HOW can i COPE not being a CHAD ?

[Mrinfinityx]

I experience the exact same phenomena as this guy but even more paranoid

" [20/f] Long post ahead which will probably make me sound like a total Debbie Downer (just a warning), so hopefully this is okay to ask here. I'm just really desperate for any advice.
Basically, I'm letting myself waste my whole life all because I'm extremely unattractive. It sounds so dumb, but I really can't get past the fact that I'm likely the ugliest person out there right now. I haven't left my house in a year solely because of this, I can't even go out in my backyard just for the fear that someone might see my face. I can barely look the mirror anymore, and when I do, I just break down at how deformed and weird looking my face is. I really don't look like a normal human, no exaggeration. This also is not all in my mind either, as people have been so kind to let me know how ugly I am either straight to my face or behind my back. When I go out, people stare (literally will turn around staring at me) or laugh, especially other women; which just makes me never want to leave my house again even more.
This has controlled my life for awhile now; back when I was 15, a guy at my school asked me out, only for me to meet him at this mall where it turned out he was there with his friends + they all laughed at me for thinking he was actually serious then proceeded to tell me how gross looking I was. That totally crushed me, and I refused to go back to school. I got a rhinoplasty when I was 16 (hoping it'd make things better), and surprisingly, I had a few good years of people being nice to me + even strangers saying I was pretty. That all changed when I was 19, and I realized I was suddenly just getting extremely ugly again out of nowhere. I didn't gain/lose weight (I'm thin + in good shape so that isn't a factor either, it's purely just my facial features), didn't change my style/hair, or anything like that so I don't know what happened. Long story short, I'm now 20 and still horribly ugly. Deep hollows under my eyes, droopy nose despite the surgery, weird eye shape, weird lip shape, just nothing normal looking about my face. I could get multiple plastic surgeries, but at this point, I don't think any surgery could make me normal looking.
I'm coming to terms that I'll be alone forever, which is hard to accept, but it's reality. I'm just tired of crying/being sad all the time and not being able to leave my house at all, or get my GED + go back to school, or even do anything to make my mom proud. I feel bad that I'm her only child and I can't do anything but be a loser because of this. She's always been pretty + popular, so she doesn't understand any of this which is even worse because I feel so alone. I can't get myself go to therapy to find ways to cope either, because I just really can't get myself to leave the house. I just wish I looked normal, it'd change my life, but that's likely not possible so. Idk I'm sorry for rambling, but does anyone have any advice on how I can just accept being the ugliest person ever (really not exaggerating)? Also, how to deal with people staring/laughing if I do ever get the courage to go out? I'd appreciate anything, and if anyone read this whole thing, thank you. "



It a fucking nightmare, i cant even evolve in life because of this because i must face people in real life and i decompose myself watching me in every window, i am too much aware of my failos

 

[Kamui]

She’s a foid who cares

 

[Mrinfinityx]

She’s a foid who cares

I am virgin at 29 yo and i am blackpilled to the core, it is a fucking mental jail, i dont even try anything

The story is so disturbingly similar to mine expect for the mockery part

 

[Kamui]

I am virgin at 29 yo and i am blackpilled to the core, it is a fucking mental jail, i dont even try anything

The story is so disturbingly similar to mine expect for the mockery part

Just go get an escort nigga

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Personality disorders and traits in patients with body dysmorphic disorder - PubMed

Individuals with body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) have been postulated to have schizoid, narcissistic, and obsessional personality traits and to be sensitive, introverted, perfectionistic, and insecure. However, data on personality traits and disorders in BDD are limited. This study assessed 148...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

All me

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Just go get an escort nigga

I am not even a truecel physically, it is just that i have too much high standards for myself, it is not even others

 

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[tombradylover]

being HTN is still really, really good. Its just that stacies/stacylites will be off limits but tbh even chads struggle with them too as they want status more then anything. Just get to HTN at least and ur set since most ppl are so incredibly mid its not even funny

 

[Mrinfinityx]

being HTN is still really, really good. Its just that stacies/stacylites will be off limits but tbh even chads struggle with them too as they want status more then anything. Just get to HTN at least and ur set since most ppl are so incredibly mid its not even funny

For my part it is not even for girls, it is just that i printed in my mind an ideal image of me that i must absolutely reach before having confidence in myself, i am so fucked mentally projecting that much

 

[tombradylover]

For my part it is not even for girls, it is just that i printed in my mind an ideal image of me that i must absolutely reach before having confidence in myself, i am so fucked mentally projecting that much

Nothing wrong with having an ideal image or goal to strive too. If that's what really will make u happy then do what it takes to reach ur goal. on the way make sure u recognize when ur making progress to keep u motivated and in good spirits. don't let ur thoughts and emotions over power u. Learn to control and harness ur emotions and thoughts in a way that keeps u motivated and working toward ur goal. If u unlock ur mind u will become a beast

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Nothing wrong with having an ideal image or goal to strive too. If that's what really will make u happy then do what it takes to reach ur goal. on the way make sure u recognize when ur making progress to keep u motivated and in good spirits. don't let ur thoughts and emotions over power u. Learn to control and harness ur emotions and thoughts in a way that keeps u motivated and working toward ur goal. If u unlock ur mind u will become a beast

Do u have this feeling when u will reach ur physical goal and liking what u saw in all mirror angles and pictures u will completely disinhibit yourself unlocking completely ur brain and showing off ur real personnality without any complexes, fear of rejection and anxiety ?

