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I have this fear of being judged and made fun of for my small penis. I'm in my 20s now but this insecurity has been crippling me ever since being a teenager and being made of for it (I'm Asian, unfortunately fitting the stereotype) My definition of small is less than the average size of all men in the United States, which is 5-6".
It feels like we live in a society that is always talking about penis size. An example is the phrase, "size does matter" in product marketing or when you watch shows like Game of Thrones and there are penis size jokes all throughout the series. Or even when I ask women in real life about their size preference and they all talk about how they love big dicks.
And I don't blame women for what they want. Of course who wouldn't want a bigger dick? It's like asking would you rather have $100 or $1000? The answer is obvious.
So I have struggled to put myself out there with women because I feel so inadequate. I've had sexual relationships in the past but every time while in the act I feel so inferior because I wonder if they even feel my small dick inside them.
I ask myself questions like:
"How can I compete with other men in the dating scene when I don't have a big dick?"
"Why would any woman want me if I can't provide a good sex with a big dick?"
And my biggest resulting fear is that a woman might date me but will eventually cheat on me because of my size. So I don't bother dating anymore.
Is there anything I can do about this? or is it just, "hey you got dealt a shitty hand in life, sorry" and I live a sexually unfulfilling life?
I know that people may suggest ideas like "it only takes a few inches to stimulate a woman", "get good at oral sex" or "not all women like big dicks", but to me they all sound like nicer ways of saying, "sorry you're just screwed."
It feels like we live in a society that is always talking about penis size. An example is the phrase, "size does matter" in product marketing or when you watch shows like Game of Thrones and there are penis size jokes all throughout the series. Or even when I ask women in real life about their size preference and they all talk about how they love big dicks.
And I don't blame women for what they want. Of course who wouldn't want a bigger dick? It's like asking would you rather have $100 or $1000? The answer is obvious.
So I have struggled to put myself out there with women because I feel so inadequate. I've had sexual relationships in the past but every time while in the act I feel so inferior because I wonder if they even feel my small dick inside them.
I ask myself questions like:
"How can I compete with other men in the dating scene when I don't have a big dick?"
"Why would any woman want me if I can't provide a good sex with a big dick?"
And my biggest resulting fear is that a woman might date me but will eventually cheat on me because of my size. So I don't bother dating anymore.
Is there anything I can do about this? or is it just, "hey you got dealt a shitty hand in life, sorry" and I live a sexually unfulfilling life?
I know that people may suggest ideas like "it only takes a few inches to stimulate a woman", "get good at oral sex" or "not all women like big dicks", but to me they all sound like nicer ways of saying, "sorry you're just screwed."
