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Observation 1 - Women are incredibly psychically manipulative
Since generally women's strength is not found in their physicality, they are extremely vulnerable, especially when carrying a fetus in the womb. Women are obviously not warriors for good reason. It is the men who go off to fight in war. This is obviously not a new realization. The feminine sex in all mammalian species is generally physically weaker and more vulnerable.
Through long periods of evolution, women developed a different strength - strength of the mind as it relates to their own well-being. Women are much better at navigating social situations than men. And they do so with subtle grace, rather than with zealous transparency. While the men were busy bashing each other over the head with rocks and chasing down their families next meal, the women were busy honing this skill set. When a woman no longer wants you to proposition her, she will subtly mention how awesome of a cook her fake boyfriend is. When a woman is bored or annoyed with your topic of conversation, she will subtly draw your attention elsewhere - hey, look that's my friend from art class - IE you’re boring me so I am going to subvert this conversation to something meaningless so you hopefully get the message to stop talking. Rather than tell you that you are a weirdo, her and her friend will mention a creepy guy who they both know. This is the language of womanese and although you think these two women are talking about some random creep, they are actually using him as a representation of you. In other words, they are confirming to each other that you are a weirdo right in front of your eyes. There is no confusion between the two, each girl knows what was said. Unfortunately, you don't, you oblivious buffoon! Women have mastered the art of subtle communication - whether its to get out of a tricky situation, divert your attention, or talk shit about you in front of you without you even knowing it. Women are much more capable of navigating situations such as these with grace, whilst us men hardly even understood what was communicated. However, that's not to say that men are incapable of learning this language.
Begin to pay attention in your interaction with women - they speak in subtext. If you know this language, you will have an easier time with girls. Women wished that you would "get it." But unfortunately, when a woman uses this covert language know as womanese to tell you that your game is whack, you probably won't even understand and will keep babbling. Keep an eye on women, they are much better at corralling and shaping interaction in the most subtlest of ways. It is truly amazing once you recognize it, because for them it comes with such ease, whilst for men, it is a difficult language to both learn and speak.
Observation 2 - Women are always testing you
Men historically always had their eyes on the upkeep of the tribe - fending off their territory, scavenging for the next meal, inventing tools to make life easier, conjecturing about the nature of reality, getting lost in the world of thoughts, giving meaning to the grandness of the infinite reality before them. Women always were focused upon the family, upon winning a good mate, raising children into capable adults who could carry the torch of life onto the next generation. Women upkeep humanity itself through child rearing. They are the literal creators of life. Women did not entertain lofty ideals or think about the best way to build a canoe for fishing. Women's mindstate was always upon matters of the earth. Men's minds were always oriented towards the greater dimensions of reality from which he derived advancements that benefited all mankind. Thus, men tested ideas. And women tested men.
Women want strong and capable men. Men who will breed healthy children. Men who will keep women safe. Men who will maintain the order of civil life and keep the primordial chaos of the bay. Man is a creature which aids in the structuring of the embryonic endless possibility of the chaotic female world. Man is the rock upon which women creates her base.
Thus once more over long stretches of evolution and history, the psyche of women developed in direct orientation to men's competence or lack thereof. Simply said, a woman is always assessing a man for his competence. In TRP terminology, this would be known as shit testing. When interacting with a woman, what you take as overt simplicity is actually covert complexity. It can be as unassuming as "will you get me my soda." You think of course, no problem, I will get you your soda. I will exert effort, get up, walk across the room, and get you that soda that you could have gotten yourself. Not so simple Jack! She is testing you for your spine or lack thereof. A man who happily complies with the demands of all others is no man at all, but rather a doormat. And through such a simple question as the one above, a woman will assess whether or not you are assertive, dominant, and selfish. Women want a selfish man, for if you're not selfish, you're going to be wiping everyone else’s asses but your own. From a survival perspective, this is a dangerous attitude. You need to watch out for your own good and the good of your immediate family. You are the protector of your most valuable resources - your time and energy. If you happily give those away, no woman will ever respect you. She wants you to be selfish for it is an indication of your own impulse for self-preservation.