No wonder why Chads and Stacies are successful when they know their rejection is only based on the situation and not on the core, physical validation is too much power in all domain of life, imagine playing in creative mode when u are in the apprehension of the survival one, u can do way more much in life and even appreciate it when this criteria is behind u

 

[Whatever0]

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Blue pulled reddit soycucks make me so angry. I just want to grab them and gouge out their eyes with my own fingers

 

[Deleted member 31155]

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Blue pulled reddit soycucks make me so angry. I just want to grab them and gouge out their eyes with my own fingers

TOTAL SOYBOI EXTERMINATION

 

[Krakowski]

I know you won't like this answer but autism / anexiety is a far bigger problems for you than what your looks are.

 

[Bonesbonesbonesbone]

Nothing wrong with having an ideal image or goal to strive too. If that's what really will make u happy then do what it takes to reach ur goal. on the way make sure u recognize when ur making progress to keep u motivated and in good spirits. don't let ur thoughts and emotions over power u. Learn to control and harness ur emotions and thoughts in a way that keeps u motivated and working toward ur goal. If u unlock ur mind u will become a beast

do you go gym? and is HTN good enough for an Asian man to be dating?

 

[tombradylover]

do you go gym? and is HTN good enough for an Asian man to be dating?

Yea I go gym. And htn is more than enough but u need to be realistic about ur dating goals. Htb+ white women will be hard asf (they are hard for anyone sub chad and ethnic) but all other races are wide open. Htn is a great place to be if ur truly htn

 

[Bonesbonesbonesbone]

Yea I go gym. And htn is more than enough but u need to be realistic about ur dating goals. Htb+ white women will be hard asf (they are hard for anyone sub chad and ethnic) but all other races are wide open. Htn is a great place to be if ur truly htn

how do u get 1g of protien per lb of bodyweight ?

 

[moggathon]

not a molecule

 

[vulcan_]

I experience the exact same phenomena as this guy but even more paranoid

" [20/f] Long post ahead which will probably make me sound like a total Debbie Downer (just a warning), so hopefully this is okay to ask here. I'm just really desperate for any advice.
Basically, I'm letting myself waste my whole life all because I'm extremely unattractive. It sounds so dumb, but I really can't get past the fact that I'm likely the ugliest person out there right now. I haven't left my house in a year solely because of this, I can't even go out in my backyard just for the fear that someone might see my face. I can barely look the mirror anymore, and when I do, I just break down at how deformed and weird looking my face is. I really don't look like a normal human, no exaggeration. This also is not all in my mind either, as people have been so kind to let me know how ugly I am either straight to my face or behind my back. When I go out, people stare (literally will turn around staring at me) or laugh, especially other women; which just makes me never want to leave my house again even more.
This has controlled my life for awhile now; back when I was 15, a guy at my school asked me out, only for me to meet him at this mall where it turned out he was there with his friends + they all laughed at me for thinking he was actually serious then proceeded to tell me how gross looking I was. That totally crushed me, and I refused to go back to school. I got a rhinoplasty when I was 16 (hoping it'd make things better), and surprisingly, I had a few good years of people being nice to me + even strangers saying I was pretty. That all changed when I was 19, and I realized I was suddenly just getting extremely ugly again out of nowhere. I didn't gain/lose weight (I'm thin + in good shape so that isn't a factor either, it's purely just my facial features), didn't change my style/hair, or anything like that so I don't know what happened. Long story short, I'm now 20 and still horribly ugly. Deep hollows under my eyes, droopy nose despite the surgery, weird eye shape, weird lip shape, just nothing normal looking about my face. I could get multiple plastic surgeries, but at this point, I don't think any surgery could make me normal looking.
I'm coming to terms that I'll be alone forever, which is hard to accept, but it's reality. I'm just tired of crying/being sad all the time and not being able to leave my house at all, or get my GED + go back to school, or even do anything to make my mom proud. I feel bad that I'm her only child and I can't do anything but be a loser because of this. She's always been pretty + popular, so she doesn't understand any of this which is even worse because I feel so alone. I can't get myself go to therapy to find ways to cope either, because I just really can't get myself to leave the house. I just wish I looked normal, it'd change my life, but that's likely not possible so. Idk I'm sorry for rambling, but does anyone have any advice on how I can just accept being the ugliest person ever (really not exaggerating)? Also, how to deal with people staring/laughing if I do ever get the courage to go out? I'd appreciate anything, and if anyone read this whole thing, thank you. "



It a fucking nightmare, i cant even evolve in life because of this because i must face people in real life and i decompose myself watching me in every window, i am too much aware of my failos

I cope with coding

 

[WanderingBurro]

[20/f] stopped reading there.

