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I want to share a post from reddit's r/pornfree subreddit that hit close to home for me. I've now done roughly 5 months of nofap and if there's someone who's thinking about starting that journey too, go for it. It'll boost your life quality and make you more like a man, like you were supposed to be. Anyway, here's the post:
You were young. Maybe really young. You were still exploring the desires and urges that are natural for a guy your age, but you quickly discovered porn and realized that it was a way to fulfill all those desires. You didn’t even have to put in the work of using your imagination, let alone finding a woman to help you sate them.
Porn is the reason you never talked to that cute girl in third period. Porn is the reason you pretended to ignore the girl that always blushed when she looked at you in high school. Porn is the reason you could never even conjure the confidence to hold a girls hand when you finally went on a date with one, if you even made it that far. Porn was always there for you, satisfying your deepest desires and stripping you of the motivation required to really pursue romance.
And now you’re alone. Your chance for cute high school romance is long since out the window. You met a girl in a bar once, or maybe at a concert, but she wasn’t able to arouse you the way porn does. Your body wasn’t interested in her because her breasts weren’t bigger than her head, or her skirt wasn’t short enough, out there wasn’t mascara streaming down her cheeks. So you couldn’t get aroused, and once again, you were left all alone. But at least you still had porn.
Porn doesn’t love you. Porn doesn’t care about your feelings, and porn won’t fulfill your urges. It will only flood your brain with dopamine until you need more extreme, more disgusting, more violent stimulation to feel a single thing. Porn will never cuddle you, porn will never blush when you buy it flowers, porn will never jump into your arms and give you a kiss, and porn will never say “I do.”
Pornography is stripped you of the desire and ability to find a woman who loves you, whether you’re looking for a beautiful woman to travel the world with, a cute girlfriend to cuddle with in bed, or the mother of your children. And here’s the worst part. Are you ready?
Even if you find that perfect woman, who makes all your dreams come true, you’ve let porn condition your brain so relentlessly that she won’t be enough for you. Do you won’t have the motivation to pursue her romantically. You won’t have fantasies or dreams about her. And she won’t be able to make you hard. If she really loves you, she’ll try to be supportive at first. She’ll help you buy Viagra, she’ll do special things to try to arouse you, maybe she’ll even be OK with you watching porn to get ready. But she won’t be able to endure it forever. She will leave you for a normal man, one who can give her the love she needs.
Porn does not love you. Porn does not care about you. Porn has stolen so much from you already. It’s time to break free, break the cycle, and take your life back.
Alright, listen you younger folk. Sooner you quit, the less lasting damage you'll have to deal with. Porn industry is truly satanic and is designed to make you weak, unwilling to date and breed.
This is what bible says, and I consider it a 100% certified FACT: Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
You were young. Maybe really young. You were still exploring the desires and urges that are natural for a guy your age, but you quickly discovered porn and realized that it was a way to fulfill all those desires. You didn’t even have to put in the work of using your imagination, let alone finding a woman to help you sate them.
Porn is the reason you never talked to that cute girl in third period. Porn is the reason you pretended to ignore the girl that always blushed when she looked at you in high school. Porn is the reason you could never even conjure the confidence to hold a girls hand when you finally went on a date with one, if you even made it that far. Porn was always there for you, satisfying your deepest desires and stripping you of the motivation required to really pursue romance.
And now you’re alone. Your chance for cute high school romance is long since out the window. You met a girl in a bar once, or maybe at a concert, but she wasn’t able to arouse you the way porn does. Your body wasn’t interested in her because her breasts weren’t bigger than her head, or her skirt wasn’t short enough, out there wasn’t mascara streaming down her cheeks. So you couldn’t get aroused, and once again, you were left all alone. But at least you still had porn.
Porn doesn’t love you. Porn doesn’t care about your feelings, and porn won’t fulfill your urges. It will only flood your brain with dopamine until you need more extreme, more disgusting, more violent stimulation to feel a single thing. Porn will never cuddle you, porn will never blush when you buy it flowers, porn will never jump into your arms and give you a kiss, and porn will never say “I do.”
Pornography is stripped you of the desire and ability to find a woman who loves you, whether you’re looking for a beautiful woman to travel the world with, a cute girlfriend to cuddle with in bed, or the mother of your children. And here’s the worst part. Are you ready?
Even if you find that perfect woman, who makes all your dreams come true, you’ve let porn condition your brain so relentlessly that she won’t be enough for you. Do you won’t have the motivation to pursue her romantically. You won’t have fantasies or dreams about her. And she won’t be able to make you hard. If she really loves you, she’ll try to be supportive at first. She’ll help you buy Viagra, she’ll do special things to try to arouse you, maybe she’ll even be OK with you watching porn to get ready. But she won’t be able to endure it forever. She will leave you for a normal man, one who can give her the love she needs.
Porn does not love you. Porn does not care about you. Porn has stolen so much from you already. It’s time to break free, break the cycle, and take your life back.
Alright, listen you younger folk. Sooner you quit, the less lasting damage you'll have to deal with. Porn industry is truly satanic and is designed to make you weak, unwilling to date and breed.
This is what bible says, and I consider it a 100% certified FACT: Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
