I'm not made for dating no matter how much I looksmax

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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
 
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dnr , nt is law
It is but you are just born with it
Can't be drunk or on coke 24/7 for me to be low inhib. Just accept what you are and move on with life.
 
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Have you actually tried finding a girl?
 
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Find God bro would help u a lot
 
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I had a gf before
Didn't took me time to realise that relationships aren't for me.
Relationships work if the dynamics are right. The man is supposed to be away all day to provide, and then when he's home he fucks her and plays with his children. I suspect that your dynamics were way off and therefore it didn't last.
 
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You can find a loving caring women that isn't toxic but they don't exist in the west
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
I’m sorry man, I know how you feel.
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
Real
 
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same, im repuslive
 
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you might not be a girls first option, but you are my favorite org user! 😃👍
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl \
god is dead
 
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jfl aren’t u on roids too :feelskek:
 
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Its possible you’re right but also bro you’re still young af and have a lot of work to do both looksmaxxing wise and getting over mentalceldom. The drug binges did not help. Idk man try medications or take up martial arts or music. Join an IRL community, not this shithole. Go on an ayahuasca retreat if you have the balls for it.
 
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I dont think mentally good enoufgh for a ltr i dont think my height and face will save me
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
i realized this a while ago and my decision to live with it has been the best decision ever
i hold no spite for women or attractive men in relationships
it really does suck knowing you won't ever know what it's like but life isn't all about dating women
i wish you the best
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
Are you dating women of your race? I bet you can get Nigerian women or something. After I looksmaxxed I got my first GF who loves me so much, I am her first in every way too… I feel very fortunate, also she’s my same ethnicity and I honestly think it’s for the best
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
It’s kor like this everywhere. Europe u can find less broken people.
 
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geomaxx and put in the work mate
 
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i just wanna rope
 
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I can't visualize it
 
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It is but you are just born with it
Can't be drunk or on coke 24/7 for me to be low inhib. Just accept what you are and move on with life.
yes changing to be neurotypical is hard when you are not but becoming low inhibit is pretty easy, everybody is born low inhibit (not inhibit at all) but then society makes you high inhibit. I was really high inhibit and shy at 15-16 but now at 22 i'm really confident and talkative. You just have to try doing things that you know you should but you are not doing bc high inhibit, that's it. I'm a real example that you could become way less inhibit and even more neurotypical.
 
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Geomax, you aren't gonna find many if any girls like that in the west. Look in Eastern Europe.
 
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Its possible you’re right but also bro you’re still young af and have a lot of work to do both looksmaxxing wise and getting over mentalceldom. The drug binges did not help. Idk man try medications or take up martial arts or music. Join an IRL community, not this shithole. Go on an ayahuasca retreat if you have the balls for it.
Tbh dating seems just too stressful to me
Always be a top notch male , always give her time and support , make sure you don't get a bit uglier , make sure she doesn't has any male friends coming in her life in your relationship , make sure you tell her about everything
Like it's just too stressful and when you look at the single life it's just way too fun , no fucks given about anyone just do what you like , what you look like isn't a worry and fuck escorts or have regular hookups from dating apps /clubs to fulfill sexual desires.
Just wayyyyy to stress in dating
 
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I dont think mentally good enoufgh for a ltr i dont think my height and face will save me
Wish I was nt asf and could approach 100 girls a day without giving 2 fucks
But then I remember how approaching as a not so hot guy would only result in it being a harrasment lmao
 
yes changing to be neurotypical is hard when you are not but becoming low inhibit is pretty easy, everybody is born low inhibit (not inhibit at all) but then society makes you high inhibit. I was really high inhibit and shy at 15-16 but now at 22 i'm really confident and talkative. You just have to try doing things that you know you should but you are not doing bc high inhibit, that's it. I'm a real example that you could become way less inhibit and even more neurotypical.
I wish I was low inhib asf and could do it
But I just can't approach a girl unless I'm borderline blacked out while drinking or high asf on coke ( in clubs) + single life seems to be so much better imo , dating seems to be soo much of stress when I think about it as a sub chad.
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
Its a lie you didnt follow gods diet your problem my bio says everything
 
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i realized this a while ago and my decision to live with it has been the best decision ever
i hold no spite for women or attractive men in relationships
it really does suck knowing you won't ever know what it's like but life isn't all about dating women
i wish you the best
True tbh just accepting things as it is and changing your life accordingly is the best
Nothing wrong in accepting you won't find loving relationship and you gotta be single but once you do you live life at a much better level than coping with stuff you weren't born to do .
 