 

[Deleted member 40471]

I experience the exact same phenomena as this guy but even more paranoid

" [20/f] Long post ahead which will probably make me sound like a total Debbie Downer (just a warning), so hopefully this is okay to ask here. I'm just really desperate for any advice.
Basically, I'm letting myself waste my whole life all because I'm extremely unattractive. It sounds so dumb, but I really can't get past the fact that I'm likely the ugliest person out there right now. I haven't left my house in a year solely because of this, I can't even go out in my backyard just for the fear that someone might see my face. I can barely look the mirror anymore, and when I do, I just break down at how deformed and weird looking my face is. I really don't look like a normal human, no exaggeration. This also is not all in my mind either, as people have been so kind to let me know how ugly I am either straight to my face or behind my back. When I go out, people stare (literally will turn around staring at me) or laugh, especially other women; which just makes me never want to leave my house again even more.
This has controlled my life for awhile now; back when I was 15, a guy at my school asked me out, only for me to meet him at this mall where it turned out he was there with his friends + they all laughed at me for thinking he was actually serious then proceeded to tell me how gross looking I was. That totally crushed me, and I refused to go back to school. I got a rhinoplasty when I was 16 (hoping it'd make things better), and surprisingly, I had a few good years of people being nice to me + even strangers saying I was pretty. That all changed when I was 19, and I realized I was suddenly just getting extremely ugly again out of nowhere. I didn't gain/lose weight (I'm thin + in good shape so that isn't a factor either, it's purely just my facial features), didn't change my style/hair, or anything like that so I don't know what happened. Long story short, I'm now 20 and still horribly ugly. Deep hollows under my eyes, droopy nose despite the surgery, weird eye shape, weird lip shape, just nothing normal looking about my face. I could get multiple plastic surgeries, but at this point, I don't think any surgery could make me normal looking.
I'm coming to terms that I'll be alone forever, which is hard to accept, but it's reality. I'm just tired of crying/being sad all the time and not being able to leave my house at all, or get my GED + go back to school, or even do anything to make my mom proud. I feel bad that I'm her only child and I can't do anything but be a loser because of this. She's always been pretty + popular, so she doesn't understand any of this which is even worse because I feel so alone. I can't get myself go to therapy to find ways to cope either, because I just really can't get myself to leave the house. I just wish I looked normal, it'd change my life, but that's likely not possible so. Idk I'm sorry for rambling, but does anyone have any advice on how I can just accept being the ugliest person ever (really not exaggerating)? Also, how to deal with people staring/laughing if I do ever get the courage to go out? I'd appreciate anything, and if anyone read this whole thing, thank you. "



It a fucking nightmare, i cant even evolve in life because of this because i must face people in real life and i decompose myself watching me in every window, i am too much aware of my failos

Damn your experience is harsh but expected under blackpoll theory.

You tried more intensive surgury? What are your failos.

maybe the only good thing I can say is sub 5 can ascend to normie with suitable surgury as their failos are wide open.

DM me for rating if you like

 

[kanderior]

If it's really that bad then surgery is the only thing you can do, seems like the solution is pretty clear to me.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Glad my lifetime blackpills were never this intense

Imagine a girl pretending to ask you out because you're so ugly it's funny

Grimmm

 

[PunishedDollcel]

Guarantee that foid gets 100+ matches on dating apps per day especially if she's as skinny as she claims. She's just another case of a bitch wearing Chad Tinted Glasses.

 

[spark]

mirin' OP's reading comprehension

 

[spark]

Glad my lifetime blackpills were never this intense

Imagine a girl pretending to ask you out because you're so ugly it's funny

Grimmm

It happens very often. Never happened to me or anyone I've known personally but heard a lot of stories like this from even the small town I am from. My mom is a teacher and her student committed suicide by drowning in a river after exactly experiencing this "prank".

 

[Mrinfinityx]

mirin' OP's reading comprehension

I can't even memorize instantaneous things or follow a conversation anymore, I am always thinking internally h24 about my mewing position for hyoid, my neck, head tilting, my squint level to appear less awkward and comparing myself everytime in height frame or bone features aspects even with women and children

Also my collagen and my undereye when I have the occasion to go to the toilet

It is more and more impossible to go out

 

[Mrinfinityx]

I know you won't like this answer but autism / anexiety is a far bigger problems for you than what your looks are.

Still surgery is the only thing close to me to confidence

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

It happens very often. Never happened to me or anyone I've known personally but heard a lot of stories like this from even the small town I am from. My mom is a teacher and her student committed suicide by drowning in a river after exactly experiencing this "prank".

" I'm Ethan Bradberry! "