A woman may not even know consciously that she is assessing your strength and self-worth. However, all women, subconsciously are masterminds of poking and prodding at men to determine their ability to direct their own life and give it shape. Pay attention next time your with a chick, she will indeed test you. And for your own health, the answer should almost always be no. She wants to hear the words no. "Will you take care of my dog while I go drink wine with my girlfriends?" NOPE. Take care of your own damn dog. Some of you may be offended by this brashness. You will say, why salinorum, you are such an asshole, you should be considerate and helpful of other people. The true underlying intent of this question is to discover whose time is more valuable - yours or mine? Women speak covertly. Men speak overtly. When she places a request to you next, its not so much the subject matter, but the underlying message of the question which is, do you value your time or my time more? And if you value a woman's time more than your own, you are in big trouble for you are not creating a life of your own but are rather falling into the life of another. Women know this language well. Be vigilant!
Observation 3 - Women are emotionally attuned
I am often caught off guard when I am out in public. I am a highly cerebral person (if you can’t tell by this post) and I end up living in my head a lot of the time. That means that the interaction that occurs beyond my mind with the world is kept to a minimum. I am generally a self-contained environment. That however does not entail health. Sometimes it entails misfortune. There are many pitfalls when the only place you know is your own brain. I often get caught in toxic thought-loops about whatever it may be.
When I’m out in public, I will be surprised when a woman is suddenly repulsed by my presence. Its as if she can read the toxicity of my current mind state. If I’ve spent the morning tormenting over the fall out of some friendships, somehow the cute grocery store clerk knows the negativity I am caught within, without any sort of word. My countenance and body language alone are enough for her to make a proper assessment about my state of being.
What really catches me of guard is when I repulsed or scare someone whilst the waters of my mind have been relatively placid. I have found that women are better at understanding my emotional state than I am myself. If I have 10 interactions with 10 different girls and each interaction goes negatively, something is off with me, not them. That said, I often use girls as a mirror for my own refinement. If I am repulsing people, interaction after interaction, something is unhealthy within my mind. If I am glowing, magnetizing the room, then I have curated something healthy within myself that other people have found to be attractive and alluring.
This phenomenon is easy to explain. Women have obviously always been the providers and source of leadership for infants, toddlers, kids, and teenagers. A mother must be able to read her infants emotional signals in order to make a proper assessment of that baby’s state of being. She will thus know when it’s hungry, when it’s tired, when it’s disturbed, and when it’s tranquil. This is a skill set that is crucial for the upkeep of the species itself. If women were not so emotionally attuned, how could they ever so gracefully raise a child and cater to its every need?
What I’ve found really interesting about women’s attunement is their response to me after I have eaten a psychedelic. I never have had a bad trip or have gone through anything too harrowing. I have had some painful realizations and witnessed my own shortcomings, but generally speaking, psychedelics have always helped make my soul lighter, put me at ease, and provided a spiritual sustenance for my hungry spirit. Every single time after I trip, I become what a light is to a moth during its night flight. I become highly magnetic to women. They can read my elevated state of being and are most eager to discover why my spirit is glowing.
Women are great emotional readers and likely understand your state of being better than you do yourself. Thus, my advice is to use them as mirror. I do not suggest basing your sense of being based on a couple of women’s perspective and response to you. You should always generate your own sense of self. However, in order to be your best, you should always be calibrating. If you go about your day and generally all the women you cross are repulsed by your presence, it’s a good indication of your countenance and of your vibe. Women can read you, pay attention to their response.
Lastly, the science. I recently learned that women have many more emotional connections in the brain than that of a man. In other words, a woman’s capacity to read emotional information greatly surpasses that of a man. Women’s brains are hardwired to read emotion. So trust how they read you…..generally speaking.
End Observations
Now, there are many more observations that I could discuss, but I’d rather close up this post since it has turned out to be rather long. I was inspired to write all this after my experiment with tinder yesterday.
