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im in a volunteering group and most guys and girls in it arent friends with each other. they barely interact and the very few ones that have a friendly relationship do so because they are in the same class in college so they knew each other before joining.
thats why the socialiizing advice is cope. i have been trying to socialize for a decade its impossible no mater where you go. people always have friend groups from high school or super early college days and they absolutely never bother creating new ones. its crazy.
as a result you cannot have a social circle, you cannot have a social life and you become rotter. your entire life is determined in the 12-18 year range but tbh, if you dont have established a friend gorup in hs, you wont be doing so in college either.
this is a brutal truth that a lot wont admit and it also ties in with the overall deterministic nature of society and how people are confined to a specific posistion in social equilibrium till they die. For example, i will never have, no matte how mnay girls i meet, they system will aways make it so tat i regress to inceldom.
You CANNOT escape your predestined place, you can deviate from it all you want, the matrix will eliminate all deviations eventually and you will be back where you started. Life is a simulation.
thats why the socialiizing advice is cope. i have been trying to socialize for a decade its impossible no mater where you go. people always have friend groups from high school or super early college days and they absolutely never bother creating new ones. its crazy.
as a result you cannot have a social circle, you cannot have a social life and you become rotter. your entire life is determined in the 12-18 year range but tbh, if you dont have established a friend gorup in hs, you wont be doing so in college either.
this is a brutal truth that a lot wont admit and it also ties in with the overall deterministic nature of society and how people are confined to a specific posistion in social equilibrium till they die. For example, i will never have, no matte how mnay girls i meet, they system will aways make it so tat i regress to inceldom.
You CANNOT escape your predestined place, you can deviate from it all you want, the matrix will eliminate all deviations eventually and you will be back where you started. Life is a simulation.