise personality wouldn't be enough to make her more attractive, but it's not to say that it doesn't matter at all. Of course if she was really ugly then there's no amount of personality that could make up for that.

But this is lifefuel for normie looking guys like me. As long as you pass a certain looks threshold you can increase by a lot your perceived attractiveness with your personality and how much time you spend with the girl.
personality is a post-looks bottleneck

it matters once youre already attractive enough to be a "maybe" and can place you into the "yes" or "no" categories from there

if youre good looking enough you will be automatically placed in the "yes" category and your personality wont matter unless you literally are so autistic you never interact with the opposite sex

simple
 
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this is such a narrow mindset coming from someone who probably interacted very little with females. never have i said looks arent the main denominator, it always has been and will. i also stated in my 2nd post in this thread under personality i don't mean your interests and PUA style pickup things, more so things related to non-verbal communication that are still part of your personality including posture, eye contact, speed of breathing/speech, facial gestures, tonality etc.

i also said these mostly matter if your close to the treshold. if your way above her treshold of what she'd fuck, she'll likely fuck you no matter what or if you're too much under it wont matter anything either way

but in certain cases it can be the deciding variable
I have seen women become instantly interested in men only because of their appearance. Women will not wait to see how socially competent you are. They either like you or they don't. And they will make it clear very quickly which is the case.
 
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I have seen women become instantly interested in men only because of their appearance. Women will not wait to see how socially competent you are. They either like you or they don't. And they will make it clear very quickly which is the case.
yes women will be likely willing to fuck men who are at very high % when it comes to looks just based on looks even with a bad personality

but if you arent at this level but still above average often your social skills will be the deciding variable
 
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yes women will be likely willing to fuck men who are at very high % when it comes to looks just based on looks even with a bad personality

but if you arent at this level but still above average often your social skills will be the deciding variable
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