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There are some things in life which sooner or later one has to realise and for me that is that God didn't made me to be in a loving relationship with a girl not coz I'm ugly (6'4 ltn) but just that the idea of a girl "loving" me sounds unreal in today's world
Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
. Getting a virgin gf is winning a lottery today.
Can't imagine putting up so much time, efforts and emotions only to get cheated upon. Constantly being top notch and put up time
Dating isn't for me
exactly my thoughts
 
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having this mindset is what makes you eventually get cucked in the future bro!
 
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Tbh dating seems just too stressful to me
Always be a top notch male , always give her time and support , make sure you don't get a bit uglier , make sure she doesn't has any male friends coming in her life in your relationship , make sure you tell her about everything
Like it's just too stressful and when you look at the single life it's just way too fun , no fucks given about anyone just do what you like , what you look like isn't a worry and fuck escorts or have regular hookups from dating apps /clubs to fulfill sexual desires.
Just wayyyyy to stress in dating
bruhh we livin the same life my nigga
 
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Like you literally gotta be top notch in every aspect to not get cheated on and you still can
thats a lie tbh
first you need to
1. be able to be loved in the first place (htn+)
2. find virgin girl and fuck her making you both married
 
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@Nick.Harte
 
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I’ve already given up. You mog me to oblivion.
I feel paralysed and I genuinely don’t know what to do at this point. Everyday I wake up, browse org and go to sleep. Can’t do shit anymore. I feel stuck ngl
 
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your just too ugly to date
 
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I’ve already given up. You mog me to oblivion.
I feel paralysed and I genuinely don’t know what to do at this point. Everyday I wake up, browse org and go to sleep. Can’t do shit anymore. I feel stuck ngl
You should give ketamine a try worked well for me to fix my depression
I was suicidal before now atleast I wanna live.
 
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you look at the single life it's just way too fun
Only if you’re good for hookups. Being sexless + in no relationship for too long is bad
 
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your just too ugly to date
True tbh
Don't have the enough looks to pull off fighting in relationships without backing off.
Dating is only for strong htn+ niggas
 
I wish I was low inhib asf and could do it
But I just can't approach a girl unless I'm borderline blacked out while drinking or high asf on coke ( in clubs) + single life seems to be so much better imo , dating seems to be soo much of stress when I think about it as a sub chad.
try firstly with small things, and then gently increase "the level", being in a relantionship is very often way better than being single, stats support that, for example people in the relationship have way lower risk of depression. Your brain tries to cope with "single life being better" bc it's actually scared of rejection. In worst case scenario you got rejected by a foid, that's it, no need to be stressed about it.
 
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Relationships work if the dynamics are right. The man is supposed to be away all day to provide, and then when he's home he fucks her and plays with his children. I suspect that your dynamics were way off and therefore it didn't last.
Most men doing that today would be working while they get cucked jfl. Also technology sort of makes it obsolete. Like before modern appliances being a stay at home mother required actual work. Today most stay at home mothers are watching Netflix all day. There’s not enough chores to do in a house so it’s an abysmal trade off for men, maybe need to Amishmaxx or something
 
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To catch a butterfly don't go out with a catcher chasing it down, the butterfly will fly away, instead build a nice garden and the butterfly will come to you if not you will at least have a nice garden. Garden(you) butterfly (soul mate). If you build yourself up on the pyramid you will hopefully meet the same high level intellectual people as well. If these kinds of people betray you too well... Don't be disappointed you can't control other people the only thing you control in this world is your mind accept that and move on, your life will be a lot more peaceful.
 
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Wish I was nt asf and could approach 100 girls a day without giving 2 fucks
But then I remember how approaching as a not so hot guy would only result in it being a harrasment lmao
Im 6"6 and htn with a big frame and good style rn htn comes from 20+ forum ratings
 
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Same even if I ascended to HTN and get a girlfriend she gonna leave me after seeing my post history on here or my messy room and the fact I’m mentally. It’s all useless in the end.
 
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