Am I coping when I think im better looking irl to women than my rating here?

[LooksPSL]

I post my pics on here and get rated usually psl 4

Yet IRL I get told im attractive rather often. Its never by super hot women tbf, but my girlfriend will constantly tell me that her friends tell her im handsome. Ive even had my male friends tell me.

Could it be im better looking irl? Could it be female gaze? Or am I coping lol

 

[Deleted member 50012]

Yeah you probably are

Your real life experience with women tells you much more about your facial attractiveness than a bunch on guys rating you on this site

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I post my pics on here and get rated usually psl 4

Yet IRL I get told im attractive rather often. Its never by super hot women tbf, but my girlfriend will constantly tell me that her friends tell her im handsome. Ive even had my male friends tell me.

Could it be im better looking irl? Could it be female gaze? Or am I coping lol

yes

 

[LooksPSL]

yes

yes to what lol

 

[vermillioncorefan]

yes to what lol

title

 

[diamondbill]

if your gf's friends say it out of nowhere, they are probably being honest and its definitely better than being rated by people in here

 

[chosen-one]

Same bro it gives me crazy cognitive dissonance

Wikipedia:
Cognitive dissonance is typically experienced as psychological stress when persons participate in an action that goes against one or more of those things.[1] According to this theory, when two actions or ideas are not psychologically consistent with each other, people do all in their power to change them until they become consistent.[1][2] The discomfort is triggered by the person's belief clashing with new information perceived, wherein the individual tries to find a way to resolve the contradiction to reduce their discomfort.

 

[LooksPSL]

if your gf's friends say it out of nowhere, they are probably being honest and its definitely better than being rated by people in here

yeah, she doesnt ask them, that would be weird lol

 

[diamondbill]

yeah, she doesnt ask them, that would be weird lol

yeah then ofc don't listen to the guys here 10% are real 40% troll 50% are subhumans angry with life

 

[normie_joe]

I post my pics on here and get rated usually psl 4

Yet IRL I get told im attractive rather often. Its never by super hot women tbf, but my girlfriend will constantly tell me that her friends tell her im handsome. Ive even had my male friends tell me.

Could it be im better looking irl? Could it be female gaze? Or am I coping lol

IRL experiences >>> ratings here.

You are not fucking the autists here. The point of looksmaxxing is to increase your chances of positive social interaction. If you are having positive experiences IRL, just keep doing what you are doing.

Remember people here nitpick every fucking thing.

 

[moggathon]

I post my pics on here and get rated usually psl 4

Yet IRL I get told im attractive rather often. Its never by super hot women tbf, but my girlfriend will constantly tell me that her friends tell her im handsome. Ive even had my male friends tell me.

Could it be im better looking irl? Could it be female gaze? Or am I coping lol

psl autism>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> a real lfe woman

 

[Allornothing]

IRL experiences >>> ratings here.

You are not fucking the autists here. The point of looksmaxxing is to increase your chances of positive social interaction. If you are having positive experiences IRL, just keep doing what you are doing.

Remember people here nitpick every fucking thing.

I can’t take your posts seriously when it’s obvious you are having a crisis about your looks and coping. Sorry man you just don’t look good it’s not because of this site or anything.

 

[normie_joe]

I can’t take your posts seriously when it’s obvious you are having a crisis about your looks and coping. Sorry man you just don’t look good it’s not because of this site or anything.

Again with the coping accusation.

What am I coping with? I came here specifically for advice to fix my shit chin/jaw. I'm getting a bimax next year. If I'm coping, I won't be here.

 

[future slavic chad]

PSL is based off of the modeling industry which just includes striking features. You dont need striking features irl, you need good facial averageness aka harmony and idk pheno.

 

[incelmogger]

Yeah the cognitive dissonance caused by this has totally ruined my self-perception

 

[LooksPSL]

psl autism>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> a real lfe woman

Based

 

[chadintraining]

I post my pics on here and get rated usually psl 4

Yet IRL I get told im attractive rather often. Its never by super hot women tbf, but my girlfriend will constantly tell me that her friends tell her im handsome. Ive even had my male friends tell me.

Could it be im better looking irl? Could it be female gaze? Or am I coping lol

PSL is a joke for the most part, it matters somewhat, but appeal and female gaze matter much more

Vinnie Hacker gets rated htn-chadlite (even if he wasn’t appealmaxxed he would still be chad imo due to his bones) here yet probably slays more than all of the fourm chads combined

 

[Clown Show]

but my girlfriend