๕ඞChick3ncu1ry
Life is a beautiful journey, just enjoy the rides.
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No, you're not doing it because you want the best for me or that you're afraid of me getting hurt or that you're trying to protect me. Stop that bullshit right now. You are stealing years of my freedom and youth that I could've used to my advantage. You're actually thinking about how YOU feel; always putting your feelings before mine. You fill my mind with all your doubts and fears so that I can't trust myself to know what I want. The world can be a scary, depressing and cruel place, BUT, there's nothing you or I can do to change that. The world's not going to change for me no matter how many years I waste staying at home with you. And if you truly wanted what was best for me, then you'd ENCOURAGE me to make these decisions for MYSELF and SET BOUNDARIES. You, as a parent, need to put aside your fears at some point and come to face the fact that your child is going to have step out into the world and leave the birds nest. That's just how life is. You don't keep them locked up with you in your house because you're afraid of what could happen. I mean, if you think about it, we aren't safe anywhere in this world. When are you ever going to teach your child that it's okay to be free?