Women have low self esteem

[DharkDC]

The title is clickbait. In comparison to men, they have a higher self esteem, but it can be brought down easier than a guy.

It takes a special type of insecurity to put on makeup everyday, frauding your looks, well aware of your flaws. Take a look at @Amnesia, this man has 4 inch lifts, coloured contacts and is larping as a young man, as a result, he blacked out his mirrors, cannot stay in an LTR and has episodes in where he thinks he’s ugly for days on end. The point is, he has an unstable self esteem as good looking as he is.

Most of you would chalk up his instability to PSL autism, due to him being active in PSL for 4+ years. Well I’m here to tell you that being exposed to PSL autism is pretty much how women are exposed to anything in the media. I’ve said this before and I’ll keep saying it. IF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 2K POSTS OR MORE THAN 1 MONTH OF ACTIVITY, YOU HAVE A FOID BRAIN.

Women are told implicitly and explicitly in media outlets like movies, magazines, goddamn weather forecasts that their entire value is based on looks. Kinda like how we know that’s true now. Ask any western born woman you know, not some bitch you spoke to 3 times in one year, that if they 've ever considered a surgery or getting work done. I can bet my testosterone levels that they all considered or are considering doing it. The shit coming from PSL forums and female only ones isn't indifferent.

In theory, that would mean it would be easy to knock down an average/below average girl's self esteem because stacies are flawless right? No. Anyone using makeup, or frauding on a daily basis has an unstable self esteem. I remember hearing guys shit on girls wore makeup right infront of some bih they didn't think was wearing any. That shit has to fuck someone up mentally, no matter how much positive reinforcement they get.

@Amnesia Do you still think about that hag who said she doesn't like guys short guys, or guy with brown eyes?

 

[JustBeCurry]

even for the vast minority on here who ascend they will probably be assraped mentally

 

[Jamal2222]

 

[hairyballscel]

Women are told implicitly and explicitly in media outlets like movies, magazines, goddamn weather forecasts that their entire value is based on looks.

based tbh

 

[Hightwolf]

I must be a god then for having high self esteem while being psl 3.5

 

[NeanderthalMax]

I must be a god then for having high self esteem while being psl 3.5

It is that autistic HIGH T perk

 

[Need2Ascend]

Would even say women have lower self-esteem than men on average although they get 20x more validation, and it has to do with their frauding(imagine you would paint yourself a whole new face on everyday and then say"just love yourself for who you are, be yourself" jfl) and hormones
Agree that if you are "faked" gl instead of 'naturally" your self-esteem will be lower

It's all about being effortlessly good looking, that needs to be the goal with looksmaxxing tbh(although some things are barely changable e.g. height, so you are fucked either way if you are short)
While your surgeries/orthodontic treatment or whatever are planed and your looks increase, you should slowly spend less and less time here, the obsession with looks to a point where your whole life revolves around it does more harm than good

 

[DharkDC]

Would even say women have lower self-esteem than men on average although they get 20x more validation, and it has to do with their frauding(imagine you would paint yourself a whole new face on everyday and then say"just love yourself for who you are, be yourself" jfl) and hormones
Agree that if you are "faked" gl instead of 'naturally" your self-esteem will be lower

It's all about being effortlessly good looking, that needs to be the goal with looksmaxxing tbh(although some things are barely changable e.g. height, so you are fucked either way if you are short)
While your surgeries/orthodontic treatment or whatever are planed and your looks increase, you should slowly spend less and less time here, the obsession with looks to a point where your whole life revolves around it does more harm than good

exactly, how many social iois do you or any other person actually remember? Nothing after a week. I believe that women have to get a shit ton of (short term) validation from simps in order to remain a functioning human, any similar or less than what a guy gets, and this bitch is most likely on suicide watch. Anyone could argue that ftm trannies exist, and don't actually rope, well they do, half of trannies on hormones rope, and the ones that didn't were already depressed, so the transition from validation to absolutely none doesn't matter since they no longer get dopamine.

