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I think the reason most people hate incels is not because they are generally racist misogynist freaks (which would be the right reason to hate them) but because incels refuse to participate with them in the elaborate autogaslighting programme where you try to psychologically bruteforce through an agenda of "ugly is the new hot" as a means of coping with a subconscious inferiority complex. For those with this complex, the hottest people you can actually get become the most objectively hot people, since anyone hotter than that is just cancelled from their brain--they simply do not perceive them, they are erased from the mind. Or become unusually nitpicky with their flaws (like all the girls rating Chico et al a 5 or something).
However, in order to maintain this complex, they need to be assured that everyone else is engaged in this complex, or it risks presenting a tear in the social fabric and reminding them unconsciously of the fact that their own complex is indeed a complex and not reality. Since what differentiates fantasy from reality is that the latter is shared among people. When they confront an incel they use antiracist feminist rhetoric as a means of attempting to suppress, in a fashionable way that brings them social capital, their departure from this collectively constructed and maintained inferiority complex, since they see themselves in the incel. They see in the incel a version of themself that refused to accept the dogma that "ugly is actually hot, and hot does not exist," and such a version of themself must be vigorously repressed if they are to maintain sanity. So its a psychological moment motivated at first by a fusional empathy.
It's put on full display when you show objectively hot people to someone and they are like, "well he's not my type, what Me, Myself, and I really like is [X mtn guy]" By responding so immediately and reactively in such a way one is compelled to ask what kind of narcissistic self-aggrandizement they have undergone to think that we really really need to know asap what their opinion on the matter is
Ugly (as in sub HTN) people have successfully created an entire psychological universe that is alien to hot people. They fuck each other, call each other hot, engage in all kinds of heinous sexual acts with each other in a kind of stockholmsyndromy, truman show-esque masquerade of downgrown obese tattooed bone-flesh-and-cartilage soup where hot people have been mentally whisked away to Hell. But deep down in the recesses of their psyches they maintain a grain of this trauma in which they had to accept "I am not hot enough for hot people." A grain that risks causing a tsunami when they are confronted with the sheer existence of incels, since that trauma is a humiliation worse than death.
However, in order to maintain this complex, they need to be assured that everyone else is engaged in this complex, or it risks presenting a tear in the social fabric and reminding them unconsciously of the fact that their own complex is indeed a complex and not reality. Since what differentiates fantasy from reality is that the latter is shared among people. When they confront an incel they use antiracist feminist rhetoric as a means of attempting to suppress, in a fashionable way that brings them social capital, their departure from this collectively constructed and maintained inferiority complex, since they see themselves in the incel. They see in the incel a version of themself that refused to accept the dogma that "ugly is actually hot, and hot does not exist," and such a version of themself must be vigorously repressed if they are to maintain sanity. So its a psychological moment motivated at first by a fusional empathy.
It's put on full display when you show objectively hot people to someone and they are like, "well he's not my type, what Me, Myself, and I really like is [X mtn guy]" By responding so immediately and reactively in such a way one is compelled to ask what kind of narcissistic self-aggrandizement they have undergone to think that we really really need to know asap what their opinion on the matter is
Ugly (as in sub HTN) people have successfully created an entire psychological universe that is alien to hot people. They fuck each other, call each other hot, engage in all kinds of heinous sexual acts with each other in a kind of stockholmsyndromy, truman show-esque masquerade of downgrown obese tattooed bone-flesh-and-cartilage soup where hot people have been mentally whisked away to Hell. But deep down in the recesses of their psyches they maintain a grain of this trauma in which they had to accept "I am not hot enough for hot people." A grain that risks causing a tsunami when they are confronted with the sheer existence of incels, since that trauma is a humiliation worse than death.