Rejection Appreciation Thread. Hours of guys getting rejected.

[eduardkoopman]

Being very familiar with rejections myself.
What better thing to do, once in a while. Then to go back down rejection memory lane;and enjoy the pains of rejections. Which we all somehow survived, since we are all still here.
Instead of netflix binge wtahcing. You can go rejection binge watching.


To appriciate rejection.
And to know we are not the only one getting rejected.
I'll just post the best, quickest I could find of guys getting rejected. Enjoy the hours long content of rejections, on after an other after an other.

[these fourm moderator only aloows 5 videos per post. So I had to cut it up in seperate messages]

 

[Deleted member 2933]

it hurts to watch

 

[eduardkoopman]

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[DarkTriadPeerReview]

That's some PTSD shit, bro, but in all seriousness, rejection is not that bad, at least a woman won't waste your money & time by rejecting/ghosting you straight up (inb4 gigacope)

 

[eduardkoopman]

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[ShredPill]

 

[eduardkoopman]

it hurts to watch

That's some PTSD shit, bro, but in all seriousness, rejection is not that bad, at least a woman won't waste your money & time by rejecting/ghosting you straight up (inb4 gigacope)

Pain,
is the name,
of the dating game.

 

[Usum]

I've been rejected a few times (never harshly) but it's quite easy to avoid if it's painful for you.
Just wait for IOIs then.
Still, rejection helps you build your personae.

 

[mikeock]

You can reduce rejection rate by waiting for IOIs, or, more importantly, waiting for IOAs(Indicators of Availability). A woman indicates availability by her dressing and/or demeanor. If she's dressed well and is just waiting around somewhere, she's probably way more open to an approach. A woman who's dressed frumpily and looks like she's rushing somewhere, or a woman who's doing a job and you try to talk to her, those are not gonna give you the time of day.

 

[RAITEIII]

Poor Chinese guy

 

[eduardkoopman]

I've been rejected a few times (never harshly) but it's quite easy to avoid if it's painful for you.
Just wait for IOIs then.
Still, rejection helps you build your personae.

Waiting for Inviation signals from women, does help ime to reduce the rejection rate. Significantly. Ime, it's not full proof at all also, one still gets rejected more often then accepted entrance to the v. (I must say, I always saw everything not leading to sex, as rejection. While in reality, most proabbly see rejection differently. Because most women don'reject directly but say a reason/situation why they can't (married, location moving, etc. ) or they do give contact info but then flake out, or one does have a nice chat with them but then they refuse to go on a date or meetup again or whatever.

You can reduce rejection rate by waiting for IOIs, or, more importantly, waiting for IOAs(Indicators of Availability). A woman indicates availability by her dressing and/or demeanor. If she's dressed well and is just waiting around somewhere, she's probably way more open to an approach. A woman who's dressed frumpily and looks like she's rushing somewhere, or a woman who's doing a job and you try to talk to her, those are not gonna give you the time of day.

Legit point.
That reduces rejection rate in general.


To add, to both of you reactions about waiting for inviation signals from women: (basically me bitching about, not enough meeting of new women. Not enough numbersgame aspect)
1. women give them out plenty/more in social situations (bar, event, party, etc..); but not so much in daily life situations. So for daily life situations, especially of normie dude, you probably don't or rarely get them.
2. It can be a bit slow, aka not meeting enough new women this way. If you wait for inviation signals from women. Obviously, the main problem is in this case that the dude isn't good looking enough, that he gets plenty invitation signals from women. But it's likely common for mr. normie/dime a dozen. Yet, maybe for women whom don't give approach inviation, they might find that this dude does meet the minimmum barrier of looks to give him a chance if he has other good points.
3. Bubble syndorme. More so then in the past, nowadays more people life in a screen-staring-bubble. being oblivious to the surroundings. This might also cause a drop in handouts of inviation signals from women, even though they would maybe give it out if to you if they actually were not sucked into their phone screen.

 

[Ethnicope]

imagine being ugly and cold approaching european stacies in their everyday lives, like it's some kind of roulette, you just have to wait and you win LMAO

 

[Dicklet.4.3]

neanderthal chads just rape woman. no oga boga rejection shit

 

[Usum]

neanderthal chads just rape woman. no oga boga rejection shit

Your avatar reminds me my HS stacy.

