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It’s not your fault. Never blame yourselves.
I occasionally see posts where some of you guys think you did something to “deserve” your height, either in this life or a hypothetical past life. So this post is for you.
This is something that you need to tell yourself every single day. Life coaches and PUAs like 6’3 Andrew Tate [are telling you to run game on 5 women every day](https://www.aol.com/murky-online-world-andrew-tate-065208828.html), but I'm telling you to tell yourself this 5 times a day:
**It's not your fault.**
This should be said and emphasized a lot more. I need you guys to completely digest this idea. It is important to keep reminding yourself of this truth. Once you truly understand this, you will have a much more peaceful mindset.
The situation you are in was **forced upon you**.
Don't let normies gaslight you.
[Genetic determinism is anathema to most people](https://www.nytimes.com/1981/09/01/science/effects-of-beauty-found-to-run-surprisingly-deep.html?pagewanted=1). You will always see the fortunate, the lucky people [try to take credit for their living situations](https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/the-role-of-luck-in-life-success-is-far-greater-than-we-realized/), but they won't acknowledge the opportunities they were given.
I want you to understand something: when people tell you "you can do it, you can do anything," they are not saying it for your benefit. They are saying it to gaslight you and feel better about themselves. It implies that if you fail, it was because of something you did wrong.
"You could've done it, but you didn't, so it's your fault."
You look at a guy like Jeremy Meeks, scum of the earth. This guy is the personification of luck. The guy made the wrong choices and decisions at every step of the way, and he still made it as a [multimillionaire top model](https://sfist.com/2017/01/03/hot_felon_jeremy_meeks_now_has_big/), all because of his looks and 6’ height.
He comes from a [broken family](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5644925/Jeremy-Meeks-father-jail-33-years-murder-young-mother.html), he's a [criminal, robber, gangster, beat an underage kid to near death](https://hollywoodlife.com/2014/06/21/jeremy-meeks-2002-arrest-beating/), [drug dealer](https://www.firstcoastnews.com/article/news/weird/hot-felon-in-court-asks-for-public-defender/77-271067739), [weapons charges](https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/hot-felon-jeremy-meeks-gets-two-years-prison-gun-rap-n302041), you fucking name it. Yet, women are worshiping him, [literally worshiping him](https://www.mediaite.com/tv/women-offer-to-pay-bail-for-handsome-convict-why-society/).
I ask you this: how many mistakes is too many? 10? 20? 50?
When you are tall and good-looking, [no amount is too many.](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6762156/) [Anything is forgivable](https://www.insider.com/cameron-herrin-tiktok-viral-videos-prison-free-too-cute-2021-8).
​
"Anything is possible. Never give up. God's got a plan for you." - [Jeremy Meeks](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/F2QtEjb6t1E)
​
Well, when you look like [him](https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/licensed-image?q=tbn:ANd9GcRbZSv-NNUGLtTLfeiXSI1Eo3bIHQlB418Vs-nedpE3So6RQH4_O5TbvzOBPeu6CMUn5bxHghHLsEpJMqc), yeah, of course anything is gonna be possible.
​
You look at a guy like Hunter Biden, [drug addict](https://time.com/5952773/hunter-biden-memoir-beautiful-things/) and [porn actor](https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2023/07/19/marjorie-taylor-greene-hunter-biden-photos/). Still, he's a [board member of a nine-figure international company](https://www.axios.com/pro/energy-policy/2023/03/09/hunter-bidens-mine-truth). All because of his dad. All because he was lucky enough to be born into the Biden family.
You look at Elon Musk, richest guy on earth. He comes from a dirty rich family that [makes bank off of the backs of literal child slaves](https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-mining-children-trfn/tesla-apple-among-firms-accused-of-aiding-child-labor-in-africa-idUSKBN1YK24F/). [His 80-year-old father made a child with his 30-year-old stepdaughter.](https://www.mamamia.com.au/errol-musk/) Think about it, this guy was fucking 50 years old when he adopted that child.
