Sexual urges aren't the only reason fapping is addictive

[MongolTurk]

I haven't fapped in approximately 27 days and my sexual urges are infrequent at best and nonexistent at worst, yet I still occasionally feel the urge to indulge. I don't believe this is just due to the pleasurable sensation you get, fapping also lets you pretend like you're wanted and desired.

You watch the pornographic videos and imagine yourself in those situations. The girls are suggestive and forward, and when you put yourself in the guy's situation, you feel like you are sufficient and almost loved.

It's not just sexual pleasure, it throws you into this world where things are different. You live the life that you've always wanted, you can pretend like you are at least somewhat cared for by someone else and practically needed(albeit for something as trivial as someone else's sexual fulfillment but a feeling of being needed nonetheless).

This also goes for the videos that don't have a "plot" or build up, you naturally supply one in your imagination. The cope is more brutal than you realize

 

[prada wave]

dnr kys

 

[MongolTurk]

dnr kys

it certainly pertains to you, I would recommend quitting

 

[Mr Test]

true. Those virtual pov porn vids are legit made to give you the feeling that you are with the girl right now and that she really desires you

 

[thereallegend]

The masturbation is just as much mental as physical, very Freudian. Hence the term "mental masturbation".

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Porn stars are energetic leeches succubus

 

[longjohnmong]

it fills you with a sense of social fulfillment, and you feel empty and alone when you give it up, yeah

 

[RAMU KAKA]

I want to quit so bad man, have you viewed nsfw in these 29 days ? If i look at nsfw i find myself hooked from chaser effect

 

[MongolTurk]

I want to quit so bad man, have you viewed nsfw in these 29 days ? If i look at nsfw i find myself hooked from chaser effect

once I see it and it's provocative enough, there is no stopping what comes next. I've been going on very long streaks as of recently though. Still not 100% over the addiction, but it gets easier to go on long streaks when you do it just once.

 

[i hear voices]

I haven't fapped in approximately 27 days and my sexual urges are infrequent at best and nonexistent at worst, yet I still occasionally feel the urge to indulge. I don't believe this is just due to the pleasurable sensation you get, fapping also lets you pretend like you're wanted and desired.

You watch the pornographic videos and imagine yourself in those situations. The girls are suggestive and forward, and when you put yourself in the guy's situation, you feel like you are sufficient and almost loved.

It's not just sexual pleasure, it throws you into this world where things are different. You live the life that you've always wanted, you can pretend like you are at least somewhat cared for by someone else and practically needed(albeit for something as trivial as someone else's sexual fulfillment but a feeling of being needed nonetheless).

This also goes for the videos that don't have a "plot" or build up, you naturally supply one in your imagination. The cope is more brutal than you realize

exactly bro. I cured my fapping addiction by listening to ASMR gf audios on yt and for the past week I haven't felt a single urge

 

[roping3264]

dnr kys

 

[oldcel2002]

I haven't fapped in approximately 27 days and my sexual urges are infrequent at best and nonexistent at worst, yet I still occasionally feel the urge to indulge. I don't believe this is just due to the pleasurable sensation you get, fapping also lets you pretend like you're wanted and desired.

You watch the pornographic videos and imagine yourself in those situations. The girls are suggestive and forward, and when you put yourself in the guy's situation, you feel like you are sufficient and almost loved.

It's not just sexual pleasure, it throws you into this world where things are different. You live the life that you've always wanted, you can pretend like you are at least somewhat cared for by someone else and practically needed(albeit for something as trivial as someone else's sexual fulfillment but a feeling of being needed nonetheless).

This also goes for the videos that don't have a "plot" or build up, you naturally supply one in your imagination. The cope is more brutal than you realize

if this isn’t a larp then we have might just discovered one of the deepest darkest truecel traits known to mankind

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

i liked a girl so much that i didnt look at or think of anything sexual for a week straight just cause she was my top priority just for her to say she doesnt want me lol

 

[MongolTurk]

exactly bro. I cured my fapping addiction by listening to ASMR gf audios on yt and for the past week I haven't felt a single urge

have you felt the urge to rope tho? That is something that would make me think more about how I'll never have my oneitis saying those things to me. If it works for you tho, wunderbar

 

[MongolTurk]

i liked a girl so much that i didnt look at or think of anything sexual for a week straight just cause she was my top priority just for her to say she doesnt want me lol

this is my with my oneitis but for a year instead of a week

 

[Jamaldickjavontus]

this is my with my oneitis but for a year instead of a week

if she dry textig/slow texting abandon ship dont keep talking to her

 

[datboijj]

havent fapped to porn in almost 2 years
still want to stop fapping period
but my head space improved dramatically from no porn

 

[MongolTurk]

if she dry textig/slow texting abandon ship dont keep talking to her

I don't even text her. I've never had a conversation with her but I'm head over heals. She might not even know my name jfl. Even if I was in that situation, I would keep talking to her, I love her more than anything

 

[i hear voices]

have you felt the urge to rope tho? That is something that would make me think more about how I'll never have my oneitis saying those things to me. If it works for you tho, wunderbar

all the time bro. but most of that urge comes from the withdrawal symptoms from quitting

 

[lassebasse]

idk this feels like a porn addict thing