Revenge on ex gf

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Hey guys, I am starting my looksmax journey today. I had a LTR with this girl for 2.5 years. She was my first, I was her first. I fucked up many things because I was a little boy (we were 15 when we started dating, now I am 19.). She broke up 4 months ego and my ego is broken. Lets be honest guys, If I was/looked like Chad she would never dumped me and I would never have oneitis for an slightly above average at best girl. Nonetheless, my ego is broken. I want her to regret everything. I want her to look at my instagram site and be like: fuck, I will never find someone as good looking and interesting as him. I don't know if you can understand me in this regards.

Whats going for me:
- no manlet (510, its actually under average in my country but I think its no deal breaker for girls, I dated her when I was 56)
-Very high/prominent cheekbones, broad mandibles, good harmony, youthful looking, eye area is ok.
-ok frame with muscles, been working out since 2 years
-nice thick hair and eyebrows, no balding in my family
-generally good genes regarding looking young (everyone in my family looks younger than they are, not too good now but a plus in a few years)
-good big skull
Cons:
-height isn't above average
-asymmetrical mandible, many say they don't saw it but its impacting my aesthetics negatively
-high body fat (20%)
-looking tired all the time
-babyface
-braces

My plan to fix things:

-Losing body fat on a intemediate fasting diet with low carbs
-Vit c and drinking more water against bloat
-braces fixes my asymmetrical face a bit (cross bite on the smaller side of my face is being fixed currently)
-fix mouth breathing at night for tired face (does fixing mouth breathing has any aesthetic improvement to my bone structure?)
-mewing (don't know if cope but better try it out at my age than never trying i)
-fixing diet in general to counter bloating

Last thoughts: What do you think about my plan? I know that some people here like @itsOVER believe that cutting body fat is the only legitimate looksmax. Are there any other things that I forgot to do? Does cutting body fat always result in better aesthetics? Hope some of you can give me some thoughts on this.
I am going to give feedback of my looksmaxx progress. So this thread is also a small journey for things that worked for me and not.
 
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Posting pics is better than any list regardless of your comprehensiveness.
 
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Posting pics is better than any list regardless of your comprehensiveness.
I dont want to post pics publicly. I can send pics per pm.
 
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Sorry but she won’t regret it. She will ride Chads dick carousel now. And you can’t compete with them in terms of looks no matter how much you try if you were not born a Chad

Just looksmax for yourself
 
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Sorry but she won’t regret it. She will ride Chads dick carousel now. And you can’t compete with them in terms of looks no matter how much you try if you were not born a Chad

Just looksmax for yourself
I know that she probably gonna ride the cock carousel but she isn't that attractive to be honest. She didn't dumped me for my looks but for me being a beta fag. Chads have an abundance of good looking girls, she's more a 6/10 maybe 7/10 if she has make up.
Edit: We were together again after 4 months of our break up for a week or so. She told me that she and her friends all agreed that I am the best looking guy of all. Don't how much that weights.
 
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Good luck bro. My séparation with my last gf was my very first motivation to looksmax: deep down I knew if I was a Chad she wouldn't have left me so easily, or I could have found someone better when I was already tired of her.
 
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Good luck bro. My séparation with my last gf was my very first motivation to looksmax: deep down I knew if I was a Chad she wouldn't have left me so easily, or I could have found someone better when I was already tired of her.
Thank you. I am personally don't believe too much in the black pill. I am more redpilled than blackpilled but she won't see my personality change through the internet. So I have to change my appearance.
 
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Lol what did you do so bad that you are not telling us? Let us know the juicy detalis.
Anyway I don't get why do you listen to itsover's advices, even if he said that you just have to cut bodyfat he basically had to resort to sexpatting to the third world if I am not mistaken.
 
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didnt red
 
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Doing it for her shows that you're a dependant cuck tbh..
Do it for yourself or don't do it at all.
You won't make her jealous, trust me. She has so many options, so much validation she already forgot you.
Remember: nothing is easier to replace than a male.
Foids even leave chad when they get bored and when he's being too nice.
They leave to experiment with lesbian stuff and fuck other Chads.
 
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Lol what did you do so bad that you are not telling us? Let us know the juicy detalis.
Anyway I don't get why do you listen to itsover's advices, even if he said that you just have to cut bodyfat he basically had to resort to sexpatting to the third world if I am not mistaken.
Heres the full story for those who are interested:

We were together when we were 15 and were each others firsts. After some months with her, I thought that I was CHAD because I had a LTR and another girl from my school was interested in me. So I broke up with her and broke her heart, she even told me later that she had suicidal thoughts when I broke up. (funny that when I acted like an asshole chad, she loved me the most). After realizing that I wasn't chad, I got back together with her. We were happy until my school ended, and I became I codependent fag. I opened up in front of her about my fucked up childhood and she said something like: I see you know with different eyes. I think I don't need to mention how dried up her pussy probably got. After that I became a jealous fag and confessed that I made out with a girl in a club. She dumped be after that.
Doing it for her shows that you're an independent cuck tbh..
Do it for yourself or don't do it at all.
You won't make her jealous, trust me. She has so many options, so much validation she already forgot you.
Remember: nothing is easier to replace than a male.
Foids even leave chad when they get bored and when he's being too nice.
They leave to experiment with lesbian stuff and fuck other Chads.
Is that even the case when she is only average in looks? I mean maybe she gets attention but I think that the most guys are ugly fags. She didn't had sex with anyone 4 months after our break up. There aren't even many guys who follow her on insta. Maybe 5 or so.
 
