Tenshi
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Dude just deal with it, such is life for men.
Women don't love men. They can't. The sooner you understand this, the better. It doesn't matter if you're subhuman or Chad, that's an universal truth. You suck it up, and move on. Start appreciating women for what they actually can do to you (like, fuck you really good jfl).
We are men, we have to understand we cannot afford to be ''emotional'' about things. Leave the coping and the delusion for women, we accept things and we do something about it, even if it is adapting your views or actions to maneuver your way in a new situation.
When I was 18 I was genuinely socially inept. Like, it'd take me a ritual at home to even go to a bakery and having to talk to the cashier and I'd be sweating. It's all gone now, of course.
But in this meantime, I basically went through a lot of adversity that forced me to do things that I wasn't comfortable with and I just had to do it anyways. With the constant practice and pushing through the hard times, that's how you get to a point where you're more comfortable in your skin to deal with certain situations.
It's like, ofc you can't approach girls. You're never done it. You're scared, you don't know what to do. This is normal, but the only way to learn is going out there, doing it, sucking at it, feeling like shit and not quitting until your good.
Women don't love men. They can't. The sooner you understand this, the better. It doesn't matter if you're subhuman or Chad, that's an universal truth. You suck it up, and move on. Start appreciating women for what they actually can do to you (like, fuck you really good jfl).
We are men, we have to understand we cannot afford to be ''emotional'' about things. Leave the coping and the delusion for women, we accept things and we do something about it, even if it is adapting your views or actions to maneuver your way in a new situation.
People here overestimate these things, ''being NT'' or whatever. It's just life experience, practice and so on. But I get it, it was something that was constantly in my mind when I was the age of most guys here as well.
When I was 18 I was genuinely socially inept. Like, it'd take me a ritual at home to even go to a bakery and having to talk to the cashier and I'd be sweating. It's all gone now, of course.
But in this meantime, I basically went through a lot of adversity that forced me to do things that I wasn't comfortable with and I just had to do it anyways. With the constant practice and pushing through the hard times, that's how you get to a point where you're more comfortable in your skin to deal with certain situations.
It's like, ofc you can't approach girls. You're never done it. You're scared, you don't know what to do. This is normal, but the only way to learn is going out there, doing it, sucking at it, feeling like shit and not quitting until your good.
