[Blackpill] Start seeing a psychiatrist, if you're looksmaxing and planning to ascend (srs)

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When it comes to attraction it's almost all about looks, but you're a fool thinking you can "ascend" without getting your mental in check. Long years of inceldom, lack of validation left you bitter, empty and socially underdeveloped compared to your peers. Even if you manage to fuck a woman, that in your mind qualifies for your "ascension", if you're running the same mindset you ran pre-looksmax, you're gonna feel underwhelmed and disappointed.

Sex for normies is just like going for an ice-cream. It's perfectly normal and regular, they always had access to it and they presume everyone does so, unless you're truly deformed. Yes, they may not have had access to very attractive women, still they've been getting validation from semi-attractive women that made them develop a healthy sexual confidence. They usually understand they're not necessarily GL, but they know from experience they can "get to sex if they want" as it's "perfectly normal". They're not bluepilled because they're low IQ, but because they've had the luxury to be blue pilled, hence their brain haven't adapted. You thinking you're some special snowflake and you've suddenly "solved" the world, only makes your state of mind worse. You can't live a happy life seeing everything from blackpill mentality, it poisons all of your relationships with your friends, parents and women if you get to that point. I see blackpill as a tool to understand animalistic nature of humans to better your situation by trying to fraud your genetic destiny, but if you depersonalize yourself from the idea of real, deep human connection through personality, ideas and inexplicable "love", you're doomed to end up unhappy regardless of your success.

You're here because you're unhappy and you want to be happy, but being happy is not compatible with the raw idea of blackpill, even if it is how the world truly operates. You can't "escape" the blackpill as in erase all the evidence and theories/ideas you've been exposed to, but you can try to alter your mentality towards women as they're key to your happiness whether you like it or not. And I'm not going to defend them, because pretty much everything being said about them on these sites are true, but if you don't let that little small backdoor open in your mind, the idea of finding someone you enjoy sharing your life with, then you have nothing to look forward in life. It's just a really brutal pill tbh.

A good psychiatrist(through psychotherapy and more) can help you reevaluate your relationship with women and other people(bluepilled retard normies) that you're inherently stuck with on the same planet for the rest of your life. It can help with BDD, depression, anxiety, high inhib (if not inherently genetic, but environment induced through growing up) and all these common mental problems.

Most users here are at least, average looking and I'd say most users would be content with having an average looking girlfriend as long as they love them for who they are "through some bluepilled deluded-love kind of way" and the thing is you could already have that, but use blackpill&hypergamy as scapegoat to rationalise lack of success with women to cope with broken mentals and underdeveloped personality.

Tl;dr

I'm not trying to bluepill here, looks are.. everything pretty much, but looks are not your only problem and you can not "win" if you don't approach your situation from a holistic perspective in relation to your neurotransmitters/mental well-being.

Thoughts?
 

future chadlite

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Guess What?

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Already done and it's pretty useless. We ended that he wanted to send me to a female psycologist.. unluckily i had to miss the appointment, but i warned her, she said that she will call me again for a new one, but she never did... hey, like a woman!

tl;dr: they don't even think about that ours are real problems. When i will look better and I will start to have good feedback, my mind will made itself whole.
 

future chadlite

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I'm kinda scared to take tren tbh. Think I might just add some in at a very low dose onto my test once I can afford it. I don't wanna get too rapey.
nah, test is enough, tren is just meh, unless competing its useless, T will give u enough gains and kind of hair safe, tren is rape
 
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ngl low-key wish i was bluepilled, would be a lot happier and less neurotic
Your post is bluepilled
Tried 17 different jew pills + therapy + even hospitalization.
Blackpilled all the docs and therapists I met, shat on their carries, exposed their methods and they couldn't respond.

Ugly = Ugly no matter how you much you sugar coat it.
 
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Sex for normies is just like going for an ice-cream.
Literally made it impossible for me to continue reading after this.
Mental issues caused by inceldom have stemmed from being ugly.
Treating the symptoms instead of the cause is bs.
 
