improving my social skills is tiring, destined to not have any close friends

[bugeater23]

i learn a lot from experience, but its just too brutal to have many potential friends that you fuck up your chances with or came off as weird in a few occasions.

there is so much for me to learn, there is absolutely 0 people on this planet i am close to or am comfortable around

not possible to control the fact that i overthink. my responses may be slow, even days or weeks long because i want to formulate the perfect response, just to send it and think "man i look fucking retarded now why did i send this", then think about this the next time i talk to another person so i dont make that mistake again

 

[Deleted member 51465]

Real

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Preach brother

 

[Tabula Rasa]

‘friends’ are so unneeded it’s all just resource extraction

 

[Chadpreet_]

Keep trying bro don't give up. Also read How To Win Friends And Influence People

 

[bugeater23]

anyone i become friends with, i immediately overthink and easily come up with reasons to hate them and that's all i end up thinking about, or think about whether or not theyre thinking about my fuck ups or times ive sperged out, their intentions, etc.. fuck this shit man

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

You can help me to search for kemonololi waifus

 

[JBcollector]

i learn a lot from experience, but its just too brutal to have many potential friends that you fuck up your chances with or came off as weird in a few occasions.

there is so much for me to learn, there is absolutely 0 people on this planet i am close to or am comfortable around

not possible to control the fact that i overthink. my responses may be slow, even days or weeks long because i want to formulate the perfect response, just to send it and think "man i look fucking retarded now why did i send this", then think about this the next time i talk to another person so i dont make that mistake again

Wanted male friends is gay af

 

[MexicanShortHotGuy]

Just have friends while non-NT, bro.

 

[BananaBoy]

I don’t think it’s possible to fake being social for a long time. I did this and it worked initially but later on my boring ass character revealed itself.

 

[iblamejews]

abused dog trait

 

[bugeater23]

I don’t think it’s possible to fake being social for a long time. I did this and it worked initially but later on my boring ass character revealed itself.

for me its the other way around, i am too boring and not outgoing at first, only those who stick around will find more about myself