Why do people get offended by the idea of transactional relationships?

[Aladin]

For example, Donald Trump has been married to Melania for decades, and everyone just sees it as her being some “gold digger.” Meanwhile many teenagers who are “in love” in low class neighborhoods end up having a pregnancy out of wedlock and people just wanna make excuses.

Another example is friendships. If a man has female friends, he can use that as social proof to impress other women and attract them (think preselection.) However if a man were to say “I don’t really care that much about them, but I need them as social proof,” then he would be seen as some monster. A woman however could have male friends to use as protection from being raped and people would defend that.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Being with a gold digger is no different to using an escort

 

[Aladin]

Being with a gold digger is no different to using an escort

Massive fucking cope.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Massive fucking cope.

In what way, pajeet?

 

[micropp]

Transactional relationships disguised as genuine romantic relationship is what disgusts people

 

[Aladin]

In what way, pajeet?

She can clean your house.
She can cook you food.
She can give you children.
She has a lower body count and you can screw her without condoms while not worrying about STD’s.

 

[Aladin]

Transactional relationships disguised as genuine romantic relationship is what disgusts people

What is “genuine romantic relationship”, some teenage mutual infatuation?

 

[Xtra]

She can clean your house.
She can cook you food.
She can give you children.
She has a lower body count and you can screw her without condoms while not worrying about STD’s.

yes but if that’s the case then it’s not a transactional relationship. if she does that for you then she definitely likes you at least somewhat. I get what you are saying but transactional relationships are retarded, why would you date a bimbo who only wants your money while willingly knowing she doesn’t like you at all, that’s nothing but straight up cuckoldry

if I became rich I would never go near a gold digger, if she won’t ride with me in my shitty cheap used car then she isn’t getting in my ferrari

 

[micropp]

What is “genuine romantic relationship”, some teenage mutual infatuation?

Relationships that involve physical attraction, trust, loyalty and commitment
Love is not a feeling, it is a choice.

 

[normie_joe]

Being with a gold digger is no different to using an escort

Escorts suck you off well; gold diggers will give you starfish sex once a month.

 

[n9wiff]

Massive fucking cope.

Sure buddy

 

[Aladin]

yes but if that’s the case then it’s not a transactional relationship. if she does that for you then she definitely likes you at least somewhat. I get what you are saying but transactional relationships are retarded, why would you date a bimbo who only wants your money while willingly knowing she doesn’t like you at all, that’s nothing but straight up cuckoldry

if I became rich I would never go near a gold digger, if she won’t ride with me in my shitty cheap used car then she isn’t getting in my ferrari

Nah it’s definitely still transactional. Especially if she is religious and believes she is obligated to submit to her husband.

 

[Autismcel]

Being with a gold digger is no different to using an escort

 

[n9wiff]

Never has there been in human history where are husband and wife has enjoyed the company of each other. This has never ever happened before

 

[Aladin]

Relationships that involve physical attraction, trust, loyalty and commitment. Love is not a feeling, it is a choice.

Physical attraction is a feeling, it’s not a choice. The others can happen in transactional relationships.

 

[Aladin]

Never has there been in human history where are husband and wife has enjoyed the company of each other. This has never ever happened before

Nice strawman buddy.

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

She can clean your house.
She can cook you food.

It’s cheaper to just get a maid

She can give you children.

Good point. But you can do the same without a gold digger

She has a lower body count and you can screw her without condoms while not worrying about STD’s.

Have fun with your weekly-monthly starfish sex

 

[Aladin]

It’s cheaper to just get a maid

Fair point.

Good point. But you can do the same without a gold digger

You can’t get children from an escort.

Have fun with your weekly-monthly starfish sex

Cope if you think Trump only gets starfish sex from his wife.

 

[n9wiff]

Nice strawman buddy.

Relationships are always transactional but it isn't only money and sex. People just don't like the idea of paying someone to stay with you because it's just a very high end escort service

 

[Xtra]

Nah it’s definitely still transactional. Especially if she is religious and believes she is obligated to submit to her husband.

how is it transactional if she likes you

transactional relationship is like an old rich guy with a bimbo (you gave an example of that in the thread, donald + melania trump)

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

You can’t get children from an escort.

I didnt bring in escorts, i just said you dont need a gold digger to have kids

Cope if you think Trump only gets starfish sex from his wife.

Ur bringing extremes
Trump can is a billionaire that can recycle his wife for years

Average betabux cant

 

[Zangano1]

I wish I had female friends

 

[Aladin]

how is it transactional if she likes you

transactional relationship is like an old rich guy with a bimbo (you gave an example of that in the thread, donald + melania trump)

There’s no way she would be with him if he wasn’t loaded.

 

[Sixdaysinfallujah66]

In what way, pajeet?

atleast she stay with you 24x7 but after sometime will eventually start to love you.

