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If you’re a chad since puberty then you can choose between slaying and LTR. You don’t need to prove anything. Whatever choice you make will be justified and you’ll certainly have it easy, be it in achieving a high lay count or getting an attractive girlfriend.
However, if you become gl after 20, especially after having experienced so much trauma, you’ll constantly feel the need to prove your attractiveness, by slaying in many cases. It’s hard for you to take rejections. Chad doesn’t take one rejection seriously because there are ten other girls waiting to suck his dick. But for a late boomer, one rejection is enough to make you question your looksmaxxing achievements.
But after a certain point slaying ceases to improve your self esteem. In face it might worsen it: You simply can’t be appealing to all women, even if you’re psl 7. Some girls simply don’t like you because you’re not their “type” or your personality doesn’t match. The more you try to slay the more rejections you’ll get - a simple matter of probability. And each rejection will make your former conquests senseless and your past trauma resurface.
The ideal lay count might differ individually but for me, I don’t aim for an exact number anymore. This year I already had 3 free lays, all of which I mog, without trying too much. I’ll still feel happy and validated if I can slay girls who are lower on psl than me (except for whales ofc). But if I feel my looksmatch is attracted to me, I’d rather LTR her. For me, relationship with an attractive girl is a bigger validation boost than slaying dozens of plain Janes.
However, if you become gl after 20, especially after having experienced so much trauma, you’ll constantly feel the need to prove your attractiveness, by slaying in many cases. It’s hard for you to take rejections. Chad doesn’t take one rejection seriously because there are ten other girls waiting to suck his dick. But for a late boomer, one rejection is enough to make you question your looksmaxxing achievements.
But after a certain point slaying ceases to improve your self esteem. In face it might worsen it: You simply can’t be appealing to all women, even if you’re psl 7. Some girls simply don’t like you because you’re not their “type” or your personality doesn’t match. The more you try to slay the more rejections you’ll get - a simple matter of probability. And each rejection will make your former conquests senseless and your past trauma resurface.
The ideal lay count might differ individually but for me, I don’t aim for an exact number anymore. This year I already had 3 free lays, all of which I mog, without trying too much. I’ll still feel happy and validated if I can slay girls who are lower on psl than me (except for whales ofc). But if I feel my looksmatch is attracted to me, I’d rather LTR her. For me, relationship with an attractive girl is a bigger validation boost than slaying dozens of plain Janes.