I hope this post has some relevance to the SR community. I sense that some of you are here because you have played the game, have grown tired of its ups and downs, and have decided to save your seed long-term. Others of you hope to have a healthy relationship with women, but haven’t been able to do so in the past due to your own flawed perception of women. We all know that excessive masturbation, excessive lust, and obsessive pornographic consumption leads to a very skewed and unrealistic view of women. Additionally, many of you probably are unaware of the actual female reality and still think of woman idealistically as Disney princesses, incapable of deceit and malevolence. Many of you are here to get yourselves right, to clear out the neurotic thinking of your mind, to render a healthier perception of women as a whole.
Lucky are those who in their youth learned the female reality and became familiar with it, rather than living in an idyllic fantasy construct. Most of us however have been buffoons, instilled with the romantic values of Disney and other propaganda pushed to skew are view of women. Women are not angelic beings, but are rather very Machiavellian, not out of sheer evil, but rather as a coping mechanism for the hardships of life. Women’s nature has arisen simply out of necessity. Women evolved to rove through a psychological and emotional world, mental strengths that were honed as a result of their deficient physical strength in comparison to men.
Once you come to terms with the actual reality of women, there are several options. Before I state these, I suggest consider the sheer magnitude of propositioning that occurs for a relatively attractive woman in her prime, day in, day out. It will awaken you to your own desperation. You will realize why women take on their defensive and psychologically manipulative position. They are looking out for their own good and for the good of their future posterity.
So where does that leave you? Well, I assume most of you reading this are not naturally gifted at understanding the female world. Many of you are probably sexually frustrated. Many of you simply have given up hope due to your own failures and shortcomings with women. Thus, here is my own interpretation and advice to both you and myself. I am in the muck of life, just like you and what I write here is an attempt to both further my own understanding and advise myself wisely.
A young woman will always have many potential suitors. There are always plenty of men knocking at her gates hoping to capture her favor. If you join this hungry pack, you are a mere face amongst a multitude. It thus seems futile to me to always be on the chase, to dedicate all your energy and focus to a pursuit which may not offer any return. Slowly, your life energy is wasted, dumped hopelessly into a black hole.
Do not waste your energy any longer. Young woman will always exist. Woman will always be there as your potential suitor. Therefore, one woman is nothing to anguish over. She is not your special buttercup. She is merely a singular representation of a force which never ends.
So forget about woman or your hopes for courtship. You are young, vital, full of energy, full of potential, and capable of great things in your future. Turn your focus onto yourself. Build yourself into a better man. Create a life that is in line with your greatest aspirations and dreams. Save your semen as fuel for your own conquest. Build up the strength & stamina of your body through weightlifting, swimming, boxing, skiing, hiking, adventuring, any physical demanding activity. There is an Adonis which you could give birth to if you were serious about the development of your physicality.
Build up the strength and power of your mind. Read many books. Listen to the wise sages who have left their thoughts behind. Browse the spiritual wisdom of the holy books. Do not limit yourself to one dogma. If you lack male role-models, which I think many of us do, then find your advisors in the great men which history has remembered. Hernan Cortes could be your role-model. Henry Ford could be your role model. There have been many great men who embodied the world of gods upon the earth. And you could easily meet by investigating their wake. You can take their wisdom and embody it yourself. Increase your mental aptitude. Play chess. Learn strategy, learn to think long-term. Learn new subjects. Challenge your mind to grow.
Take care of yourself. It’s the best thing you could do. Eat clean, wholesome foods. Do not liter your mind with the disgusting mental and physical food that abounds. You embody whatever you consume. If all you eat is McDonalds, you will look like fast food and your vibration will fall. If you endlessly let hate enter your mindscape, you will become the embodiment of hate. You must guard your mental and physical vessel with suspicious eyes. You are the temple through which the light of god can enter, but first you must nurture yourself to a state of being which is receptive to the light. It is very easy to cut ourselves off from the light of god and in such a state, we are no better than dead.
Have a worthy life-long goal to pursue. It will not be realized or achieved in a day, weeks, months, or even years. It will take an entire lifetime to develop. So do not be deceived by anything that is quick. You are in it for the long haul and you have an entire lifetime to develop your career and passions. If you are an aspiring musician, dump your heart into the pursuit with full commitment despite the hardships. Chance favors the prepared mind. Opportunity will present itself to you if you commit. Great things will come. You must trust yourself and never give up.