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I don't want to be harsh on you man, but we are here for looks, not getting mental help.
ITT I said you have to looksmax & mentalmaxx in order to be happy, one doesn't work without the other imo. That's what the thread is about, not that looksmaxing is not essential. Looks are precursor to validation/success/happiness, I agree. Thread's point was to raise awareness about mental health, bcuz I feel it's rather underrated
 

badromance

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Thanks bro
I read it whole and it's true,i relate so much.
I might see a therapist in the summer after i finish looksmaxxing.
I will cry like a baby.
 

dodt

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Legit thread but being average and having a gf “love you for who you are” doesn’t exist, eventually she will cuck you for someone better looking. You need to always be trying to improve your looks, becoming chad is the ultimate goal
Truly over for me. @Felix97

EDIT: I AM NOT EVEN AVERAGE, FUCK
 

Deusmaximus

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I will never ever have feelings for a woman. Since 5 years i am stone/ice cold inside. Because when a girl should "love me for what i am" then i know it is either my looks (nr1), money or the psycho dominance games (aka threat her like shit) i play with her. But yeah i am not an incel, and its also not a problem for me to fuck a fat or ugly girl. Still im blackpilled for life, and really hungry to looksmax. Whatever it takes, on the road to be a frauded chad.
 

badromance

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Legit thread but being average and having a gf “love you for who you are” doesn’t exist, eventually she will cuck you for someone better looking. You need to always be trying to improve your looks, becoming chad is the ultimate goal
30212
 

Autist

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Taking hardcore drugs to lower inhib is much better tbh ngl
Your post is bluepilled
Tried 17 different jew pills + therapy + even hospitalization.
Blackpilled all the docs and therapists I met, shat on their carries, exposed their methods and they couldn't respond.

Ugly = Ugly no matter how you much you sugar coat it.
High iq as always
 

SomethingOff

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Pretty retarded tbh. Sex is nothing when you've had it once. Even if its your first time, with 1 week of nofap what to do comes intuitively. As for socializing, just find shit to do where there's people and do shit. Maybe making real friends will be difficult but at least you're making some social gains. Being a normie is easy as fuck. Just have shit to do.

Looksmax and availabilitymax. Done.
 

dogtown

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Legit thread but being average and having a gf “love you for who you are” doesn’t exist, eventually she will cuck you for someone better looking. You need to always be trying to improve your looks, becoming chad is the ultimate goal
Nah there is a select few who are loyal
 

badromance

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Pretty retarded tbh. Sex is nothing when you've had it once. Even if its your first time, with 1 week of nofap what to do comes intuitively. As for socializing, just find shit to do where there's people and do shit. Maybe making real friends will be difficult but at least you're making some social gains. Being a normie is easy as fuck. Just have shit to do.

Looksmax and availabilitymax. Done.
what do you mean about the nofap part ?
 

SomethingOff

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what do you mean about the nofap part ?
I was on about a week of nofap when I got laid first time. Saw a girl was eyeing me and I just went straight up and started talking. Ofc this was in a social setting and she was alone, but still. If you can fraud being a normie in normal convos you can fraud being a normie with any girl whos interested. And when theyre interested they make it easy for you.

Nofap breaks inhibitions. Brains gotta get sexual satisfaction somehow, so when you remove the fapping and porn, you're more likely to take IRL opportunities you get.

Always availabilitymax while on nofap.
Now I had and still have a problem, so i's more effective for me to do nofap. But unless you're high T, fapping a lot will make you less likely to take chances you get IRL.
 

badromance

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I was on about a week of nofap when I got laid first time. Saw a girl was eyeing me and I just went straight up and started talking. Ofc this was in a social setting and she was alone, but still. If you can fraud being a normie in normal convos you can fraud being a normie with any girl whos interested. And when theyre interested they make it easy for you.

Nofap breaks inhibitions. Brains gotta get sexual satisfaction somehow, so when you remove the fapping and porn, you're more likely to take IRL opportunities you get.