These are morally bankrupt people, and yet you see the lives they are living.
You look at a guy like Bill Gates, [whose classmates' parents literally bought a computer room](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bill-gates-at-home/) for his high school during a time when even top U.S. universities didn't have computer rooms. Bill got to spend time with the latest and greatest computers as a child in the 1960s.
I am not saying Bill is dumb. Of course, you also need brains, but [even intelligence is luck](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4270739/).
As an aside, notice how all of these people are also considerably above average height except for Bill Gates.
It's brutal how lucky you have to be in life. Not only do [you need the smarts](https://docs.iza.org/dp8235.pdf), but you need to be born in the [right time and location](https://news.byu.edu/news/study-hockey-players-born-october-through-december-score-more-and-are-paid-more) into the [right family](https://magadhmahilacollege.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Advantages-of-Nuclear-Family.pdf). You think a smart kid who was born in a war-torn third-world country stands any chance?
Never.
Fucking never.
You gotta be lucky in this life. The most important factor governing success in life is luck. [Looks will directly influence how you are treated by others](https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0033-2909.111.2.304) [from the day you were born](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/264380105), before you could even remember. This in turn shapes your personality.
[Your intelligence](https://www1.udel.edu/educ/gottfredson/reprints/1997whygmatters.pdf), the [opportunities you were born into](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6296851/), [your gender](https://mitili.mit.edu/sites/default/files/project-documents/SEII-Discussion-Paper-2016.07-Terrier.pdf); they are all important.
Even in the job market, [just your gender influences your chances majorly](https://ifunny.co/picture/sent-100-applications-as-a-man-and-a-woman-it-BbmtYyFB8).
Everything in life comes down to luck.
"Anything is possible, you can do anything."
No, you cannot do anything you want to in life, and it's not your fault. Genetic determinism and luck rule every aspect of your life.
You did nothing wrong.
So don't let anybody gaslight you.
Instead, don't be a free agent in life. Let the truth guide you.
I occasionally see posts where some of you guys think you did something to “deserve” your height, either in this life or a hypothetical past life. So this post is for you.
This is something that you need to tell yourself every single day. Life coaches and PUAs like 6’3 Andrew Tate [are telling you to run game on 5 women every day](https://www.aol.com/murky-online-world-andrew-tate-065208828.html), but I'm telling you to tell yourself this 5 times a day:
**It's not your fault.**
This should be said and emphasized a lot more. I need you guys to completely digest this idea. It is important to keep reminding yourself of this truth. Once you truly understand this, you will have a much more peaceful mindset.
The situation you are in was **forced upon you**.
Don't let normies gaslight you.
[Genetic determinism is anathema to most people](https://www.nytimes.com/1981/09/01/science/effects-of-beauty-found-to-run-surprisingly-deep.html?pagewanted=1). You will always see the fortunate, the lucky people [try to take credit for their living situations](https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/the-role-of-luck-in-life-success-is-far-greater-than-we-realized/), but they won't acknowledge the opportunities they were given.
I want you to understand something: when people tell you "you can do it, you can do anything," they are not saying it for your benefit. They are saying it to gaslight you and feel better about themselves. It implies that if you fail, it was because of something you did wrong.
"You could've done it, but you didn't, so it's your fault."
You look at a guy like Jeremy Meeks, scum of the earth. This guy is the personification of luck. The guy made the wrong choices and decisions at every step of the way, and he still made it as a [multimillionaire top model](https://sfist.com/2017/01/03/hot_felon_jeremy_meeks_now_has_big/), all because of his looks and 6’ height.