If you can wisely commit your energy to solely yourself, you will no longer be a man of desperation, a man who looks beyond himself for fulfillment. You will have created a world in which you are content to exist singularly. And it is only then that a woman will eagerly enter your kingdom, will desire to enter your world. Who is doing the chasing now? Not me you will say. Potential suitors will offer themselves up to you. But your practice of SR should only aid in the development of your guardful eyes. You will not open up to just anyone. You are selective. You have refined and perfected yourself into a great jewel, into a beautiful pearl. You have the freedom to choose someone who will embellish and improve your world. And at this point in your long and wearisome journey, you will perhaps conclude that you never even needed a woman at all. For women, as I have observed, will stir the waters of your mind and provoke you into a state of disease and instability if you let them. A man who has firm roots in himself and can ground himself is the only one who should risk relationship. If your roots are weak, its likely the chaotic female element could uproot your entire tree and leave you in a state of desolation.
If a chaste life is not for you and you are desirous of a female companion, I still advise that you take the above to heart. And there should only be one more recommendation I make for you if you long for a feminine element in your life: familiarize yourself with the Female Reality. Just as you pursue your goals and your physical / mental health, so too should you pursue to acquaint yourself with this world. A man who knows the female reality has a better chance of surviving its destructive elements. I have seen too many men ruined and torn asunder by women once their relationship and marriage goes sideways. Why so? They never took the time to familiarize themselves with the world of women. I advise you to know this world, for without this map, you are at great risk of having the great world you have built ruined and destroyed quickly by the irrational feminine element.
Thank you for reading my long winded post. These are just my observations and thoughts. They are not the entire truth and are only conjecture. As mentioned, I mostly write this for myself as a form of advise and contemplation. Hopefully you too derive something useful from what I have written. Cheers my brothers. Good luck on your journey. Always have faith in your own capability. Believe that you are the gateway through which god can manifest himself.
Since generally women's strength is not found in their physicality, they are extremely vulnerable, especially when carrying a fetus in the womb. Women are obviously not warriors for good reason. It is the men who go off to fight in war. This is obviously not a new realization. The feminine sex in all mammalian species is generally physically weaker and more vulnerable.
Through long periods of evolution, women developed a different strength - strength of the mind as it relates to their own well-being. Women are much better at navigating social situations than men. And they do so with subtle grace, rather than with zealous transparency. While the men were busy bashing each other over the head with rocks and chasing down their families next meal, the women were busy honing this skill set. When a woman no longer wants you to proposition her, she will subtly mention how awesome of a cook her fake boyfriend is. When a woman is bored or annoyed with your topic of conversation, she will subtly draw your attention elsewhere - hey, look that's my friend from art class - IE you’re boring me so I am going to subvert this conversation to something meaningless so you hopefully get the message to stop talking. Rather than tell you that you are a weirdo, her and her friend will mention a creepy guy who they both know. This is the language of womanese and although you think these two women are talking about some random creep, they are actually using him as a representation of you. In other words, they are confirming to each other that you are a weirdo right in front of your eyes. There is no confusion between the two, each girl knows what was said. Unfortunately, you don't, you oblivious buffoon! Women have mastered the art of subtle communication - whether its to get out of a tricky situation, divert your attention, or talk shit about you in front of you without you even knowing it. Women are much more capable of navigating situations such as these with grace, whilst us men hardly even understood what was communicated. However, that's not to say that men are incapable of learning this language.
Begin to pay attention in your interaction with women - they speak in subtext. If you know this language, you will have an easier time with girls. Women wished that you would "get it." But unfortunately, when a woman uses this covert language know as womanese to tell you that your game is whack, you probably won't even understand and will keep babbling. Keep an eye on women, they are much better at corralling and shaping interaction in the most subtlest of ways. It is truly amazing once you recognize it, because for them it comes with such ease, whilst for men, it is a difficult language to both learn and speak.