Always availabilitymax while on nofap.
Now I had and still have a problem, so i's more effective for me to do nofap. But unless you're high T, fapping a lot will make you less likely to take chances you get IRL.
im high t
but i will try it anyway
that part abot availabilitymax is very high iq
i've noticed it too
 

Paretocel

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When it comes to attraction it's almost all about looks, but you're a fool thinking you can "ascend" without getting your mental in check. Long years of inceldom, lack of validation left you bitter, empty and socially underdeveloped compared to your peers. Even if you manage to fuck a woman, that in your mind qualifies for your "ascension", if you're running the same mindset you ran pre-looksmax, you're gonna feel underwhelmed and disappointed.

Sex for normies is just like going for an ice-cream. It's perfectly normal and regular, they always had access to it and they presume everyone does so, unless you're truly deformed. Yes, they may not have had access to very attractive women, still they've been getting validation from semi-attractive women that made them develop a healthy sexual confidence. They usually understand they're not necessarily GL, but they know from experience they can "get to sex if they want" as it's "perfectly normal". They're not bluepilled because they're low IQ, but because they've had the luxury to be blue pilled, hence their brain haven't adapted. You thinking you're some special snowflake and you've suddenly "solved" the world, only makes your state of mind worse. You can't live a happy life seeing everything from blackpill mentality, it poisons all of your relationships with your friends, parents and women if you get to that point. I see blackpill as a tool to understand animalistic nature of humans to better your situation by trying to fraud your genetic destiny, but if you depersonalize yourself from the idea of real, deep human connection through personality, ideas and inexplicable "love", you're doomed to end up unhappy regardless of your success.

You're here because you're unhappy and you want to be happy, but being happy is not compatible with the raw idea of blackpill, even if it is how the world truly operates. You can't "escape" the blackpill as in erase all the evidence and theories/ideas you've been exposed to, but you can try to alter your mentality towards women as they're key to your happiness whether you like it or not. And I'm not going to defend them, because pretty much everything being said about them on these sites are true, but if you don't let that little small backdoor open in your mind, the idea of finding someone you enjoy sharing your life with, then you have nothing to look forward in life. It's just a really brutal pill tbh.

A good psychiatrist(through psychotherapy and more) can help you reevaluate your relationship with women and other people(bluepilled retard normies) that you're inherently stuck with on the same planet for the rest of your life. It can help with BDD, depression, anxiety, high inhib (if not inherently genetic, but environment induced through growing up) and all these common mental problems.

Most users here are at least, average looking and I'd say most users would be content with having an average looking girlfriend as long as they love them for who they are "through some bluepilled deluded-love kind of way" and the thing is you could already have that, but use blackpill&hypergamy as scapegoat to rationalise lack of success with women to cope with broken mentals and underdeveloped personality.

Tl;dr

I'm not trying to bluepill here, looks are.. everything pretty much, but looks are not your only problem and you can not "win" if you don't approach your situation from a holistic perspective in relation to your neurotransmitters/mental well-being.

Thoughts?
You’re right. high IQ post, I need mental help but my parents won’t provide it for me because muh personality JFL.
 

CupOfCoffee

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I can't afford a psychiatrist. And I'm not convinced they can do anything for me at all.
 

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I agree that you need more in life than just a girl. I've never felt so empty after I dropped a girl off the other day after lunch. I had nothing to do after she's gone. She had sports and hobbies to do that night and the rest of the week. The only thing I had to look forward to was hanging out with her again.

I don't like therapy. Maybe psychiatry is slightly different but therapy was a complete joke and a waste of money. Therapists say the most bluepilled shit. Their job is not to fix your problems. Because they can't. Their job is to distract you from your problems so they don't bother you as much. I can do that on my own.
 

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I agree that you need more in life than just a girl. I've never felt so empty after I dropped a girl off the other day after lunch. I had nothing to do after she's gone. She had sports and hobbies to do that night and the rest of the week. The only thing I had to look forward to was hanging out with her again.