 

[Deleted member 1560]

Thanks for reminding me of my shit lane

 

[eduardkoopman]

imagine being ugly and cold approaching european stacies in their everyday lives, like it's some kind of roulette, you just have to wait and you win LMAO

being ugly, is the basic fault in this.
Like trying to sell a shit-ugly product. It doesn't sell. A nice product, like for example a good Samsung phone, sells easy.

Thanks for reminding me of my shit lane

U'r welcome

neanderthal chads just rape woman. no oga boga rejection shit

Chads don't rape. Because there is not rape, when a women likes, enjoys and wants it. And from Chad, they likely like, enjoy and want the sex with him.

 

[Selfahate]

it hurts to watch

Its lifefuel bro because these guys hate our community and the ideas we believe in
Meanwhile kids are getting it on kn hs

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[eduardkoopman]

these guys hate our community and the ideas we believe in

You think that "they"(pua's and general/nromal dudes) hate blackpill dudes, in general???
I dunno.
Often they disagree on the importance of looks theory. They believe often looks is like number 5 on thethings that matter. And that game, and confidence is most important.
Whereas we believe, and know frome research. The number 1 most important factor is looks.

Such a small difference in views/opinon. causes hate already??
I dunno.

 

[Selfahate]

You think that "they"(pua's and general/nromal dudes) hate blackpill dudes, in general???
I dunno.
Often they disagree on the importance of looks theory. They believe often looks is like number 5 on thethings that matter. And that game, and confidence is most important.
Whereas we believe, and know frome research. The number 1 most important factor is looks.

Such a small difference in views/opinon. causes hate already??
I dunno.

Cope they probably have femanists ideas
Like how porn should be banned and
Prostitution be made ilegal and other destructive ideas like supporting metoo
Never have sympathy for a bluepilled normie because they will hate u

 

[Rasputin]

Waiting for Inviation signals from women, does help ime to reduce the rejection rate. Significantly. Ime, it's not full proof at all also, one still gets rejected more often then accepted entrance to the v. (I must say, I always saw everything not leading to sex, as rejection. While in reality, most proabbly see rejection differently. Because most women don'reject directly but say a reason/situation why they can't (married, location moving, etc. ) or they do give contact info but then flake out, or one does have a nice chat with them but then they refuse to go on a date or meetup again or whatever.

Legit point.
That reduces rejection rate in general.


To add, to both of you reactions about waiting for inviation signals from women: (basically me bitching about, not enough meeting of new women. Not enough numbersgame aspect)
1. women give them out plenty/more in social situations (bar, event, party, etc..); but not so much in daily life situations. So for daily life situations, especially of normie dude, you probably don't or rarely get them.
2. It can be a bit slow, aka not meeting enough new women this way. If you wait for inviation signals from women. Obviously, the main problem is in this case that the dude isn't good looking enough, that he gets plenty invitation signals from women. But it's likely common for mr. normie/dime a dozen. Yet, maybe for women whom don't give approach inviation, they might find that this dude does meet the minimmum barrier of looks to give him a chance if he has other good points.
3. Bubble syndorme. More so then in the past, nowadays more people life in a screen-staring-bubble. being oblivious to the surroundings. This might also cause a drop in handouts of inviation signals from women, even though they would maybe give it out if to you if they actually were not sucked into their phone screen.

BS. If you train your brain you can know almost 100% when a girl will reject you or not. Yet, IOI is bullshit, she could still give you some eye looking but that not means she’s interested she’s just checking your looks. Like, she can find you attractive but not good enough for her, or maybe your pheno/skin color turns her off. That’s it. When a girl likes to for real, she will do the job for you, it’s like magic they make it super easy for you. That’s why PUA scammers sells off their super easy trick to pickup girls, they o my go for the ones they already know they not goi g to be rejected.

 

[eduardkoopman]

BS. If you train your brain you can know almost 100% when a girl will reject you or not.

This is outside of my experience, or reality.
I have only mainly seen (aka regular guys):
* normie-range guys being pro-active, and getting rejected alot and ocassionally meeting a woman that they have good results with;
* normie-range guys being passive, and haveing no or very little results with women. Meeting no/very little women, and massive/long dry spells.