Observation 2 - Women are always testing you
Men historically always had their eyes on the upkeep of the tribe - fending off their territory, scavenging for the next meal, inventing tools to make life easier, conjecturing about the nature of reality, getting lost in the world of thoughts, giving meaning to the grandness of the infinite reality before them. Women always were focused upon the family, upon winning a good mate, raising children into capable adults who could carry the torch of life onto the next generation. Women upkeep humanity itself through child rearing. They are the literal creators of life. Women did not entertain lofty ideals or think about the best way to build a canoe for fishing. Women's mindstate was always upon matters of the earth. Men's minds were always oriented towards the greater dimensions of reality from which he derived advancements that benefited all mankind. Thus, men tested ideas. And women tested men.
Women want strong and capable men. Men who will breed healthy children. Men who will keep women safe. Men who will maintain the order of civil life and keep the primordial chaos of the bay. Man is a creature which aids in the structuring of the embryonic endless possibility of the chaotic female world. Man is the rock upon which women creates her base.
Thus once more over long stretches of evolution and history, the psyche of women developed in direct orientation to men's competence or lack thereof. Simply said, a woman is always assessing a man for his competence. In TRP terminology, this would be known as shit testing. When interacting with a woman, what you take as overt simplicity is actually covert complexity. It can be as unassuming as "will you get me my soda." You think of course, no problem, I will get you your soda. I will exert effort, get up, walk across the room, and get you that soda that you could have gotten yourself. Not so simple Jack! She is testing you for your spine or lack thereof. A man who happily complies with the demands of all others is no man at all, but rather a doormat. And through such a simple question as the one above, a woman will assess whether or not you are assertive, dominant, and selfish. Women want a selfish man, for if you're not selfish, you're going to be wiping everyone else’s asses but your own. From a survival perspective, this is a dangerous attitude. You need to watch out for your own good and the good of your immediate family. You are the protector of your most valuable resources - your time and energy. If you happily give those away, no woman will ever respect you. She wants you to be selfish for it is an indication of your own impulse for self-preservation.
A woman may not even know consciously that she is assessing your strength and self-worth. However, all women, subconsciously are masterminds of poking and prodding at men to determine their ability to direct their own life and give it shape. Pay attention next time your with a chick, she will indeed test you. And for your own health, the answer should almost always be no. She wants to hear the words no. "Will you take care of my dog while I go drink wine with my girlfriends?" NOPE. Take care of your own damn dog. Some of you may be offended by this brashness. You will say, why salinorum, you are such an asshole, you should be considerate and helpful of other people. The true underlying intent of this question is to discover whose time is more valuable - yours or mine? Women speak covertly. Men speak overtly. When she places a request to you next, its not so much the subject matter, but the underlying message of the question which is, do you value your time or my time more? And if you value a woman's time more than your own, you are in big trouble for you are not creating a life of your own but are rather falling into the life of another. Women know this language well. Be vigilant!
Observation 3 - Women are emotionally attuned
I am often caught off guard when I am out in public. I am a highly cerebral person (if you can’t tell by this post) and I end up living in my head a lot of the time. That means that the interaction that occurs beyond my mind with the world is kept to a minimum. I am generally a self-contained environment. That however does not entail health. Sometimes it entails misfortune. There are many pitfalls when the only place you know is your own brain. I often get caught in toxic thought-loops about whatever it may be.
When I’m out in public, I will be surprised when a woman is suddenly repulsed by my presence. Its as if she can read the toxicity of my current mind state. If I’ve spent the morning tormenting over the fall out of some friendships, somehow the cute grocery store clerk knows the negativity I am caught within, without any sort of word. My countenance and body language alone are enough for her to make a proper assessment about my state of being.
What really catches me of guard is when I repulsed or scare someone whilst the waters of my mind have been relatively placid. I have found that women are better at understanding my emotional state than I am myself. If I have 10 interactions with 10 different girls and each interaction goes negatively, something is off with me, not them. That said, I often use girls as a mirror for my own refinement. If I am repulsing people, interaction after interaction, something is unhealthy within my mind. If I am glowing, magnetizing the room, then I have curated something healthy within myself that other people have found to be attractive and alluring.
