Talking to girls in the gym?

[Mesmerizing Gigachad]

Hey bruvs, quick question. Although I've always used tinder (with relatively high success), it kinda makes me die inside every time I use it ngl it's always just such a shitty time and I think I've only gotten an 8 once in years of tindering. Now the time has come where my profile's ELO has gone to shit from not resetting long enough and I don't want to change numbers because tbh I don't even like using the app.

But in the gym, oh lawd. 8s and 9s just fucking everywhere, it's glorious, and as a bonus we already have a similar interest (the gym). Now I've only approached a handful of women in the gym in my years of lifting and it was for good reasons (i.e. one had the exact same somewhat-obscure shirt as me, even if it was a dude I would've come up and said something), which leaves me with the question: how do I even approach women in the gym without being intrusive or annoying? I could be a form nazi (actually a personal trainer by trade, so some plausible deniability there), but tbh I've tried this out twice and it just doesn't go anywhere. I've got decent social proof in the gym and am above average attractiveness fwiw.

If anyone is curious what I used to do, I would go to nightclubs alone on friday and saturday night. Now I hate clubbing, dancing and I don't have any friends who like to go out, so what I would do is just enter the busiest dance clubs and just make my way to the toilet. Because some of these dance clubs are really busy it's actually quite a journey to get to the toilet so on the way I meet a ton of girls, usually at least one per club will tug my sleeve or grab my hand or get my attention and because I'm going to the toilet it's not weird for me to be alone in that moment and I don't actually have to go clubbing/dancing (I always say the only time I'm going clubbing is to the arctic looking for baby seals). This would usually land me about 1 lay per week, but with corona measures none of this is remotely possible.

 

[Deleted member 7776]

Tl;dr?

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Don’t. Not the right place to approach.

 

[potentialhabit1]

dnr but only cold aproach in gym if chad

 

[Mesmerizing Gigachad]

Don’t. Not the right place to approach.

Ya I figured but what place is in corona times?

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Ya I figured but what place is in corona times?

Why do you want to approach, you said you do well on Tinder

 

[sytyl]

@Biggdink jfl at this

 

[Mesmerizing Gigachad]

Why do you want to approach, you said you do well on Tinder

'relatively' well, aka a 6 every month, plus using the app drains my soul

there's just hordes of 8s and 9s walking around at my gym, is it really that weird to thirst after them?

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Dude only approach if you get strong iois, if you’re not getting iois they’re either not into you or not available. I mean you can still try depending your looks and NTness

But everyone has to wear a mask these days so you can’t even tell if they’re attractive

 

[Mesmerizing Gigachad]

Yeah that's what I was kind of afraid of. There's no eye contact or anything, just eyes straight ahead 1000 mile gaze.

We don't have to wear masks in the gym btw

 

[Cali Yuga]

walk up to them rip your shirt off and say "You want that i should throw my fuck into you?"

 

[everydayfun]

Girls at the gym are super obvious when they want you, so just talk to those. Gym girls are the easiest because you see them all the time.

 

[vLotus]

you goto the gym to get a pump a leave. you don't waste your time staring and socialising. if you're really that desperate ask her out after your or their session and if they say no leave it be.

 

[thekurdishprince]

don't shit where you eat theory

 

[far336]

Here is how it will go:

-You ask her out, she says no
-She thinks you're a creep
-Other women witness you doing this, and according to pre-selection, when a woman witnesses another woman reject a man, then that other woman will most likely reject you if you ask her out in the future
-Also, at best, things feel awkward when you're in the same space with her in the gym. At worst, she reports you for sexual harassment to the staff and you get kicked off the gym

As you can see from the above, the consequences outweighs the benefits, so it's not recommended to cold approach in the gym.

 

[DutchPrettyBoy]

fuck those bitches, worth nothing

 

[Fahkumram]

Mmmmmm I love gym girls nice ass and boobs nice leggings mmm

 

[Deleted member 5746]

Here is how it will go:

-You ask her out, she says no
-She thinks you're a creep
-Other women witness you doing this, and according to pre-selection, when a woman witnesses another woman reject a man, then that other woman will most likely reject you if you ask her out in the future
-Also, at best, things feel awkward when you're in the same space with her in the gym. At worst, she reports you for sexual harassment to the staff and you get kicked off the gym

As you can see from the above, the consequences outweighs the benefits, so it's not recommended to cold approach in the gym.