I have never seen a regluar dude, being good at spotting all the women into them and having a 100% success/rejection-free rate.

So explain to us ignoramous. How does this work, this near 0% rejection rate?? (yet still meeting (i assume) enough new people to have active-ishdating life).
What do/did I miss or fail to see?

 

[RAITEIII]

I haven't been able to deal with one single rejection lol. Mentally unstable cel detected.

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

I've been rejected a few times (never harshly) but it's quite easy to avoid if it's painful for you.
Just wait for IOIs then.
Still, rejection helps you build your personae.

Well, rejection is one thing, hitting your head into a wall with day game is another.

This is outside of my experience, or reality.
I have only mainly seen (aka regular guys):
* normie-range guys being pro-active, and getting rejected alot and ocassionally meeting a woman that they have good results with;
* normie-range guys being passive, and haveing no or very little results with women. Meeting no/very little women, and massive/long dry spells.

I have never seen a regluar dude, being good at spotting all the women into them and having a 100% success/rejection-free rate.

So explain to us ignoramous. How does this work, this near 0% rejection rate?? (yet still meeting (i assume) enough new people to have active-ishdating life).
What do/did I miss or fail to see?

99.5% rejection rate is still very much different from 98% rejection rate if you do the most basic screening.

 

[Usum]

Well, rejection is one thing, hitting your head into a wall with day game is another.

I had a 20-30% rejection rate back then with relying on IOIs.
I do not count girls coming to me.

 

[eduardkoopman]

99.5% rejection rate is still very much different from 98% rejection rate if you do the most basic screening.

Yes. it's a significant difference.
I always saw, everything not leading to sex or a relationship, as a rejection.

While in reality it's not all rejection, in the eyes of most. Because I used to maybe sex 1% 1/100 of the women I tried to chat up. But the other 99/100. they were not all "hardcore rejections", some even ofthem lead to dates:
I was kinda like this:
50/100 -> straight up rejection/objection/no-interest
15/100 -> small polite convo, but zero interest beyond that
35/100 -> decent/good conversation, appears to be some interest. open to talk, okay-sih with some touch, inquiring about me, and showing a level of romantic interest.
Dissecting the 35/100
15/100 -> lead to a agreement to meetup again and contact exchange
10/100 -> lead to a date/meetup (aka, 1/3 falked, and about 2/3 followed through)
1/100 -> lead to sex

Above data, is kinda what my life experience has been. A rough estimation, I never kept track of anything. I'm a kinda 4PSL (at best), probably on average in that period of the data collection. Low tier to mid tier normie range

 

[Deleted member 3702]

hehe

 

[eduardkoopman]

I had a 20-30% rejection rate back then with relying on IOIs.
I do not count girls coming to me.

Great, thanks for the input. Much better then my 50+% straight up rejection statt. You have better then me looks, like you are above 4psl (100% average) which maybe could had couased the better statts also (or maybe it's just the ioi thing)?

I'll try the IOI/invitation signal thing also soon. See if it gives me better data.

 

[Usum]

How was or are good PSL/looking?

Girls were from attractive to very attractive to me. When I got a very attractive, I'll stay with her... until she dumps me (happened one time after 2 years)... or i'll find better overall (not only looks then).
Last one was 26 years ago and she (wife) still looks fucking good !
Me : not bad looking but mainly taking risks/masculine.

 

[Enlil]

i can't stand getting rejected that's why i only cold approach desperate milfs.

 

[OCDMaxxing]

FACE & FEMURS

 

[wristcel]

Yes. it's a significant difference.
I always saw, everything not leading to sex or a relationship, as a rejection.

While in reality it's not all rejection, in the eyes of most. Because I used to maybe sex 1% 1/100 of the women I tried to chat up. But the other 99/100. they were not all "hardcore rejections", some even ofthem lead to dates:
I was kinda like this:
50/100 -> straight up rejection/objection/no-interest
15/100 -> small polite convo, but zero interest beyond that
35/100 -> decent/good conversation, appears to be some interest. open to talk, okay-sih with some touch, inquiring about me, and showing a level of romantic interest.
Dissecting the 35/100
15/100 -> lead to a agreement to meetup again and contact exchange
10/100 -> lead to a date/meetup (aka, 1/3 falked, and about 2/3 followed through)
1/100 -> lead to sex

Above data, is kinda what my life experience has been. A rough estimation, I never kept track of anything. I'm a kinda 4PSL (at best), probably on average in that period of the data collection. Low tier to mid tier normie range

interesting.

