Does everyone get a complete social circle reset once they enter Uni?

[Reformed]

Is this true. Will uni be my first ever chance to finally build a strong social circle? I legit can’t mess that up, but how do u do it. Do u just grab everyone’s socials u see there and text everyone?

 

[Manletmachine]

Building a social circle in uni is impossible

 

[Nick.Harte]

Building a social circle in uni is impossible

This unless Chad

 

[Nick.Harte]

Do u just grab everyone’s socials u see there and text everyone?

You don't.They have to grab you and not the other way round

 

[autistic_tendencies]

after the first month it’s pretty hard

 

[Nick.Harte]

I ain't kidding boyo. You'll be mocked and humiliated by toilets if you are subHTN.

 

[Nick.Harte]

after the first month it’s pretty hard

BS.Pretty boys who god knows where the fuck hey come from managed to make friends with people from my class, while I rot.

 

[ElTruecel]

I haven’t talked to anybody in uni yet other than 1 or 2 school friends

 

[anthony111553]

I haven’t talked to anybody in uni yet other than 1 or 2 school friends

over

 

[Mastermind]

Yes if by "reset" you mean wiped clean
Making friends in universe/college is twice as difficult as it is in high school
Making them once you are out of that is borderline impossible

 

[Nick.Harte]

I haven’t talked to anybody in uni yet other than 1 or 2 school friends

If they don't talk to you = OVER

 

[Nick.Harte]

twice as difficult

NOT if you are at least mtn-htn

 

[InnerVoid]

social circelis genetic too

 

[ElTruecel]

If they don't talk to you = OVER

Idk how you’re even supposed to talk to people here. Last semester tbf I rarely went because I was virtually a neet. But idk how people who don’t dorm talk to people JFL.

 

[ElTruecel]

Yes if by "reset" you mean wiped clean
Making friends in universe/college is twice as difficult as it is in high school
Making them once you are out of that is borderline impossible

It depends if you dorm or not.

 

[Nick.Harte]

But idk how people who don’t dorm talk to people JFL.

Just put themselves out there and do the bare minimum.That's it. If you have to calculate = Over

 

[Nick.Harte]

social circelis genetic too

 

[Pikabro]

It’s impossible for me ngl. The best opportunity to make friends was school or country equiv of 15-18 ‘higher vocation’ institutions and extracurriculars in your youth and I wasted it being a dopey imbecile.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Building a social circle in uni is impossible

I somehow managed to get a group of friends from my accom in my first week, but half of them barely do anything

I have no friends on my course or elsewhere tho, and stopped going to lectures after first year pretty much

 

[Mastermind]

NOT if you are at least mtn-htn

Idk I didn't go to uni but observing the people I know I can tell they didn't make any new friends after HS
Once highschool ends your circle is fixed, if you have none by that point shit is fucked, you have to resort to Tinder for sex

 

[Pikabro]

Just put themselves out there and do the bare minimum.That's it. If you have to calculate = Over

I did a shit course ngl. It’s full of foids and whites. Should’ve chose an ethnic course. But ofc I had to be a delusional retard who never does the research and never gets down to reality

 

[Infinite]

It isn't so hard jfl
Sit next to random people in class and make small talk, and please, do NOT think of the blackpill then
Also, bonus points talking to the uggos and loners ganged together
Join actual clubs you're interested in and make friends there

 

[Deleted member 30037]

Guys in this thread saying it's "impossible" are just flat-out wrong btw. It's very doable to make friends at Uni but you have to actively seek them out. Don't expect shit to fall on your lap.

Start convos, speak to people in your accommodation, hang out with them, attend clubs/ social events, talk to random people in the library or whatever, get their contacts then form a friendship with them and their friends too. You have to actively work for it but it's very very possible.

 

[Nick.Harte]

I can tell they didn't make any new friends after HS

Losers. I know a lot of guys, especially pretty boys who made it.

 

[Nick.Harte]

It isn't so hard jfl
Sit next to random people in class and make small talk, and please, do NOT think of the blackpill then
Also, bonus points talking to the uggos and loners ganged together
Join actual clubs you're interested in and make friends there

It takes 0 effort tbh. If they think it's hard = Nver began

 

[Manletmachine]

I did a shit course ngl. It’s full of foids and whites. Should’ve chose an ethnic course. But ofc I had to be a delusional retard who never does the research and never gets down to reality

Did? Were u kicked out

 

[Nick.Harte]

You have to actively work for it

Wrong. Your face does 90% of the work

 

[Nick.Harte]

Did? Were u kicked out

already graduated ig

 

[Deleted member 30037]

Wrong. Your face does 90% of the work

Being GL helps. But guys don't care as much as women do (about having GL friendships) you just need to have common interests and be low inhib

 

[Pikabro]

Guys in this thread saying it's "impossible" are just flat-out wrong btw. It's very doable to make friends at Uni but you have to actively seek them out. Don't expect shit to fall on your lap.

Start convos, speak to people in your accommodation, hang out with them, attend clubs/ social events, talk to random people in the library or whatever, get their contacts then form a friendship with them and their friends too. You have to actively work for it but it's very very possible.

Yeah but that’s the thing you have to be proactive not a rotter type. I think strategy matters tho. You need to pick the right course and a dorm with people like you. Incel who moves in with sexhaver normies will just kill himself in a week for example.

Did? Were u kicked out

not yet.

 

[Mastermind]

It isn't so hard jfl
Sit next to random people in class and make small talk, and please, do NOT think of the blackpill then
Also, bonus points talking to the uggos and loners ganged together
Join actual clubs you're interested in and make friends there

Forced clingy small talk comes off as autistic
Clubbing alone is probably worse

Losers. I know a lot of guys, especially pretty boys who made it.

What if you study IT like I was and even if you get to make friends they are all nerds who will never introduce you to a single foid
Because that's what happened to me, I spent the entirety of my teenage years in sausagefests
This is a main reason why I eventually gave up and said fuck all, I was tired of being surrounded by men

 

[Deleted member 30037]

Yeah but that’s the thing you have to be proactive not a rotter type. I think strategy matters tho. You need to pick the right course and a dorm with people like you. Incel who moves in with sexhaver normies will just kill himself in a week for example.

For sure, but you should be at a uni and on a course with people who are hopefully similar to you anyways. But clubs are 100% the place to go though for common interests. If I could go back in time I'd join all the clubs at Uni but I was too high inhib back then + COVID

 

[Mastermind]

For sure, but you should be at a uni and on a course with people who are hopefully similar to you anyways. But clubs are 100% the place to go though for common interests. If I could go back in time I'd join all the clubs at Uni but I was too high inhib back then + COVID

Hardcore mode
What if you are out of uni and a wagecuck

 

[Deleted member 30037]

Hardcore mode
What if you are out of uni and a wagecuck

Harder out of Uni, but the exact same premise applies.

Clubs/ teams are optimal. You meet similar people with similar interests who are around your age range. From there you can become friends with them and also any friend groups they have too. It sounds cringe but you just have to put yourself out there and start convos, stuff happens when you take action, not when you sit back and watch.

 

[Nick.Harte]

What if you study IT like I was and even if you get to make friends they are all nerds who will never introduce you to a single foid

Excuse. Just put yourself out there should be enough. Walking around the campus as a HTN should be enough. I’ve seen a lot of guys getting num of females like that. Just be attractive theory. They already decided whether they wanted to mate with you or not in 13ms. No need to be in the same class as them.( that’s cope)

 

[Bojack]

You get a social circle reset once every surgery lol