 

[Sixdaysinfallujah66]

also a hot sexy wife is a symbol of power

 

[Aladin]

I didnt bring in escorts, i just said you dont need a gold digger to have kids

The children part I posted was in response to the dude who brought up escorts.

Ur bringing extremes
Trump can is a billionaire that can recycle his wife for years

Average betabux cant

But I’m talking about how people wanna shit on Trump’s successful marriage, and at the same time will defend divorced couples or couples who have children out of wedlock.

also a hot sexy wife is a symbol of power

also THIS.

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

also THIS.

Biggest delusion ngl

Whens the last time you saw a guy with a hot woman and thought “woah, i wonder how powerful/famous he is”

No, you just think “oh that guy has a fucking gold digger or a huge dick” and forget about it 3 mins later

 

[Aladin]

Biggest delusion ngl

Whens the last time you saw a guy with a hot woman and thought “woah, i wonder how powerful/famous he is”

No, you just think “oh that guy has a fucking gold digger or a huge dick” and forget about it 3 mins later

Strawman with the fame part.

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

Strawman with the fame part.

Elaborate

 

[Aladin]

Elaborate

Power doesn’t need to mean fame. It could just be rich.

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

Power doesn’t need to mean fame. It could just be rich.

No one looks up to that

When i see a betabuxxer i literally see him as a faggot

No sane man would willingly not wanna be loved

 

[Azonin]

I dont get it either my oneitis makes 10x more than me whats wrong with being a male gold digger/

 

[Aladin]

No one looks up to that

When i see a betabuxxer i literally see him as a faggot

Easy to say when you’re not even finished puberty.

The majority of men over 30 would kill to be rich and get hot young women.

No sane man would willingly not wanna be loved

Another strawman.

 

[Aladin]

I dont get it either my oneitis makes 10x more than me whats wrong with being a male gold digger/

Nothing.

 

[Azonin]

Nothing.

it goes against this forum's expectations that you need 6 figs to even look at women

 

[JawMogger]

For example, Donald Trump has been married to Melania for decades, and everyone just sees it as her being some “gold digger.” Meanwhile many teenagers who are “in love” in low class neighborhoods end up having a pregnancy out of wedlock and people just wanna make excuses.

Another example is friendships. If a man has female friends, he can use that as social proof to impress other women and attract them (think preselection.) However if a man were to say “I don’t really care that much about them, but I need them as social proof,” then he would be seen as some monster. A woman however could have male friends to use as protection from being raped and people would defend that.

Every relationship is transactional. Even if you're chad, you're just a boy toy accessory for girls to show off to their girlfriends

 

[Xtra]

There’s no way she would be with him if he wasn’t loaded.

that’s exactly my point. that’s what a transactional relationship is. And I have zero interest in a transactional relationship

 

[Aladin]

that’s exactly my point. that’s what a transactional relationship is. And I have zero interest in a transactional relationship

But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t do housework, she also had a child with him.

 

[Xtra]

But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t do housework, she also had a child with him.

yeah I’m not denying that but a transactional relationship isn’t appealing at all to me, I couldn’t live with myself knowing it’s just about money

 

[Aladin]

yeah I’m not denying that but a transactional relationship isn’t appealing at all to me, I couldn’t live with myself knowing it’s just about money

That’s fair but the point is saying it’s the same as a quick session with an escort like some users say is dishonest.

 

[FutureSlayer]

yeah I’m not denying that but a transactional relationship isn’t appealing at all to me, I couldn’t live with myself knowing it’s just about money

Would u be willing to do it knowing it’s just about looks?

 

[Aladin]

Would u be willing to do it knowing it’s just about looks?

Yeah he would because getting liked for looks is ego stroking.

 

[FutureSlayer]

Yeah he would because getting liked for looks is ego stroking.

Until you lose it

 

[Aladin]

Until you lose it

The idea is that if you pair bond and grow old together you accept your declining looks.

 

[FutureSlayer]

The idea is that if you pair bond and grow old together you accept your declining looks.

No such thing as pair bonding in 2024

 

[Xtra]

Would u be willing to do it knowing it’s just about looks?

looks don’t matter in my country so if I got a gf I know she would actually like me for myself (not for looks or money as I don’t have money)

 

[FutureSlayer]

looks don’t matter in my country so if I got a gf I know she would actually like me for myself (not for looks or money as I don’t have money)

Female nature is the same in every continent. where the fuck are u from

 

[Xtra]

Female nature is the same in every continent. where the fuck are u from

you have been on the forum since 2019 and you still don’t realise that not all women in all 190 countries think the exact same? culture and brainwashing matter much more than “nature”

 

[FutureSlayer]

you have been on the forum since 2019 and you still don’t realise that not all women in all 190 countries think the exact same? culture and brainwashing matter much more than “nature”

Yes, but I came to conclusion that in poor traditional countries they care more about money and status if looks is irrelevant. No woman in any culture will value you for your personality

 

[Lysine]

gold diggers will give you starfish sex once a month.

If you're lucky. I don't believe most married men even have sex.