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When it comes to attraction it's almost all about looks, but you're a fool thinking you can "ascend" without getting your mental in check. Long years of inceldom, lack of validation left you bitter, empty and socially underdeveloped compared to your peers. Even if you manage to fuck a woman, that in your mind qualifies for your "ascension", if you're running the same mindset you ran pre-looksmax, you're gonna feel underwhelmed and disappointed.
Sex for normies is just like going for an ice-cream. It's perfectly normal and regular, they always had access to it and they presume everyone does so, unless you're truly deformed. Yes, they may not have had access to very attractive women, still they've been getting validation from semi-attractive women that made them develop a healthy sexual confidence. They usually understand they're not necessarily GL, but they know from experience they can "get to sex if they want" as it's "perfectly normal". They're not bluepilled because they're low IQ, but because they've had the luxury to be blue pilled, hence their brain haven't adapted. You thinking you're some special snowflake and you've suddenly "solved" the world, only makes your state of mind worse. You can't live a happy life seeing everything from blackpill mentality, it poisons all of your relationships with your friends, parents and women if you get to that point. I see blackpill as a tool to understand animalistic nature of humans to better your situation by trying to fraud your genetic destiny, but if you depersonalize yourself from the idea of real, deep human connection through personality, ideas and inexplicable "love", you're doomed to end up unhappy regardless of your success.
You're here because you're unhappy and you want to be happy, but being happy is not compatible with the raw idea of blackpill, even if it is how the world truly operates. You can't "escape" the blackpill as in erase all the evidence and theories/ideas you've been exposed to, but you can try to alter your mentality towards women as they're key to your happiness whether you like it or not. And I'm not going to defend them, because pretty much everything being said about them on these sites are true, but if you don't let that little small backdoor open in your mind, the idea of finding someone you enjoy sharing your life with, then you have nothing to look forward in life. It's just a really brutal pill tbh.
A good psychiatrist(through psychotherapy and more) can help you reevaluate your relationship with women and other people(bluepilled retard normies) that you're inherently stuck with on the same planet for the rest of your life. It can help with BDD, depression, anxiety, high inhib (if not inherently genetic, but environment induced through growing up) and all these common mental problems.
Most users here are at least, average looking and I'd say most users would be content with having an average looking girlfriend as long as they love them for who they are "through some bluepilled deluded-love kind of way" and the thing is you could already have that, but use blackpill&hypergamy as scapegoat to rationalise lack of success with women to cope with broken mentals and underdeveloped personality.
Tl;dr
I'm not trying to bluepill here, looks are.. everything pretty much, but looks are not your only problem and you can not "win" if you don't approach your situation from a holistic perspective in relation to your neurotransmitters/mental well-being.
Thoughts?
Sex for normies is just like going for an ice-cream. It's perfectly normal and regular, they always had access to it and they presume everyone does so, unless you're truly deformed. Yes, they may not have had access to very attractive women, still they've been getting validation from semi-attractive women that made them develop a healthy sexual confidence. They usually understand they're not necessarily GL, but they know from experience they can "get to sex if they want" as it's "perfectly normal". They're not bluepilled because they're low IQ, but because they've had the luxury to be blue pilled, hence their brain haven't adapted. You thinking you're some special snowflake and you've suddenly "solved" the world, only makes your state of mind worse. You can't live a happy life seeing everything from blackpill mentality, it poisons all of your relationships with your friends, parents and women if you get to that point. I see blackpill as a tool to understand animalistic nature of humans to better your situation by trying to fraud your genetic destiny, but if you depersonalize yourself from the idea of real, deep human connection through personality, ideas and inexplicable "love", you're doomed to end up unhappy regardless of your success.
You're here because you're unhappy and you want to be happy, but being happy is not compatible with the raw idea of blackpill, even if it is how the world truly operates. You can't "escape" the blackpill as in erase all the evidence and theories/ideas you've been exposed to, but you can try to alter your mentality towards women as they're key to your happiness whether you like it or not. And I'm not going to defend them, because pretty much everything being said about them on these sites are true, but if you don't let that little small backdoor open in your mind, the idea of finding someone you enjoy sharing your life with, then you have nothing to look forward in life. It's just a really brutal pill tbh.
A good psychiatrist(through psychotherapy and more) can help you reevaluate your relationship with women and other people(bluepilled retard normies) that you're inherently stuck with on the same planet for the rest of your life. It can help with BDD, depression, anxiety, high inhib (if not inherently genetic, but environment induced through growing up) and all these common mental problems.
Most users here are at least, average looking and I'd say most users would be content with having an average looking girlfriend as long as they love them for who they are "through some bluepilled deluded-love kind of way" and the thing is you could already have that, but use blackpill&hypergamy as scapegoat to rationalise lack of success with women to cope with broken mentals and underdeveloped personality.
Tl;dr
I'm not trying to bluepill here, looks are.. everything pretty much, but looks are not your only problem and you can not "win" if you don't approach your situation from a holistic perspective in relation to your neurotransmitters/mental well-being.
Thoughts?