I don't like therapy. Maybe psychiatry is slightly different but therapy was a complete joke and a waste of money. Therapists say the most bluepilled shit. Their job is not to fix your problems. Because they can't. Their job is to distract you from your problems so they don't bother you as much. I can do that on my own.
Thats why you Chadmaxx
Chad is always busy
Find copes
stop being a pathetic dog
you are making me sick srsly
 
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I agree that you need more in life than just a girl. I've never felt so empty after I dropped a girl off the other day after lunch. I had nothing to do after she's gone. She had sports and hobbies to do that night and the rest of the week. The only thing I had to look forward to was hanging out with her again.

I don't like therapy. Maybe psychiatry is slightly different but therapy was a complete joke and a waste of money. Therapists say the most bluepilled shit. Their job is not to fix your problems. Because they can't. Their job is to distract you from your problems so they don't bother you as much. I can do that on my own.
I've been seeing a psychiatrist(doctor) for a couple weeks and it helped me open up with girls and generally ppl around me. I researched a lot before I found him and I feel like is helping me a lot. Thats why I made the thread
 

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I've been seeing a psychiatrist(doctor) for a couple weeks and it helped me open up with girls and generally ppl around me. I researched a lot before I found him and I feel like is helping me a lot. Thats why I made the thread
I have zero friends and nobody likes being around me. Can a psych help?
 

CupOfCoffee

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Yes, it can help you ease up for sure.
I have limited money right now but I'm aware of my fucked up mental state, it's BAD. But I still think the ROI from a surgery is much higher than ROI from seeing a (good) psychiatrist.
It is fun fucking around with them. Manipulating the manipulators feels orgasmic.
No matter how much I will try to be honest and genuine with a psych, I'm most likely going to manipulate and lie to them.
 

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This thread is basically saying get bluepilled
 
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I have limited money right now but I'm aware of my fucked up mental state, it's BAD. But I still think the ROI from a surgery is much higher than ROI from seeing a (good) psychiatrist.
I live in EE and one session costs me 20 euros. Not sure where you live, but I can understand some countries gna have ridic prices(esp. good psychs). I dont believe in surgery 70% of cases people claim them to help them. The only good before/after Ive seen are pre. much when its fixing MASSIVE failo like rhinoplasty for death tier nose for example. A lot of fillers and implants loo so fake and unnatural, like a ken doll(in bad kind of way) imo
 

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pre. much when its fixing MASSIVE failo like rhinoplasty for death tier nose for example
That's exactly what I'm doing. Jfc psychiatrists in the US are expensive, just an initial consultation is several hundreds, and then the hourly rate can be $50-150. Not worth it tbh I'd rather rot and make online friends.
 
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That's exactly what I'm doing. Jfc psychiatrists in the US are expensive, just an initial consultation is several hundreds, and then the hourly rate can be $50-150. Not worth it tbh I'd rather rot and make online friends.
Depends on your insurance. I pay less than OP.
In USA too
 

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Your post is bluepilled
Tried 17 different jew pills + therapy + even hospitalization.
Blackpilled all the docs and therapists I met, shat on their carries, exposed their methods and they couldn't respond.

Ugly = Ugly no matter how you much you sugar coat it.
The fact you did that and thinking you're getting bare ratings for being that autistic, the Mandem are actually creasing on Ur back side pussio.
 

SeiGun

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what you need is a professional cosmetic surgeon
 

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I'm pretty sure my personality will change as my looks change. All my insecurities stem from looks. If I woke up and looked into the mirror and liked my reflection, I'd be more normie like.
 

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The inability to properly socialize is from compounded negative social interactions, reinforcing the state of your being. Fix the problem at the source and you'll slowly start having positive interactions that will continue to reinforce a social mindset.
 

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The inability to properly socialize is from compounded negative social interactions, reinforcing the state of your being. Fix the problem at the source and you'll slowly start having positive interactions that will continue to reinforce a social mindset.
It's kind of hard to socialize if you have contentious opinions on certain matters. It's best to just find the ones who will tolerate them the most without having a fit.

It would be better if most places where people hang out in public (businesses like coffee shops, bars, your public library, schools, etc) were just nationalized in order to preserve free speech. Even social media at this point needs it.
 

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