>girlfriend
K I'm gonna go kill myself now thanks and bye.
 
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I opened up in front of her about my fucked up childhood and she said something like: I see you know with different eyes. I think I don't need to mention how dried up her pussy probably got.
also enslave all females tbh
 
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Heres the full story for those who are interested:

We were together when we were 15 and were each others firsts. After some months with her, I thought that I was CHAD because I had a LTR and another girl from my school was interested in me. So I broke up with her and broke her heart, she even told me later that she had suicidal thoughts when I broke up. (funny that when I acted like an asshole chad, she loved me the most). After realizing that I wasn't chad, I got back together with her. We were happy until my school ended, and I became I codependent fag. I opened up in front of her about my fucked up childhood and she said something like: I see you know with different eyes. I think I don't need to mention how dried up her pussy probably got. After that I became a jealous fag and confessed that I made out with a girl in a club. She dumped be after that.

Is that even the case when she is only average in looks? I mean maybe she gets attention but I think that the most guys are ugly fags. She didn't had sex with anyone 4 months after our break up. There aren't even many guys who follow her on insta. Maybe 5 or so.
Hopefully she finds someone better.
 
Let it be.
Learn that your life is only about you, not her.
 
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If I could just forget about her. The truth is I don't want to looksmax and obsess over her but I can't stop it. I can't accept that I am going to lose in this game. That she will just move on with 100 different dicks. I want to be at least the best dick she ever had. I don't know how I can swallow my pride. Has anyone advice?
Hopefully she finds someone better.
Why? Because I semi cheated on her?
 
Thank you. I am personally don't believe too much in the black pill. I am more redpilled than blackpilled but she won't see my personality change through the internet. So I have to change my appearance.
Well I do believe personality matters but only with good looks can you truly be yourself. Ceteris paribus social extroverted guys will always outslay shy, introverted guys. But it's almost impossible to change my personality. After some6looksmaxing I've definitely attracted more girls who can accept me the way I am.
 
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Why? Because I semi cheated on her?
Yeah degenerates need to jerk off till they are 80, not that it will happen since you probably are not incel-looking.
 
Best revenge would be to fuck some girl hotter than her, believe me buddy boyo, that is something that hurts them most
 
Best revenge would be to fuck some girl hotter than her, believe me buddy boyo, that is something that hurts them most
I made out with a girl hotter than her, she even saw it on the internet (those damn club photographs). Maybe I need to LTR a hotter girl so that she sees it.
 
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If I could just forget about her. The truth is I don't want to looksmax and obsess over her but I can't stop it. I can't accept that I am going to lose in this game. That she will just move on with 100 different dicks. I want to be at least the best dick she ever had. I don't know how I can swallow my pride. Has anyone advice?

Why? Because I semi cheated on her?
You will forget about her eventually, even faster when you fuck other girls probably.
As an average girl she has countless options, she maybe just didn't discover them yet. In theory she could become rich by selling her panties, socks. On tinder she would have hundreds of matches. Young girls just didn't discover this often.
 
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You will forget about her eventually, even faster when you fuck other girls probably.
As an average girl she has countless options, she maybe just didn't discover them yet. In theory she could become rich by selling her panties, socks. On tinder she would have hundreds of matches. Young girls just didn't discover this often.
But why would Chad fuck a average girl if he can have above average girls? I mean, yeah every women can get laid when they want but they don't want some average dick, they want Chad Dick.
 
feel you man, 2 months post breakup for me, feel that if i was stil in shape that she wouldn't have left me so easy (not fat but skinny/slim now, used to be ripped) Mine broke up with me bc she failed the term at uni and her nan died on same day, cant begrudge if shes fucked someone after the breakup because i've fucked 3 girls since so far but still not girls i want..

But don't looksmax for any girl, do it for yourself, youre more likely to stick with it that way. Think of it like this there's 7.5 billion people on earth, girls are like buses man theres a new one every 20 minutes.

And yes cutting body fat helps looksmax, for instance i was at a relatively low bodyfat in my dp and it made my jawline and cheeks more prominent.
 
