Sexually Disabled
Anti-Incel
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Most important thing: Don’t put yourself in situations where you will get rejected. If you don’t know what to say don’t say anything.
You want to take it slow with a lot of women. In order to compensate for this slowness you need to talk to multiple women at the same time. This means that if you feel like a situation is not progressing with a woman you can wait a little while before retrying. Dont put yourself in a situation where she says no and you can’t wait it out.
Have short convos with women on social media. For longer conversations meet up in real life.
You want to reduce cognitive load as much as possible. If you spike a person’s anxiety they’re less likely to engage with you, even if you’ve done nothing wrong.
You can keep women in your rotation by commenting on their stories. They’ll remember you without you having to put in a lot of effort.
Most if your time maintaining women should he replying to stories and reply to convos that follow on from you replying to stories (a girl with keep the convo going if she really likes you).
Arranging meet ups:
Create a private snap (snap) or close friends group (IG) where you arrange a cool activity and offer someone to come along with you on that activity.
For example you can create a story saying “type X if u want to come canoeing with me”
If someone types X you can arrange when and where after that. Make sure you remind people before the event happens
Something like: We’re supposed to be doing x today at 1 o’clock. Can you still make it?
If a woman says no here, its fine. You can always wait it out and try again at a different time.
If multiple people type X you can arrange new dates to meet up with those other people. Lets say that 5 women want to meet up with you to go canoeing you can arrange 5 dates in the same day but with a 20 minute break in between the dates.
Dont push for going back to your place after the 1st few dates.
1st few dates should be low key to keep anxiety levels low and go on a serious date when you want to start getting physical with her.
You want to take it slow with a lot of women. In order to compensate for this slowness you need to talk to multiple women at the same time. This means that if you feel like a situation is not progressing with a woman you can wait a little while before retrying. Dont put yourself in a situation where she says no and you can’t wait it out.
Have short convos with women on social media. For longer conversations meet up in real life.
You want to reduce cognitive load as much as possible. If you spike a person’s anxiety they’re less likely to engage with you, even if you’ve done nothing wrong.
You can keep women in your rotation by commenting on their stories. They’ll remember you without you having to put in a lot of effort.
Most if your time maintaining women should he replying to stories and reply to convos that follow on from you replying to stories (a girl with keep the convo going if she really likes you).
Arranging meet ups:
Create a private snap (snap) or close friends group (IG) where you arrange a cool activity and offer someone to come along with you on that activity.
For example you can create a story saying “type X if u want to come canoeing with me”
If someone types X you can arrange when and where after that. Make sure you remind people before the event happens
Something like: We’re supposed to be doing x today at 1 o’clock. Can you still make it?
If a woman says no here, its fine. You can always wait it out and try again at a different time.
If multiple people type X you can arrange new dates to meet up with those other people. Lets say that 5 women want to meet up with you to go canoeing you can arrange 5 dates in the same day but with a 20 minute break in between the dates.
Dont push for going back to your place after the 1st few dates.
1st few dates should be low key to keep anxiety levels low and go on a serious date when you want to start getting physical with her.
