Question for the UKcels who are 16+

[ggg.tv🤫]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

 

[ascension]

Just be kind and help people. That's how you mog

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

Just be kind and help people. That's how you mog

Will helping the kid getting bullied also help me mog?

 

[Ricky212]

do you know anyone from your secondary school?

 

[ascension]

Will helping the kid getting bullied also help me mog?

Yep. If you see someone getting bullied, stand in between them and the bullies. Then firmly tell them to "stop". Ask them to reconsider their actions. Ask them how they'd feel if they were treated in that way. Bullying is often a reaction to struggles in the bullies life - respectfully ask them to perhaps seek therapy.

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

do you know anyone from your secondary school?

None of my friends are going there, but i have one friend who will be in year 13 by the time I'm in year 12, do year 12 and 13 mix in 6th form?

 

[Ricky212]

None of my friends are going there, but i have one friend who will be in year 13 by the time I'm in year 12, do year 12 and 13 mix in 6th form?

nope not really. don’t have any advice for your scenario

 

[not__cel]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

I don't know too much about the uk but I'd say you should join any clubs/activities if you guys have them over there. it might help so you can meet new people near you and try to train so eventually you can join a sport if you want to be recognized

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

I don't know too much about the uk but I'd say you should join any clubs/activities if you guys have them over there. it might help so you can meet new people near you and try to train so eventually you can join a sport if you want to be recognized

Can i join the football(soccer) team if I'm shit at football?

 

[S1d456]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

ur doing gcses now too?

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

ur doing gcses now too?

Yes but I'm almost done with them

 

[Xtra]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

 

[S1d456]

Yes but I'm almost done with them

bro iv still got 2weeks of exams left

 

[thebuffdon690]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

You don’t

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

You don’t

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

ovER

 

[try2beme]

I would give anything to go back to six form. Peak of my life, better than uni

 

[try2beme]

Ppl are coping hard. Just befriend NT people, some giga nt individual befriended me cuz of my style and she was responsible for my circle in those years deadass she even gave me friends out of school

 

[not__cel]

Can i join the football(soccer) team if I'm shit at football?

if you don't have a close knit school then you can try but I'd recommend something like rowing or low contact sport if you're just trying it out just so you can be inside the group and not have anyone talk badly about your skill level

 

[thebuffdon690]

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

Making friends at any age is borderline impossible if you’re autistic. I was lonely when I was 5 and still am to this day

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

Ppl are coping hard. Just befriend NT people, some giga nt individual befriended me cuz of my style and she was responsible for my circle in those years deadass she even gave me friends out of school

LifeFuel

 

[try2beme]

LifeFuel

Also im not saying dont befriend non nt people, but emphasize nt ones

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

Also im not saying dont befriend non nt people, but emphasize nt ones

I have one friend who is NT but he will be in year 13 while ill be in year 12, do the two years mix together in friend groups or not?

 

[try2beme]

I have one friend who is NT but he will be in year 13 while ill be in year 12, do the two years mix together in friend groups or not?

You can more likely if you have the same common room vs if year 12 and 13 get seperated hella. For us we mixed a lot so it was fine and if u hang outside during ur breaks it makes no diff

 

[Xtra]

I would give anything to go back to six form. Peak of my life, better than uni

I used to think this is an incel trait but then I remembered my life peaked at 14 or even 12, absolute bottom tier trait

 

[try2beme]

I used to think this is an incel trait but then I remembered my life peaked at 14 or even 12, absolute bottom tier trait

It really is whatever

 

[Diarrhoea]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

Shouldn’t need to ask this tbh just start a general convo like what secondary school did u go then progress and shi

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

Shouldn’t need to ask this tbh just start a general convo like what secondary school did u go then progress and shi

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

 

[Diarrhoea]

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

Whenever u want, in lessons would be easier
+ a freind u make can alr have another friend group which he may let u hang around with it’s too hard to jump into a random friend group like that and awkward without a mutual friend

 

[SecularIslamist]

If you're not main character in your social circle you rely on them.

 

[Ricky212]

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

both

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

If you're not main character in your social circle you rely on them.

Ill need to build a social circle first because i won’t have one

 

[belisa14]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

people usually go into 6 form with people they’re already friends with.
Just speak to people in your class.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Ill need to build a social circle first because i won’t have one

It's over. If you aren't taking mates from secondary school. Staring from 0 is suifeul. I did this only when I went uni. I spent most of it friendless.

First couple/few weeks are crucial. Making friends after people have made their circles is the losers path. You may still do it - but you'll be paired with other losers too. Maybe that's you're natural place though, with other losers - no offence.

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

people usually go into 6 form with people they’re already friends with.
Just speak to people in your class.

Everyone is gonna be with their friends from high school while ill just be running around having awkward convos with randoms

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

It's over. If you aren't taking mates from secondary school. Staring from 0 is suifeul. I did this only when I went uni. I spent most of it friendless.

First couple/few weeks are crucial. Making friends after people have made their circles is the losers path. You may still do it - but you'll be paired with other losers too. Maybe that's you're natural place though, with other losers - no offence.

Or maybe I could fruad being NT with alcohol for the first week

 

[tomm1453]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

trust me dont worry about sixth form just ascend for uni

 

[Numb]

it’s going to sound weird. but you need to play socially aggressive. this means being hyper nt, jumping on a chance before others, and being able to meet people and find a means to stay in contact with them after the first interaction (insta or snap). if you aren’t aggressive when it comes to making friends, you will be left with no one apart from the outcasts. and outcasts don’t mix with outcasts. at that point it’s over for sixth form. just remember the early weeks are so important for socialising. study later if you really need to. sorry for the shit spelling my phone is on all caps lower for some reason.