This phenomenon is easy to explain. Women have obviously always been the providers and source of leadership for infants, toddlers, kids, and teenagers. A mother must be able to read her infants emotional signals in order to make a proper assessment of that baby’s state of being. She will thus know when it’s hungry, when it’s tired, when it’s disturbed, and when it’s tranquil. This is a skill set that is crucial for the upkeep of the species itself. If women were not so emotionally attuned, how could they ever so gracefully raise a child and cater to its every need?
What I’ve found really interesting about women’s attunement is their response to me after I have eaten a psychedelic. I never have had a bad trip or have gone through anything too harrowing. I have had some painful realizations and witnessed my own shortcomings, but generally speaking, psychedelics have always helped make my soul lighter, put me at ease, and provided a spiritual sustenance for my hungry spirit. Every single time after I trip, I become what a light is to a moth during its night flight. I become highly magnetic to women. They can read my elevated state of being and are most eager to discover why my spirit is glowing.
Women are great emotional readers and likely understand your state of being better than you do yourself. Thus, my advice is to use them as mirror. I do not suggest basing your sense of being based on a couple of women’s perspective and response to you. You should always generate your own sense of self. However, in order to be your best, you should always be calibrating. If you go about your day and generally all the women you cross are repulsed by your presence, it’s a good indication of your countenance and of your vibe. Women can read you, pay attention to their response.
Lastly, the science. I recently learned that women have many more emotional connections in the brain than that of a man. In other words, a woman’s capacity to read emotional information greatly surpasses that of a man. Women’s brains are hardwired to read emotion. So trust how they read you…..generally speaking.
End Observations
Now, there are many more observations that I could discuss, but I’d rather close up this post since it has turned out to be rather long. I was inspired to write all this after my experiment with tinder yesterday.
I hope this post has some relevance to the SR community. I sense that some of you are here because you have played the game, have grown tired of its ups and downs, and have decided to save your seed long-term. Others of you hope to have a healthy relationship with women, but haven’t been able to do so in the past due to your own flawed perception of women. We all know that excessive masturbation, excessive lust, and obsessive pornographic consumption leads to a very skewed and unrealistic view of women. Additionally, many of you probably are unaware of the actual female reality and still think of woman idealistically as Disney princesses, incapable of deceit and malevolence. Many of you are here to get yourselves right, to clear out the neurotic thinking of your mind, to render a healthier perception of women as a whole.
Lucky are those who in their youth learned the female reality and became familiar with it, rather than living in an idyllic fantasy construct. Most of us however have been buffoons, instilled with the romantic values of Disney and other propaganda pushed to skew are view of women. Women are not angelic beings, but are rather very Machiavellian, not out of sheer evil, but rather as a coping mechanism for the hardships of life. Women’s nature has arisen simply out of necessity. Women evolved to rove through a psychological and emotional world, mental strengths that were honed as a result of their deficient physical strength in comparison to men.
Once you come to terms with the actual reality of women, there are several options. Before I state these, I suggest consider the sheer magnitude of propositioning that occurs for a relatively attractive woman in her prime, day in, day out. It will awaken you to your own desperation. You will realize why women take on their defensive and psychologically manipulative position. They are looking out for their own good and for the good of their future posterity.
So where does that leave you? Well, I assume most of you reading this are not naturally gifted at understanding the female world. Many of you are probably sexually frustrated. Many of you simply have given up hope due to your own failures and shortcomings with women. Thus, here is my own interpretation and advice to both you and myself. I am in the muck of life, just like you and what I write here is an attempt to both further my own understanding and advise myself wisely.
A young woman will always have many potential suitors. There are always plenty of men knocking at her gates hoping to capture her favor. If you join this hungry pack, you are a mere face amongst a multitude. It thus seems futile to me to always be on the chase, to dedicate all your energy and focus to a pursuit which may not offer any return. Slowly, your life energy is wasted, dumped hopelessly into a black hole.
