Gren
I'll rope someday.
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I'm sorry it's not the best place to talk about this but I have nowhere else to ask and expect other than bluepilled answers...
We have a long-distance relationship, I moved to another city before and later we got together naturally even though we're 370 miles away from each other.
We see each other every week or every two weeks. We talk a lot through messages about more or less interesting things. I like spending time with her ngl. We are together for 3 months now, which makes it around 10 week-ends spent together.
She wants to run away from her town because she's had some annoying guys/exes who try to come back regularly and piss her off. First it fucking pissed me off too, but considering I don't really have tons of choice and can't have a high-quality woman, I accepted the fact that she's not an angel and made bad choices by the past.
The problem is that she's very sociable, she always needs to have friends around her, like every two days a friend come to her place to have a drink. She just has a family member in my city, and it's a weirdo.
The problem is that she thinks I'm sociable and that I have some friends whereas I don't really have any (except people I randomly talk to at the uni) and I'm an nolife aspie (yeah right, that's a fucking miracle and I don't want to lose this).
I'd like her to come, but I think she'll get depressed and have a hard time making friends here out of nothing. The town I live in is notoriously hard to make friends in...
I'm really reluctant to tell her I'm a no-life who spends his free time on the computer obviously because there are 80% chances that she'll throw me away sooner or later for that sole reason.
And I see her this weekend, she even may come with me starting Monday. She's very attached to me, I'm a bit less attached to her and sometimes my aspie personality makes me hate her for no reason.
What to do?
Please tell me what you think I should do, even if you are unsure, because I'm totally lost.
We have a long-distance relationship, I moved to another city before and later we got together naturally even though we're 370 miles away from each other.
We see each other every week or every two weeks. We talk a lot through messages about more or less interesting things. I like spending time with her ngl. We are together for 3 months now, which makes it around 10 week-ends spent together.
She wants to run away from her town because she's had some annoying guys/exes who try to come back regularly and piss her off. First it fucking pissed me off too, but considering I don't really have tons of choice and can't have a high-quality woman, I accepted the fact that she's not an angel and made bad choices by the past.
The problem is that she's very sociable, she always needs to have friends around her, like every two days a friend come to her place to have a drink. She just has a family member in my city, and it's a weirdo.
The problem is that she thinks I'm sociable and that I have some friends whereas I don't really have any (except people I randomly talk to at the uni) and I'm an nolife aspie (yeah right, that's a fucking miracle and I don't want to lose this).
I'd like her to come, but I think she'll get depressed and have a hard time making friends here out of nothing. The town I live in is notoriously hard to make friends in...
I'm really reluctant to tell her I'm a no-life who spends his free time on the computer obviously because there are 80% chances that she'll throw me away sooner or later for that sole reason.
And I see her this weekend, she even may come with me starting Monday. She's very attached to me, I'm a bit less attached to her and sometimes my aspie personality makes me hate her for no reason.
What to do?
Please tell me what you think I should do, even if you are unsure, because I'm totally lost.
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