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Lol, i haven't fucked in 6 months, I fucked only one girl.
feel you man, 2 months post breakup for me, feel that if i was stil in shape that she wouldn't have left me so easy (not fat but skinny/slim now, used to be ripped) Mine broke up with me bc she failed the term at uni and her nan died on same day, cant begrudge if shes fucked someone after the breakup because i've fucked 3 girls since so far but still not girls i want..

But don't looksmax for any girl, do it for yourself, youre more likely to stick with it that way. Think of it like this there's 7.5 billion people on earth, girls are like buses man theres a new one every 20 minutes.

And yes cutting body fat helps looksmax, for instance i was at a relatively low bodyfat in my dp and it made my jawline and cheeks more prominent.
I made a thread in rating about my bf. its probably even higher than 20%. I am really excited about getting to low bf.
 
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I can't accept that I am going to lose in this game.
I want her to look at my instagram site and be like: fuck, I will never find someone as good looking and interesting as him.
Fuck this shit man, fuck this GAME people play.
I thought that I was CHAD
Can't you sociopath narcissistic users fucking go fuck each other or something.

So I broke up with her and broke her heart, she even told me later that she had suicidal thoughts when I broke up. (funny that when I acted like an asshole chad, she loved me the most). After realizing that I wasn't chad, I got back together with her. We were happy until my school ended, and I became I codependent fag. I opened up in front of her about my fucked up childhood and she said something like: I see you know with different eyes. I think I don't need to mention how dried up her pussy probably got. After that I became a jealous fag and confessed that I made out with a girl in a club. She dumped be after that.
here we have "CHAD's" ego be crushed by the reality of the world. Way to to go bro you added another whore to the carousel.
she even told me later that she had suicidal thoughts
tic tacs are no laughing matter. Didnt you hear female suicide has gone up?
She's a lying cunt.
 
Fuck this shit man, fuck this GAME people play.

Can't you sociopath narcissistic users fucking go fuck each other or something.

tic tacs are no laughing matter. Didnt you hear female suicide has gone up?
She's a lying cunt.

I am not narcissistic by any means. The story is a little bit bigger, I wanted to make it short.
I know, she probably will never know what its like to be really suicidal. Its just the toilet way of exaggerating to show me that she felt sad.
 
Welcome to ?? Less than 1% of the population gets to marry their adolescent pair bond as God intended. Take the hit and move on.

If it motivates you to looksmax go for it but don't stew in your own brew and get oneitis, that shit can be fatal and fuck your hwole life up no joke.
 
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Didn't read but she does deserve a revenge taken on her.
 
Welcome to ?? Less than 1% of the population gets to marry their adolescent pair bond as God intended. Take the hit and move on.

If it motivates you to looksmax go for it but don't stew in your own brew and get oneitis, that shit can be fatal and fuck your hwole life up no joke.
Post more often sensei.
 
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she dumped you because you are not a chad. PERIOD.

You will never looksmax if you wont do it for urself ffs get over it and forget her lmfao you beta FAG.

Most people here looksmax cuz they r mentalcels or low status, fuck off with revenge :blackpill:
 
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Even chads get let behind in a relationship. Its because in relationships the attraction falls of slowly like a bitcoin falling down.
 
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Did you record porn with her? I hope you did? It is excellent insurance, since whatever guy she decides to marry or have LTR with you can always share the saucy porno pics and ruin her life.

Imagine sharing her private pornos of her taking golden shower with husband just before wedding and sending them to the husband and all her family.

This is why I always film porno with my LTR. So she knows I have shit on her.

Also, you need leg lengthening. Sub 6 feet is just not acceptable in 2019.
 
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Did you record porn with her? I hope you did? It is excellent insurance, since whatever guy she decides to marry or have LTR with you can always share the saucy porno pics and ruin her life.

Imagine sharing her private pornos of her taking golden shower with husband just before wedding and sending them to the husband and all her family.

This is why I always film porno with my LTR. So she knows I have shit on her.

Also, you need leg lengthening. Sub 6 feet is just not acceptable in 2019.

Even if he's a cuck it will still be in the back of his mind, also if you're gonna do this tell him that she told you she had sex with 30+ guys.
 
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Even if he's a cuck it will still be in the back of his mind, also if you're gonna do this tell him that she told you she had sex with 30+ guys.
Haha, great idea. Lifefuel. Also, your gf knowing you have nudes and porn videos of her will keep her in slight dread of what might happen, anxiety increases attraction. She will have overstepped boundaries with you and will feel less "clean", possibly become more attached to person who tainted her.
 
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Haha, great idea. Lifefuel. Also, your gf knowing you have nudes and porn videos of her will keep her in slight dread of what might happen, anxiety increases attraction. She will have overstepped boundaries with you and will feel less "clean", possibly become more attached to person who tainted her.
Anxiety is the root cause of desire, very true. Which is why when a girl dumps you or leaves you and you don't validate them and beg. 80% of the time they come crawling back. Happened with my 2 year relationship and my previous FWB that left twice (because "I dont care (she's right I dont lmao).

