EnglandBadman
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Limerance-Limerence is an intense, obsessive emotional state associated with infatuation and a strong desire for reciprocation.
In other words, we often look to deep into the actions of people that we find attractive to try to find some reciprocation of attraction. We look desperately only in people that we find attractive, any sign or detail that they like us back. This is limerance.
When your secretly thinking about someone all of the time, its easy to end up assuming that there is a secret meaning behind their actions and that they are also thinking about you too.
The more you stay in this fantasy state, the more you lose a grip on real life. The sooner you get into an actual present mindset and stop over analysing details to see if the girl finds you attractive, you wont have to use your imagination to analyse if she finds you attractive, instead you can analyse her real behaviours.
In other words, we often look to deep into the actions of people that we find attractive to try to find some reciprocation of attraction. We look desperately only in people that we find attractive, any sign or detail that they like us back. This is limerance.
When your secretly thinking about someone all of the time, its easy to end up assuming that there is a secret meaning behind their actions and that they are also thinking about you too.
The more you stay in this fantasy state, the more you lose a grip on real life. The sooner you get into an actual present mindset and stop over analysing details to see if the girl finds you attractive, you wont have to use your imagination to analyse if she finds you attractive, instead you can analyse her real behaviours.
