- Apr 22, 2019
Didn't readThis is a student's partial write-up from the session we did covering sexual escalation. This particular part of the curriculum doesn't have a lot of verbal drills attached so it's not the best example of the training course overall, but the content here for learning sexual escalation is great.
Sexual Escalation (End Game) Mindset
Most women go to night clubs with friends to unwind, have fun, pump their state then go home. By taking a girl home and fucking her you become the most prominent thing that happened to her all week. Deep down, this is what she wants and she wants it to be from a strong minded guy. You can't just be like every other guy hitting on her in the club, you must be dominant. "she must be fucked by a strong cock"
What Not to Do
Exactly like physical escalation, you don't want to escalate in a way where its like "Ok I did this, she liked it, I wonder if I can escalate to this?". This is creepy as you are trying to finagle sex in a socially acceptable way.
What To Do
Again just like physicality, keep sexual escalation on your ryhthm, use terminator or frat boy groppage mentality.
*Girl gets in your car, you make out for a bit then get her to suck your dick
You are doing the things YOU WANT
Using Your Dick to Bust LMR
Your dick is the #1 tool for busting through LMR. When things are getting sexual YOU MUST show your dick.
Ways to do this:
In the approximately 25% of the time the dick LMR buster doesn't work, use their own bodies to turn them on.
- blame it on her "look what you did" "you made my dick hard"
- "let me introduce you" "have you guys met?"
- take it out, look at it then put it away
- push the girl off the bed and onto her knees, take your dick out, she will suck it
Hard and Soft Sexual Escalation (Ying and Yang)
Think of it like masculine and feminine energy. Hard energy is shaping energy, you make something happen (picking a girl up and walking). Soft energy is nurturing (softly moving your hands across her) *like lesbian porn. You should be escalating on both avenues and using them like push pull (I assume).
Focal Points and Finishing Moves
A girl needs experience surrendering her body to you before you can have sex with her, picking her up off the ground without her permission is a great example of this. Moving the girl (lift, throw, relocate) will give you massive compliance while sexually escalating.
Use a girl's focal points (hips, shoulders, neck) to assist in the finishing moves. The neck is a very sensitive zone, you can kiss / tickle the back of it or wrap your hand around your throat and calibrate to the pressure she enjoys. The hips are the major movable focal point of a girl (standing or lying down) you can take control of her by the hips and move her.
The girl needs to have probable deniability so she say "no", it's at this point that you make a major move to let her know you're managing what's going on, she wants it she just needs to be assured that you have it under control. If there is still resistance, don't freeze the girl out just chill, back off a little and go for it again. No weird, manipulative tricks involved.
During sexual escalation the girl will be looking to you for how she should react. You should be in terminator and / or fratstar groppage mode, you are entitled to what you're doing and it all fun.