Hanging with nerds in HS is the biggest death sentence

[Mastermind]

Keep in mind that birds of a feather flock together but even then, if you're not bad looking or excessively autistic and still make the mistake of hanging around nerds, gamers, cosplayers and tabletop people you are quite literally asking to get permabanned from social interactions, especially after high school or college ends.
If you do that one serious mistake in your developmental years it's beyond over for you, not even kidding.

I was some IT guy in a IT classroom full of average IT men and guess what happened to me?
I had the chance to hang around with cool normies and decided to throw it away because our hobbies didn't get along and now I'm paying the full price.
Despite my yielding looks and money maxxing effort I will never, ever manage to compensate my prior lack of exposition to popular friend circles.
I will never be the night-party-goer, I could play the part with enough drugs in my bloodstream only to be discovered an autistic fraud the moment I refuse to show up for a second drinking session because I despise alcohol and smoking with all my heart.

I understand that if you're excessively ugly or unpleasant to be around you will never get the chance to hang around normies because people are heavily superficial, but if you get the chance to be friends with cool people DO NOT waste it away because you prefer playing videogames or dislike drinking alcohol like I did.
For most of you it's probably too late but still, consider this an advice.

 

[InnerVoid]

i never had a chance so its over

 

[anthony111553]

i never had a chance so its over

- a larper

 

[Pikabro]

Who you are matters more than who you hang around with. If you’re genuinely cool and NT you’ll never be far off from the popular kids but I guess you do have to be initiated into their lifestyle. And you would naturally drift away from the nerds or have genuine friendships with them.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

i hanged out with an incel once and i never spoke to certain people ever again even though we had a solid friendship

 

[Nick.Harte]

i never had a chance so its over

Same shit with me

 

[Nick.Harte]

never spoke to certain people ever again

Why?

 

[Allornothing]

Yeah it's sad realising you can't actually associate with people who are secretly like you.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

Why?

they got the ick from me talking to outcasts

 

[wsada]

Why do I always see the shit I need 10 years late

 

[Nick.Harte]

they got the ick from me talking to outcasts

So they were the ones to drop you?

 

[ElTruecel]

JFL if you actually believe in this gay nerd and popular kid trope from Disney movies.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

So they were the ones to drop you?

nah we just slowly distanced ourselves. i was liked by a lot of people at one point, i just had to ruin it all

 

[Nick.Harte]

i just had to ruin it all

What about now?

 

[ElTruecel]

DO NOT waste it away because you prefer playing videogames

Everyone legit every single guy plays video games. LMFAO what are you on about

 

[fuxkdakikez]

What about now?

i only have friends on .org, i don’t count classmates as friends.

 

[Deleted member 52057]

I hanged out with a closeted homo and everyone thought I was gay
Good I never talked to that fag again

 

[oldcel2002]

Keep in mind that birds of a feather flock together but even then, if you're not bad looking or excessively autistic and still make the mistake of hanging around nerds, gamers, cosplayers and tabletop people you are quite literally asking to get permabanned from social interactions, especially after high school or college ends.
If you do that one serious mistake in your developmental years it's beyond over for you, not even kidding.

I was some IT guy in a IT classroom full of average IT men and guess what happened to me?
I had the chance to hang around with cool normies and decided to throw it away because our hobbies didn't get along and now I'm paying the full price.
Despite my yielding looks and money maxxing effort I will never, ever manage to compensate my prior lack of exposition to popular friend circles.
I will never be the night-party-goer, I could play the part with enough drugs in my bloodstream only to be discovered an autistic fraud the moment I refuse to show up for a second drinking session because I despise alcohol and smoking with all my heart.

I understand that if you're excessively ugly or unpleasant to be around you will never get the chance to hang around normies because people are heavily superficial, but if you get the chance to be friends with cool people DO NOT waste it away because you prefer playing videogames or dislike drinking alcohol like I did.
For most of you it's probably too late but still, consider this an advice.

the only friends I can be with are weird kids/ugly kids/ unpopular kids since they are open to being your friend nd shit

I tried being with cool normies but just ended up getting bullied out of the groups or kicked out or humiliated by them so either I just ride solo or talk to loser since I am basically one

 

[Nick.Harte]

i only have friends on .org, i don’t count classmates as friends.

Same. Classmates are only acquaintances

 

[Pikabro]

Worrying too much about social validation seems feminine ngl. I mean I was this super awkward jester spaz in my teen years who tried to hang around with everyone. I should’ve blocked out all the random BS and stuck to boxing instead of getting pushed out of it super early.

I remember meeting someone who seemed ‘cringe’, had interests in anime etc and didn’t talk NT but he had the substance and inner confidence from boxing so he got along with everyone also apparently had attention from foids. Tbh that’s how you really become NT.

So what’s the point in this being popular shit when you can just make some good friends and build inner confidence instead of changing yourself to fit needs of some popular circle and just copying them. You’ll probably still be an unconfident incel in the end.