I'm a cold approach veteran myself. I've made lots of approaches. Nearly 100% of my lays have come from cold approach (at night)

I don't know my PSL rating but i'm like a real life 5 or so, i'd say. Big nose, norwood, weak chin/jaw.

My numbers look fairly similar to yous i'd say. Maybe slightly worse.

If I open 100 hot, much younger girls (i'm' oldcel and mainly target 16-24), i'd say maybe 60 or so are straight up rejections. Sometimes harsh insta rejections. More often just talking too a legit brick wall. There's just no interest from them and it's very clear, very fast
30 of them are 'receptive' in that they are talkative and stuff. We banter. But they're just not sexually into me. They like me and think i'm cool and fun, but they don't want my cock in them. I was never on her radar in that way
10 are like the girls above in that they're receptive and ask me things etc, BUT I can basically tell (usually very early on through their eye contact) that I have a shot here. There's some actual attraction. I close maybe half of these girls

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Nothing beats this one



But seriously, I never understood the point of PUA channels. It's like they're just trying to make their interactions with foids as long as possible. And even those who succeed at doing so do not even get a phone number (let alone get laid).

Surely, after a couple weeks, any sane person would understand how ineffective and pointless that is, but for some reason, after years of rejections, THEY'RE STILL TRYING JFL.

 

[OCDMaxxing]

These are all babby tier....I have been a rejected 500+ times...I'm not longer a living person...I'm a dead corpse walking

 

[Rasputin]

This is outside of my experience, or reality.
I have only mainly seen (aka regular guys):
* normie-range guys being pro-active, and getting rejected alot and ocassionally meeting a woman that they have good results with;
* normie-range guys being passive, and haveing no or very little results with women. Meeting no/very little women, and massive/long dry spells.

I have never seen a regluar dude, being good at spotting all the women into them and having a 100% success/rejection-free rate.

So explain to us ignoramous. How does this work, this near 0% rejection rate?? (yet still meeting (i assume) enough new people to have active-ishdating life).
What do/did I miss or fail to see?

I was not about anything about success. That was about not being rejected anymore. Well, I don’t approach many woman bro, I only approaches the ones who “invites” me. I see no point on approach woman when you already know you’re going to be rejected. It’s so much better for your mind not approach then approaching and being rejected. Even tho after the “invite” she can still makes harder for you or reject but it’s a lot less possible.

This is outside of my experience, or reality.
I have only mainly seen (aka regular guys):
* normie-range guys being pro-active, and getting rejected alot and ocassionally meeting a woman that they have good results with;
* normie-range guys being passive, and haveing no or very little results with women. Meeting no/very little women, and massive/long dry spells.

I have never seen a regluar dude, being good at spotting all the women into them and having a 100% success/rejection-free rate.

So explain to us ignoramous. How does this work, this near 0% rejection rate?? (yet still meeting (i assume) enough new people to have active-ishdating life).
What do/did I miss or fail to see?

I was not about anything about success. That was about not being rejected anymore. Well, I don’t approach many woman bro, I only approaches the ones who “invites” me. I see no point on approach woman when you already know you’re going to be rejected. It’s so much better for your mind not approach then approaching and being rejected. Even tho after the “invite” she can still makes harder for you or reject but it’s a lot less possible. For a girl invite you, you want to be at least mid tier average dude and above off course. If I was bellow this I would just never approach any woman nowadays. It just does not worth, and another thing is not approach any woman above your level.

 

[wristcel]

 

[FuckNW]

just lol

I've been rejected a few times (never harshly) but it's quite easy to avoid if it's painful for you.
Just wait for IOIs then.
Still, rejection helps you build your personae.

Really. It might be painful, and even depressing for some, but the emotional resilience you get will benefit your career at least.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I'm a cold approach veteran myself. I've made lots of approaches. Nearly 100% of my lays have come from cold approach (at night)

LOL. I Must have chatted up more then 500+ women in a 4 year time period from 2007-2011 (then entered an LTR that lasted plenty years). Nearly all was daytime for me, I almost never went out at nights because I basically hated it (highly personal I think it's is, if someone likes the night secene or not. me being introverted and not liking alcohol and overly sensetive to the privilige treatment women get at night in bars/clubs; made me not do that).
I think I'll re-enter the chatting up of women in the near future/soon again. Because I want to try it out again. I am going to be rusty as fuck, fro sure.