He comes from a [broken family](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5644925/Jeremy-Meeks-father-jail-33-years-murder-young-mother.html), he's a [criminal, robber, gangster, beat an underage kid to near death](https://hollywoodlife.com/2014/06/21/jeremy-meeks-2002-arrest-beating/), [drug dealer](https://www.firstcoastnews.com/article/news/weird/hot-felon-in-court-asks-for-public-defender/77-271067739), [weapons charges](https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/hot-felon-jeremy-meeks-gets-two-years-prison-gun-rap-n302041), you fucking name it. Yet, women are worshiping him, [literally worshiping him](https://www.mediaite.com/tv/women-offer-to-pay-bail-for-handsome-convict-why-society/).
I ask you this: how many mistakes is too many? 10? 20? 50?
When you are tall and good-looking, [no amount is too many.](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6762156/) [Anything is forgivable](https://www.insider.com/cameron-herrin-tiktok-viral-videos-prison-free-too-cute-2021-8).
​
"Anything is possible. Never give up. God's got a plan for you." - [Jeremy Meeks](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/F2QtEjb6t1E)
​
Well, when you look like [him](https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/licensed-image?q=tbn:ANd9GcRbZSv-NNUGLtTLfeiXSI1Eo3bIHQlB418Vs-nedpE3So6RQH4_O5TbvzOBPeu6CMUn5bxHghHLsEpJMqc), yeah, of course anything is gonna be possible.
​
You look at a guy like Hunter Biden, [drug addict](https://time.com/5952773/hunter-biden-memoir-beautiful-things/) and [porn actor](https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2023/07/19/marjorie-taylor-greene-hunter-biden-photos/). Still, he's a [board member of a nine-figure international company](https://www.axios.com/pro/energy-policy/2023/03/09/hunter-bidens-mine-truth). All because of his dad. All because he was lucky enough to be born into the Biden family.
You look at Elon Musk, richest guy on earth. He comes from a dirty rich family that [makes bank off of the backs of literal child slaves](https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-mining-children-trfn/tesla-apple-among-firms-accused-of-aiding-child-labor-in-africa-idUSKBN1YK24F/). [His 80-year-old father made a child with his 30-year-old stepdaughter.](https://www.mamamia.com.au/errol-musk/) Think about it, this guy was fucking 50 years old when he adopted that child.
These are morally bankrupt people, and yet you see the lives they are living.
You look at a guy like Bill Gates, [whose classmates' parents literally bought a computer room](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bill-gates-at-home/) for his high school during a time when even top U.S. universities didn't have computer rooms. Bill got to spend time with the latest and greatest computers as a child in the 1960s.
I am not saying Bill is dumb. Of course, you also need brains, but [even intelligence is luck](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4270739/).
As an aside, notice how all of these people are also considerably above average height except for Bill Gates.
It's brutal how lucky you have to be in life. Not only do [you need the smarts](https://docs.iza.org/dp8235.pdf), but you need to be born in the [right time and location](https://news.byu.edu/news/study-hockey-players-born-october-through-december-score-more-and-are-paid-more) into the [right family](https://magadhmahilacollege.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Advantages-of-Nuclear-Family.pdf). You think a smart kid who was born in a war-torn third-world country stands any chance?
Never.
Fucking never.
You gotta be lucky in this life. The most important factor governing success in life is luck. [Looks will directly influence how you are treated by others](https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0033-2909.111.2.304) [from the day you were born](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/264380105), before you could even remember. This in turn shapes your personality.
[Your intelligence](https://www1.udel.edu/educ/gottfredson/reprints/1997whygmatters.pdf), the [opportunities you were born into](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6296851/), [your gender](https://mitili.mit.edu/sites/default/files/project-documents/SEII-Discussion-Paper-2016.07-Terrier.pdf); they are all important.
Even in the job market, [just your gender influences your chances majorly](https://ifunny.co/picture/sent-100-applications-as-a-man-and-a-woman-it-BbmtYyFB8).
Everything in life comes down to luck.
"Anything is possible, you can do anything."
No, you cannot do anything you want to in life, and it's not your fault. Genetic determinism and luck rule every aspect of your life.
You did nothing wrong.
So don't let anybody gaslight you.
Instead, don't be a free agent in life. Let the truth guide you.
