Jew orthodontist threw me out

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Help, what should i do?

I‘ve startet treatment when i was 16, im 19 now and 20 at the end of the year. One year i‘ve done SARPE/preperstions and more than 2 years i‘ve been in braces.

Orthodontist told me i missed my appointement and haven‘t been to her for 8 months, prior she said she can do nothing until after surgery, which is why i thought i don‘t need to go for check-ups, BUT they are required every 6-9week in the contract and now she‘s big time mad. My mom signed the contract when i was 16 and i knew literally nothing of how thinks work, bc these fucks never explain anything to me and force me to find it out myself. I also had an appointement in September which i missed, bc i thought i had none until about surgery. She also didn’t notice me missing the appointment as it is my responsibility.

She said the treatment takes too much time bc of me, i‘d be in treatment for more than 4years at the end - which is excessive.

I got all 4 of my wisdoms removed in june and had to wait half a year to do the surgery. Now i‘ve changed surgeons and he can only give me an appointment this october. Waiting for these appointements is what steals most of my time.
She wants to throw me out and i‘d have to look for somebody else, which would cost me 3000€-5000€.

I‘ve always been a good, complying Patient, which excellent mouth hygiene and knowledge. Im not an annoying shit or rude.
 
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Just ask for forgiveness in a handwritten note atp, call it a hail mary but that always helps. If she still kicks you out its gonna be a major setback
 
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Just ask for forgiveness in a handwritten note atp, call it a hail mary but that always helps. If she still kicks you out its gonna be a major setback
How do i give it to her?
 
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mail or give it to the receptionist. Just tell her why you missed those appointments and hope she understands
I‘ve already discussed pretty much everything with her, she‘s not letting it slide at all. She wouldn‘t even read it as she barely listened to me
 
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I‘ve already discussed pretty much everything with her, she‘s not letting it slide at all. She wouldn‘t even read it as she barely listened to me
damn thats just tough
 
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bump help this brother out
 
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Probably on her period
 
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Your 3-5k€ are at her mercy try to regain her respect by apologizing, make it clear that it was a misunderstanding and tell her how much money + time youd lose
 
i have invisalign missed last appointment and havent been there for 6 months,went there yesterday,now i need aligners,i havent told my parents yet i think i might get raped
 
For me this looks like a communication issue. Since this also related to the contract I would look for a lawyer that also does mediation to find a solution for both of you. I guess a mediator would be more saving for you then loosing your 3-5k. A consensus that respects both of your interests. Also when you show up with a mediator you show that you are seriously sorry; atleast this is what I would think. Also since this is a communication issue take a look into none-violent communication maybe there you find something helpful.
Hope I could help a little bit.
 
I can’t wait until the dental field is more fucked. Medicine got fucked due to Obamacare and jewtists just bill for money. Fucking losers. Almost all the idiots I knew in pre med switched to pre dent. I could just take the dat rn bs it and get in.
 
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Help, what should i do?

I‘ve startet treatment when i was 16, im 19 now and 20 at the end of the year. One year i‘ve done SARPE/preperstions and more than 2 years i‘ve been in braces.

Orthodontist told me i missed my appointement and haven‘t been to her for 8 months, prior she said she can do nothing until after surgery, which is why i thought i don‘t need to go for check-ups, BUT they are required every 6-9week in the contract and now she‘s big time mad. My mom signed the contract when i was 16 and i knew literally nothing of how thinks work, bc these fucks never explain anything to me and force me to find it out myself. I also had an appointement in September which i missed, bc i thought i had none until about surgery. She also didn’t notice me missing the appointment as it is my responsibility.

She said the treatment takes too much time bc of me, i‘d be in treatment for more than 4years at the end - which is excessive.

I got all 4 of my wisdoms removed in june and had to wait half a year to do the surgery. Now i‘ve changed surgeons and he can only give me an appointment this october. Waiting for these appointements is what steals most of my time.
She wants to throw me out and i‘d have to look for somebody else, which would cost me 3000€-5000€.

I‘ve always been a good, complying Patient, which excellent mouth hygiene and knowledge. Im not an annoying shit or rude.
Tales from Mumbai
 
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From austria

For me this looks like a communication issue. Since this also related to the contract I would look for a lawyer that also does mediation to find a solution for both of you. I guess a mediator would be more saving for you then loosing your 3-5k. A consensus that respects both of your interests. Also when you show up with a mediator you show that you are seriously sorry; atleast this is what I would think. Also since this is a communication issue take a look into none-violent communication maybe there you find something helpful.
Hope I could help a little bit.
Im gonna do it solo, she knows i didn‘t mean it. Not gonna win the case

Your 3-5k€ are at her mercy try to regain her respect by apologizing, make it clear that it was a misunderstanding and tell her how much money + time youd lose
Would be insane ngl. I dont have the money nor the time, and i need it all figured out until surgery
 
Im gonna do it solo, she knows i didn‘t mean it. Not gonna win the case
No Im not talking about sueing her getting in court Im talking about mediating this confrontation. A mediator is a type of lawyer that is specialised in doing this when this situation has a legal background which it does atleast this is how it looks like to me, since the confrontation is based on the contract too.
 
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Is she GL?
 
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No Im not talking about sueing her getting in court Im talking about mediating this confrontation. A mediator is a type of lawyer that is specialised in doing this when this situation has a legal background which it does atleast this is how it looks like to me, since the confrontation is based on the contract too.
Find a mediator and tell them this situation and also if theyre are suitable for helping you in this case.
 
Help, what should i do?

I‘ve startet treatment when i was 16, im 19 now and 20 at the end of the year. One year i‘ve done SARPE/preperstions and more than 2 years i‘ve been in braces.

Orthodontist told me i missed my appointement and haven‘t been to her for 8 months, prior she said she can do nothing until after surgery, which is why i thought i don‘t need to go for check-ups, BUT they are required every 6-9week in the contract and now she‘s big time mad. My mom signed the contract when i was 16 and i knew literally nothing of how thinks work, bc these fucks never explain anything to me and force me to find it out myself. I also had an appointement in September which i missed, bc i thought i had none until about surgery. She also didn’t notice me missing the appointment as it is my responsibility.

She said the treatment takes too much time bc of me, i‘d be in treatment for more than 4years at the end - which is excessive.

I got all 4 of my wisdoms removed in june and had to wait half a year to do the surgery. Now i‘ve changed surgeons and he can only give me an appointment this october. Waiting for these appointements is what steals most of my time.
She wants to throw me out and i‘d have to look for somebody else, which would cost me 3000€-5000€.

I‘ve always been a good, complying Patient, which excellent mouth hygiene and knowledge. Im not an annoying shit or rude.
Why would u do sarpe instead of marpe
 

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