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I had an idea this evening, so after Iftar I sat with her in her bedroom to talk about her dating experiences. For your information:
Before Uni, she'd be pretty similar to her, but with straight hair:
I talked to her about her dating app matches, and so far, based on the profiles she showed me, she's not getting the men she wants:
I showed her this link, and asked her to pick out the men she would consider dating:
She selected these profiles:
Those were the profiles my sister specifically picked out, and I asked her to choose what her ideal man would be out of the set. She chose this guy:
I asked her about the possibility of this hypothetical guy having other women throwing themselves at him hoping to get his attention and commitment from them, some of them being very attractive, educated women. She told me that "pretty girls often have shitty, shallow personalities so that's where it's my time to shine".
I internally caged at this statement.
I believe if she chases lads like these now, she will end up racking up a high body count because they definitely will not commit to her. However I still think there is hope for her and I don't want her to become a whore, so I want to tell her to looksmaxx, lose weight and improve her personality before stepping back out there to get the guy she wants.
I also told her there is hope for her, as Tom is now married to a becky.
Boyos. What should my sister do if she wants to date guys like Ollie?
- She is currently PSL 4 due to being overweight. Before, she was around PSL 4.75.
- Before becoming overweight, dyeing her hair pink, and getting a septum piercing (which she hides when she comes home from Uni), she looked quite similar to young Taylor Swift but curvier and shorter.
- She's around average height for a typical UK foid.
- She is 20.
- She had no PiV sex, but she did admit to having oral sex on 2 boys before at uni. I asked her to describe what they looked like, and they were both tall, thin white HTN "indie boys".
- Phenowise you can say she is of the "Manic Pixie Dream Girl" archetype, which looks something like this. Imagine foids like these but overweight:
Before Uni, she'd be pretty similar to her, but with straight hair:
I talked to her about her dating app matches, and so far, based on the profiles she showed me, she's not getting the men she wants:
- She told me she gets lots of likes, but rejects almost all of them.
- This is the case despite having a very filled-out bio, with her Spotify account linked.
- Most of her matches are normies with a couple of HTNs here and there. She told me she only swiped on them because they had a good educational background, or in a good job (e.g. software engineer).
- A typical match for her would be a white PSL 4 software engineer.
- Her ideal man would be someone "cute" with a good job, fit body and about 6' tall, and ideally white or white-passing.
My MTB sister now using dating apps. Asked her to show me her matches (all matched from her uni town); all MTNs but she told me she doesn't like them
While she is a pink-haired MTB university student herself. She's home for the Easter break before going back to uni. Our parents don't know she's on apps JFL. She showed me three matches; one MTN with a ripped body, one 6'3 LTN and one nerdy/soy MTN programmer. She said she matched with them...
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I showed her this link, and asked her to pick out the men she would consider dating:
She selected these profiles:
Those were the profiles my sister specifically picked out, and I asked her to choose what her ideal man would be out of the set. She chose this guy:
I asked her about the possibility of this hypothetical guy having other women throwing themselves at him hoping to get his attention and commitment from them, some of them being very attractive, educated women. She told me that "pretty girls often have shitty, shallow personalities so that's where it's my time to shine".
I internally caged at this statement.
I believe if she chases lads like these now, she will end up racking up a high body count because they definitely will not commit to her. However I still think there is hope for her and I don't want her to become a whore, so I want to tell her to looksmaxx, lose weight and improve her personality before stepping back out there to get the guy she wants.
I also told her there is hope for her, as Tom is now married to a becky.
Boyos. What should my sister do if she wants to date guys like Ollie?
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