most women dont want u to want them

[edodalic29]

We all have been fed lies throughout our whole life that we need to show a women we care about her and like her and she will natrually like you back ….

wrong ……the second u show intrest & exploit your smv your done for , i have lost a women who was deeply interested in me that i pushed away because i reciprocated her feelings and invested to early

 

[try2beme]

As soon as i was openly into her she dropped me

 

[hiwasuwor]

why are females like this

 

[edodalic29]

As soon as i was openly into her she dropped me

I did also on numerous occasions because i didnt know any better , i kept thinking it was all looks and i could pretty much say whatever i wanted

 

[edodalic29]

why are females like this

In their biology , most women want to win you over , if they see your chasing her she will leave no matter how gl u are , they crave indifference and emotionally unavailable men

It all comes down to her survival to find the strongest man she can find and im not talking about physical

 

[TheLastLaugh]

Everything you're saying in this thread just confirms that attraction is almost entirely based on behavior, NOT value. Women want guys who don't actually care about them, and they are repulsed by guys who do care, even if they tick all the checkboxes.

When you realize how counterintuitive and self-sabotaging this is it makes sense why ancient societies operated the way it did. When women are given such freedom & power as they are today its impossible for relationships to be anything but sick & dysfunctional.

There's no such thing as a loving harmonious relationship where both partners are completely all in, there's always someone getting the short end of the stick whether they realize it or not. As a result, we ALL end up with partners that we don't truly care about or that don't truly care about us, or at the very least aren't each other's first choice.

 

[Allornothing]

why are females like this

Emotionally unavailable = high value, high status

Let's be real, in the modern day there's not much the average man can do to actually appear high value. It's not like we have to fight other men for food and resources and be the strongest. This is what women are programmed to want though. Women needed men, not the other way round.

Men nowadays have everything they need so they've lost that emotional unavailability and are now cursed to feel strong feelings of attachment to the women they're with. Emotional vulnerability in men is the result of modernisation.

Part of me hopes all of this is wrong.

 

[Never Get Up]

why are females like this

It’s all about you having options

No matter how good looking and/or tall you are a girl will test you to see if she can be replaced

Just because you’re good looking and/or tall doesn’t mean you have readily options at hand. Obviously subconsciously a woman can tell if a man’s genes are attractive to many different women but she wants to know if you have any at standby. You MUST show her other women are in your life whether...

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[copingtoohardrn]

We all have been fed lies throughout our whole life that we need to show a women we care about her and like her and she will natrually like you back ….

wrong ……the second u show intrest & exploit your smv your done for , i have lost a women who was deeply interested in me that i pushed away because i reciprocated her feelings and invested to early

That's why bbc are high smv in this era

 

[edodalic29]

Emotionally unavailable = high value, high status

Let's be real, in the modern day there's not much the average man can do to actually appear high value. It's not like we have to fight other men for food and resources and be the strongest. This is what women are programmed to want though. Women needed men, not the other way round.

Men nowadays have everything they need so they've lost that emotional unavailability and are now cursed to feel strong feelings of attachment to the women they're with. Emotional vulnerability in men is the result of modernisation.

Part of me hopes all of this is wrong.

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