MakinItHappenReturn
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Be who the fuck you are - any act or facade eventually gets found out and you will suffer mental dissonance in the meantime.
What are those things that constantly come to mind but you are too scared to express? They must eventually be uttered into the world, lest they fester in the halls of your mind and become toxic.
Honestly expressing your thoughts leads to more magic in every situation - even if it is tough to say. ESPECIALLY when its tough to say.
As a fun experiment: for one whole week - if it’s in your head, say it.
Bruv you'll be shocked as a mofoer how much you’ve made a habit of suppressing what you actually think.
Two people can interact, both putting up a facade that they believe the other person will like more.
It’s a fake performance because neither are secure in just being themselves.
Rather than letting go of the idea of who they think they should be, they cling to an idea of what they think is cool or acceptable.
The result is that neither person interacts with their true selves, and misses out on true connection. I see this MORE THAN EVER ON HERE. The desperation to pretend you are the most NT of them all.
It is HARDER to put on the act, to carefully measure your words than it is to speak from the heart.
Literally it requires more energy to constantly monitor what you are saying and worry about ramifications or social standing if you say this instead of that and so forth.
Some people will reject this and say “ahhh I can’t say what I want because XYZ”
Then maybe you should look at the circumstances of your life that are ‘forcing’ this.
Over time, constantly living life limited in this way has negative ramifications for the soul.
There of course is a level of social decorum that we must exhibit in our community - being honest does not mean talking shit about people. If you don’t have something nice to say about someone, allow saying it unless that ediat came at you. But withholding your truth, your passions and your interests or your personality because of any reason ends up decaying our spiritual selves inside and is unsustainable long term for any person long term. Esp man.
Perfect health is impossible unless your actions are aligned with your thoughts. Congruency.
The honest man eating dog food is healthier than the liar having wheatgrass shots. Remember dem ting.
What are those things that constantly come to mind but you are too scared to express? They must eventually be uttered into the world, lest they fester in the halls of your mind and become toxic.
Honestly expressing your thoughts leads to more magic in every situation - even if it is tough to say. ESPECIALLY when its tough to say.
As a fun experiment: for one whole week - if it’s in your head, say it.
Bruv you'll be shocked as a mofoer how much you’ve made a habit of suppressing what you actually think.
Two people can interact, both putting up a facade that they believe the other person will like more.
It’s a fake performance because neither are secure in just being themselves.
Rather than letting go of the idea of who they think they should be, they cling to an idea of what they think is cool or acceptable.
The result is that neither person interacts with their true selves, and misses out on true connection. I see this MORE THAN EVER ON HERE. The desperation to pretend you are the most NT of them all.
It is HARDER to put on the act, to carefully measure your words than it is to speak from the heart.
Literally it requires more energy to constantly monitor what you are saying and worry about ramifications or social standing if you say this instead of that and so forth.
Some people will reject this and say “ahhh I can’t say what I want because XYZ”
Then maybe you should look at the circumstances of your life that are ‘forcing’ this.
Over time, constantly living life limited in this way has negative ramifications for the soul.
There of course is a level of social decorum that we must exhibit in our community - being honest does not mean talking shit about people. If you don’t have something nice to say about someone, allow saying it unless that ediat came at you. But withholding your truth, your passions and your interests or your personality because of any reason ends up decaying our spiritual selves inside and is unsustainable long term for any person long term. Esp man.
Perfect health is impossible unless your actions are aligned with your thoughts. Congruency.
The honest man eating dog food is healthier than the liar having wheatgrass shots. Remember dem ting.
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