 

[edgemaxx]

i alreadty wasted it at 15. its over fukkkkkkkkkkkkkk i could have been a party doer.. instead of this fucking indoor shutin retard nigger

 

[edgemaxx]

Worrying too much about social validation seems feminine ngl. I mean I was this super awkward jester spaz in my teen years who tried to hang around with everyone. I should’ve blocked out all the random BS and stuck to boxing instead of getting pushed out of it super early.

I remember meeting someone who seemed ‘cringe’, had interests in anime etc and didn’t talk NT but he had the substance and inner confidence from boxing so he got along with everyone also apparently had attention from foids. Tbh that’s how you really become NT.

So what’s the point in this being popular shit when you can just make some good friends and build inner confidence instead of changing yourself to fit needs of some popular circle and just copying them. You’ll probably still be an unconfident incel too.

holy shit no one wants me and im alone = big confidence boost

 

[reeceJen]

Keep in mind that birds of a feather flock together but even then, if you're not bad looking or excessively autistic and still make the mistake of hanging around nerds, gamers, cosplayers and tabletop people you are quite literally asking to get permabanned from social interactions, especially after high school or college ends.
If you do that one serious mistake in your developmental years it's beyond over for you, not even kidding.

I was some IT guy in a IT classroom full of average IT men and guess what happened to me?
I had the chance to hang around with cool normies and decided to throw it away because our hobbies didn't get along and now I'm paying the full price.
Despite my yielding looks and money maxxing effort I will never, ever manage to compensate my prior lack of exposition to popular friend circles.
I will never be the night-party-goer, I could play the part with enough drugs in my bloodstream only to be discovered an autistic fraud the moment I refuse to show up for a second drinking session because I despise alcohol and smoking with all my heart.

I understand that if you're excessively ugly or unpleasant to be around you will never get the chance to hang around normies because people are heavily superficial, but if you get the chance to be friends with cool people DO NOT waste it away because you prefer playing videogames or dislike drinking alcohol like I did.
For most of you it's probably too late but still, consider this an advice.

very true only in highschool though

 

[Pikabro]

holy shit no one wants me and im alone = big confidence boost

Nah because they’ll invite you to stuff. If an incel nerd like me tries to be social they’ll get mocked or shadowbanned with the circle going out n stuff while you’re unaware

 

[edgemaxx]

Nah because they’ll invite you to stuff. If an incel nerd like me tries to be social they’ll get mocked or shadowbanned with the circle going out n stuff while you’re unaware

i never get invited to shit. if i do i dont even go, i just feel like a retarded burden to them....!!! its abused rat syndrome

 

[Deleted member 14693]

You were in the loser circles cause you are a loser, not the other way around.

 

[ElTruecel]

Worrying too much about social validation seems feminine ngl. I mean I was this super awkward jester spaz in my teen years who tried to hang around with everyone. I should’ve blocked out all the random BS and stuck to boxing instead of getting pushed out of it super early.

I remember meeting someone who seemed ‘cringe’, had interests in anime etc and didn’t talk NT but he had the substance and inner confidence from boxing so he got along with everyone also apparently had attention from foids. Tbh that’s how you really become NT.

So what’s the point in this being popular shit when you can just make some good friends and build inner confidence instead of changing yourself to fit needs of some popular circle and just copying them. You’ll probably still be an unconfident incel too.

JFL op doesn’t realize it’s just about being NT. The people who make the same points as him or say similar that I knew irl were some deluded gook ricecels. Seems like it’s a common RiceCel trait

You were in the loser circles cause you are a loser, not the other way around.

OP is some coping looksmax user who thinks because he can act NT online means he deserves status irl. He’s an even bigger loser considering he can’t fit in with those he hangs around with LMFAO

 

[ElTruecel]

the only friends I can be with are weird kids/ugly kids/ unpopular kids since they are open to being your friend nd shit

I tried being with cool normies but just ended up getting bullied out of the groups or kicked out or humiliated by them so either I just ride solo or talk to loser since I am basically one

If ur on .org this makes sense. I’m non NT so I got treated like shit by low class spergs as well. Nt pill Is giga law even the subhumans & manlets will mock you due to u being non NT.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

I dont hang with anyone, i dont need anyone, im a lone wolf

 

[Mastermind]

they got the ick from me talking to outcasts

I remember bringing the special ed kid with the boys one day and this friend of mine started going ham on him with cruel insults out of fucking nowhere.
Then he spent the whole day implicitly blaming me like I was responsible for tarnishing his reputation or something.
Very brutal shit, I fucking hated that day, I fucking hated normies ever since.

 

[ElTruecel]

I remember bringing the special ed kid with the boys one day and this friend of mine started going ham on him with cruel insults out of fucking nowhere.

That’s brutal ngl I feel like that would possibly happen to me mainly if im wearing glasses. Glasses + skinny = easy target for others to shit on you on top of being actually non NT.

I will need to roid maxx

 

[Mastermind]

JFL if you actually believe in this gay nerd and popular kid trope from Disney movies.