If this guy wants his ex back I'd suggest watching videos from Corey wayne and Craig Kenneth online, Emotional self control plays an important role in attraction just as looksmaxing and being your best self does.

Best revenge is to act like you don't care (even if you do), dont validate her, allow her to feel her decision and think she cant have you whenever she wants you. complete No contact with this girl ( reply if she reaches out if you still want her). Be your best self man, not for her but for you.

Never put pussy on a pedestal. You are the prize not her, you don't want to be a back up character in your own life story.
 
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stop being a pussy and trying to improve just to make your ex jealous
remember she's always gonna have more social success than you even if she is your looksmatch, except if your chad
 
I will have a big mac and one coca cola please!
 
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stop being a pussy and trying to improve just to make your ex jealous
remember she's always gonna have more social success than you even if she is your looksmatch, except if your chad
I know, I try to let go of my childish ego fantasies but its not easy. I am not crying after her or being a fag about it but its still something thats on my mind. I am just going to looksmax generally to get more foids. Lets just see what I can reach. My hope/cope is that my body fat is very high.
Did you record porn with her? I hope you did? It is excellent insurance, since whatever guy she decides to marry or have LTR with you can always share the saucy porno pics and ruin her life.

Imagine sharing her private pornos of her taking golden shower with husband just before wedding and sending them to the husband and all her family.

This is why I always film porno with my LTR. So she knows I have shit on her.

Also, you need leg lengthening. Sub 6 feet is just not acceptable in 2019.
I have like 1000 different pictures and videos of her nude. We couldn't (often) fuck at her place nor at my place so we did everything over smartphones. Her father is a politician in east Europe and filthy rich. Maybe I should just blackmaillmaxx.
 
I know, I try to let go of my childish ego fantasies but its not easy. I am not crying after her or being a fag about it but its still something thats on my mind. I am just going to looksmax generally to get more foids. Lets just see what I can reach. My hope/cope is that my body fat is very high.

I have like 1000 different pictures and videos of her nude. We couldn't (often) fuck at her place nor at my place so we did everything over smartphones. Her father is a politician in east Europe and filthy rich. Maybe I should just blackmaillmaxx.

post/pm a pic? best way to judge how to looksmax lol
 
Anxiety is the root cause of desire, very true. Which is why when a girl dumps you or leaves you and you don't validate them and beg. 80% of the time they come crawling back. Happened with my 2 year relationship and my previous FWB that left twice (because "I dont care (she's right I dont lmao).

If this guy wants his ex back I'd suggest watching videos from Corey wayne and Craig Kenneth online, Emotional self control plays an important role in attraction just as looksmaxing and being your best self does.

Best revenge is to act like you don't care (even if you do), dont validate her, allow her to feel her decision and think she cant have you whenever she wants you. complete No contact with this girl ( reply if she reaches out if you still want her). Be your best self man, not for her but for you.

Never put pussy on a pedestal. You are the prize not her, you don't want to be a back up character in your own life story.
The thing is I got her back after 4 month but It wasn't the same. if a LTR is doomed its doomed, you fucked up, she sees you different. You have to move on. I
 
I know, I try to let go of my childish ego fantasies but its not easy. I am not crying after her or being a fag about it but its still something thats on my mind. I am just going to looksmax generally to get more foids. Lets just see what I can reach. My hope/cope is that my body fat is very high.

I have like 1000 different pictures and videos of her nude. We couldn't (often) fuck at her place nor at my place so we did everything over smartphones. Her father is a politician in east Europe and filthy rich. Maybe I should just blackmaillmaxx.
Of course you should. Now you are thinking nigga. But nudes are entry tier, should have had her doing degrading shit instead.
 
Of course you should. Now you are thinking nigga. But nudes are entry tier, should have had her doing degrading shit instead.
On a serious note, she didn't do me really wrong. She is just a toilet with a toilet mind. I can't be mad at her for leaving me after being a beta fag and than semi cheating on her.
 
Are you genuinely considering blackmailing a girl for breaking up with you when it's entirely your own fault?
On a serious note, she didn't do me really wrong. She is just a toilet with a toilet mind. I can't be mad at her for leaving me after being a beta fag and than semi cheating on her.
Ah okay good. Sanity.
 
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Are you genuinely considering blackmailing a girl for breaking up with you when it's entirely your own fault?

Ah okay good. Sanity.
It was a joke, no hard feeling against her. She is just a projection of my own mind.
 
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It was a joke, no hard feeling against her. She is just a projection of my own mind.
Forget about it and lookmax for you bro. If you're doing it for any other reason you'll inevitably be disappointed.
 
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Post her nudes all over the internet or acid facing her is the only revenge tbh.
 

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