My numbers look fairly similar to yous i'd say. Maybe slightly worse.

It's common i think. I known guys who also chatted upplenty women. Pretty regular dudes. Most didn't do btter then 1% for sure. The little bit better looking ones, never got better then 5% orso as well, I guestimate.

, BUT I can basically tell (usually very early on through their eye contact) that I have a shot here. There's some actual attraction. I close maybe half of these girls

I recall also that at some point, I also got decently good at seeing really quickly after approaching a woman how it would/could go with her. I just have to LOL atm at myself, from recall that near the end of that 4 yer time is was so concerned with not waisting time, i semi-regularly just left as a woman was talking to me and I had the feeling/saw this wouldn't go anywhere. I just walked away mid sentence, lol. women was sometimes talking like: "thank you, very great that you do this, and you should keep doing this, but I ...." [eduardkoopman walking away without saying anything, think in his head "waiste of time, next"] I had such a sales-man/numersgame attitude

 

[wristcel]

i've never done daygame. Scares the shit out of me. Also obviously no alcohol to numb the inhibitions. As recently as yesterday I was helping a friend move house and there was a cute girl stanading near where we were unloading, but I didn't have the balls to open her lol

 

[Selfahate]

 

[eduardkoopman]

i've never done daygame. Scares the shit out of me. Also obviously no alcohol to numb the inhibitions. As recently as yesterday I was helping a friend move house and there was a cute girl stanading near where we were unloading, but I didn't have the balls to open her lol

That's a special combination, since you mass chat up women in the evening. Although, I do see and know, that daytime is harder/socially awkward more. It's more outside the norm.
I life a bit in the conrty-side-ish area. The funny part is. Plenty of these elderly guys in this city, are actually mass-chat-upppers in the daytime. Saying hi to all kinds of people, or weather comment, etc.. low inhibation as hell.

imo. location, as in nighttime or daytime. Overall in the end, it doesn't matter much. It's more a matter of preference. Being able to (dare to) do something in both environments, seems ideal to me.
For me I hated night time overall for plenty reasons, so it was an easy thing for me to not go out solely for trying picking up women.

These are all babby tier....I have been a rejected 500+ times...I'm not longer a living person...I'm a dead corpse walking

I found this song, the most represetative. For my singe/dating yeras. Basically getting rejected, alot. I often could feel like this, after a week of having tried to chat up 10 women, and all had rejected/flaked/etc..
Especially, when seeing other couples walking around, being affectionate and stuff.
Brutal.

Somehow that sadness often aftre some time, transformed into anger and motivation. SO that kept me going/running on.



Obviously I was very happy not beings single anymore, when I entered that LTR in 2011. And having a pretty loving and good long term relationship for a couple of years.

And then after my LTR ended.
I could listen to songs like this. And feel sad again. Wanting to take a break from women all together.


LOL @ dating; beings shit. And LOL @ at good relationships ending; being shit. LOL @ life being shit regularly.
I also agree with a top Youtube-comment on that Chris Isaak song: where womeone says: "It is better to have loved & lost, than to have never loved at all." Which is the only motivation, to pull trhough all the shit that comes with being single and getting mass rejected trying to find women/woman. And the hardship of breakups from good things


That woman in his musicclip, what a Stacy that was 1990's

 

[eduardkoopman]

lol cringe compilation orso.

 

[Nosecel]

Rejection should be a criminal offence. Change my mind

 

[Deleted member 4464]

wtf these guys must be masochists, no way I see myself approaching every girl I see on the street and getting brutally rejected and on top of all uploading it on the internet

 

[SMVbender]

I don't appreciate rejection.

I do appreciate success. I do approach and got alot of dates back then in uni. It is all about looks I am 6'2 NGL.

 

[Maxillacel]

FIRST 1000 REJECTIONS ARE JUST WARMUP SON!!!!

 

[justbigboned]

holy shit the 4th video is filmed on my campus