The one where some nerd incel portrayed by Michael Cera gets Stacy and the evil bully jocks get nothing?
Absolutely hate that trope, there is a term for that kind of delusions, it's called "Disneybrain"

Everyone legit every single guy plays video games. LMFAO what are you on about

Every single guy prefers playing videogames to social interactions?

the only friends I can be with are weird kids/ugly kids/ unpopular kids since they are open to being your friend nd shit

I tried being with cool normies but just ended up getting bullied out of the groups or kicked out or humiliated by them so either I just ride solo or talk to loser since I am basically one

Are you unforgivibly ugy or autistic?

 

[Mastermind]

That’s brutal ngl I feel like that would possibly happen to me mainly if im wearing glasses. Glasses + skinny = easy target for others to shit on you on top of being actually non NT.

I will need to roid maxx

Do not wear glasses unless you have Henry Cavill's face

 

[ElTruecel]

The one where some nerd incel portrayed by Michael Cera gets Stacy and the evil bully jocks get nothing?
Absolutely hate that trope, there is a term for that kind of delusions, it's called "Disneybrain"

No I mean the entire nerd jock dichotomy in general. It’s just a cope it’s all based on NT and looks. An ugly loser who’s good at sports will still get treated worse than a prettyboy who only cares about school.

Every single guy prefers playing videogames to social interactions?

they prefer playing video games during their social interactions. I’m legit an outlier and legit couldn’t social status maxx as much as I could’ve outside of being non NT simply due to the fact I didn’t play vidya

 

[T_T]

I hung out completely alone, is that any worse than hanging out with nerds.

 

[Mastermind]

they prefer playing video games during their social interactions.

You described me jfl the moment my friends "grew" out of videogames and started smoking weed and snorting cocaine to "impress" foids is when I lost all contacts, not enough bitches playing Minecraft.
And to think I'm a bigger stimulant user than any of them nowadays, they would probably like me but I've changed too much to interact in a non-weird way being aware of my past.

 

[radicalrationalist]

who cares, i didn't talk to anyone in school. is there anything more insignificant than missing out on social circle in high school? it really doesn't matter.

 

[Mastermind]

being aware of my past

This is an argument I should tackle in another thread.
Do not try to rebuild bridges with past friends if you had a glow up after a lifetime of being the passive computer kid.
Things will just get weird, they will never get over the mismatch between your current and past self.
I was literally a puritan nerd with a recessed mandible back then, they would probably expect me to go through the rigmarole explaining why I'm no longer like that.

 

[T_T]

This is an argument I should tackle in another thread.
Do not try to rebuild bridges with past friends if you had a glow up after a lifetime of being the passive computer kid.
Things will just get weird, they will never get over the mismatch between your current and past self.
I was literally a puritan nerd with a recessed mandible back then, they would probably expect me to go through the rigmarole explaining why I'm no longer like that.

This. I was a loser for years out of high school and kept on talking to this guy who regretted his nerd social circle (yet none of them hung out with me). He always thought I was a hopeless autist who would rope any day and lifes been progressing fine ever since he stopped talking to me

 

[Gonthar]

I hung out completely alone, is that any worse than hanging out with nerds.

Yes, your social and verbal skills will diminish, and this could affect you in the future or other situations, if you really can't get anything else, it's better at least to be in a group of nerds to have someone to chat and hang out with, than being completely alone and friendless.

 

[ElTruecel]

You described me jfl the moment my friends "grew" out of videogames and started smoking weed and snorting cocaine to "impress" foids is when I lost all contacts, not enough bitches playing Minecraft.
And to think I'm a bigger stimulant user than any of them nowadays, they would probably like me but I've changed too much to interact in a non-weird way being aware of my past.

Yea that is true most Zoomers do actually vape, smoke weed, etc. I’ve never done drugs so.

 

[T_T]

Yes, your social and verbal skills will diminish, and this could affect you in the future or other situations, if you really can't get anything else, it's better at least to be in a group of nerds to have someone to chat and hang out with, than being completely alone and friendless.

Brutal I didnt speak a word in high school and im still autistic now because of it. An acquaintance of mine from the nerd social circle claims to be non NT but runs circles around me every time we talk with third party and brutally humiliates me every time. This snake also used to talk about me on his group chat with his nerd friends

 

[radicalrationalist]

Yes, your social and verbal skills will diminish, and this could affect you in the future or other situations, if you really can't get anything else, it's better at least to be in a group of nerds to have someone to chat and hang out with, than being completely alone and friendless.

you can supplement internet socialization to maintain social skills. i went to an mma and bodybuilding forum to hang around chads all day now i have adopted their masculine speech patterns heh

 

[T_T]

you can supplement internet socialization to maintain social skills. i went to an mma and bodybuilding forum to hang around chads all day now i have adopted their masculine speech patterns heh

Dont think so, me and many others are still autistic after posting online all day

 

[infini]

You're too negative. Forgive yourself, and go for the life that you crave. You probably haven't even finished your teens.