Do not waste your energy any longer. Young woman will always exist. Woman will always be there as your potential suitor. Therefore, one woman is nothing to anguish over. She is not your special buttercup. She is merely a singular representation of a force which never ends.
So forget about woman or your hopes for courtship. You are young, vital, full of energy, full of potential, and capable of great things in your future. Turn your focus onto yourself. Build yourself into a better man. Create a life that is in line with your greatest aspirations and dreams. Save your semen as fuel for your own conquest. Build up the strength & stamina of your body through weightlifting, swimming, boxing, skiing, hiking, adventuring, any physical demanding activity. There is an Adonis which you could give birth to if you were serious about the development of your physicality.
Build up the strength and power of your mind. Read many books. Listen to the wise sages who have left their thoughts behind. Browse the spiritual wisdom of the holy books. Do not limit yourself to one dogma. If you lack male role-models, which I think many of us do, then find your advisors in the great men which history has remembered. Hernan Cortes could be your role-model. Henry Ford could be your role model. There have been many great men who embodied the world of gods upon the earth. And you could easily meet by investigating their wake. You can take their wisdom and embody it yourself. Increase your mental aptitude. Play chess. Learn strategy, learn to think long-term. Learn new subjects. Challenge your mind to grow.
Take care of yourself. It’s the best thing you could do. Eat clean, wholesome foods. Do not liter your mind with the disgusting mental and physical food that abounds. You embody whatever you consume. If all you eat is McDonalds, you will look like fast food and your vibration will fall. If you endlessly let hate enter your mindscape, you will become the embodiment of hate. You must guard your mental and physical vessel with suspicious eyes. You are the temple through which the light of god can enter, but first you must nurture yourself to a state of being which is receptive to the light. It is very easy to cut ourselves off from the light of god and in such a state, we are no better than dead.
Have a worthy life-long goal to pursue. It will not be realized or achieved in a day, weeks, months, or even years. It will take an entire lifetime to develop. So do not be deceived by anything that is quick. You are in it for the long haul and you have an entire lifetime to develop your career and passions. If you are an aspiring musician, dump your heart into the pursuit with full commitment despite the hardships. Chance favors the prepared mind. Opportunity will present itself to you if you commit. Great things will come. You must trust yourself and never give up.
If you can wisely commit your energy to solely yourself, you will no longer be a man of desperation, a man who looks beyond himself for fulfillment. You will have created a world in which you are content to exist singularly. And it is only then that a woman will eagerly enter your kingdom, will desire to enter your world. Who is doing the chasing now? Not me you will say. Potential suitors will offer themselves up to you. But your practice of SR should only aid in the development of your guardful eyes. You will not open up to just anyone. You are selective. You have refined and perfected yourself into a great jewel, into a beautiful pearl. You have the freedom to choose someone who will embellish and improve your world. And at this point in your long and wearisome journey, you will perhaps conclude that you never even needed a woman at all. For women, as I have observed, will stir the waters of your mind and provoke you into a state of disease and instability if you let them. A man who has firm roots in himself and can ground himself is the only one who should risk relationship. If your roots are weak, its likely the chaotic female element could uproot your entire tree and leave you in a state of desolation.
If a chaste life is not for you and you are desirous of a female companion, I still advise that you take the above to heart. And there should only be one more recommendation I make for you if you long for a feminine element in your life: familiarize yourself with the Female Reality. Just as you pursue your goals and your physical / mental health, so too should you pursue to acquaint yourself with this world. A man who knows the female reality has a better chance of surviving its destructive elements. I have seen too many men ruined and torn asunder by women once their relationship and marriage goes sideways. Why so? They never took the time to familiarize themselves with the world of women. I advise you to know this world, for without this map, you are at great risk of having the great world you have built ruined and destroyed quickly by the irrational feminine element.
Thank you for reading my long winded post. These are just my observations and thoughts. They are not the entire truth and are only conjecture. As mentioned, I mostly write this for myself as a form of advise and contemplation. Hopefully you too derive something useful from what I have written. Cheers my brothers. Good luck on your journey. Always have faith in your own capability. Believe that you are the gateway through which god can manifest himself.