 

[Ocelot]

agreed with every single word ngl

 

[Looks234]

i will never have a foid brain

 

[ShineBright]

Tfw my total activity is over 20 months but because this is my alt I don't have a foid brain according to this post

 

[DharkDC]

My self esteem never changed

Never said that. I said if you're frauding everyday (Short term looksmaxxxes), you're giga fucked

Tfw my total activity is over 20 months but because this is my alt I don't have a foid brain according to this post

shut up gaycel.

 

[Need2Ascend]

exactly, how many social iois do you or any other person actually remember? Nothing after a week. I believe that women have to get a shit ton of (short term) validation from simps in order to remain a functioning human, any similar or less than what a guy gets, and this bitch is most likely on suicide watch. Anyone could argue that ftm trannies exist, and don't actually rope, well they do, half of trannies on hormones rope, and the ones that didn't were already depressed, so the transition from validation to absolutely none doesn't matter since they no longer get dopamine.

Yeah, being dependent on others validation is the best way to create low self-esteem and unhappiness(also a feminine trait since women need to be validated to know that they belong to the group and won't get excluded because they couldn't survive on their own evolutionarily-speaking), as bluepilled as it might sound.

For me it is and was always about looking in the mirror and being content with the way I look for myself(however I'm still not there fully since I have some obvious failos which I'm working on)

Yes, the validation that comes with being gl is something everyone craves, but if it is what solely defines who you are and you can't live without it you are on the road to misery

 

[Looks234]

Never said that. I said if you're frauding everyday (Short term looksmaxxxes), you're giga fucked

True. It’s over for guys who have to wear contacts and lifts everyday

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I remember hearing guys shit on girls wore makeup right infront of some bih they didn't think was wearing any. That shit has to fuck someone up mentally, no matter how much positive reinforcement they get.

wait what?

correct this sentence you fucked up the spelling and i think the structure

 

[DharkDC]

wait what?

correct this sentence you fucked up the spelling and i think the structure

I remember seeing some guys shit on girls who wore makeup, right in front of some bitch they didn't think was wearing any. That shit has to fuck someone up mentally, no matter how much positive reinforcement they get.

Thanks for noticing the typo, prolly the only person who read

 

[Melo95]

This is all based on the concept that insecurity or insecurity about your looks being a feminine trait. What proof do you have of this being true?

 

[DharkDC]

This is all based on the concept that insecurity or insecurity about your looks being a feminine trait. What proof do you have of this being true?

I never said that. I said most women are insecure and it runs deeper than any man's. You would call frauding your face everyday a sign of confidence?

 

[johncruz12345]

I agree. Most females are like Amnesia.

 

[Madhate]

I mog

 

[DharkDC]

This is all based on the concept that insecurity or insecurity about your looks being a feminine trait. What proof do you have of this being true?

Even if i said that insecurity is a feminine trait, what difference does it make? Lowest IQ comment i've seen

 

[Deleted member 10185]

Man can only fraud in Hardaway.. We cannot use make up.. So its all about fucking painful and costly surgeries.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Self esteem sense based on looks, is fragile as hell.
But when you know the importance of looks, it is hard not to see how important it is.

Thing is.

If you believe your personality is the thing that is what is most important, and you are proud of your personality. Seelf d esteem based on your personality. That is more stable, because you always carry the same personality with you.

If you know, looks is what is most important. And you are proud of you looks due to looksmaxxing. You know you frauded it.
Plus each day, you can look good or worse (pimples, bad hair day, etc).
So looks is quite unstable. And this is esteem based on that more unstable.

Even a supermodel Barbara Palvin feels ugly and ow self esteem. When having a bad looks day.

 

[DharkDC]

Self esteem sense based on looks, is fragile as hell.
But when you know the importance of looks, it is hard not to see how important it is.

Thing is.

If you believe your personality is the thing that is what is most important, and you are proud of your personality. Seelf d esteem based on your personality. That is more stable, because you always carry the same personality with you.

If you know, looks is what is most important. And you are proud of you looks due to looksmaxxing. You know you frauded it.
Plus each day, you can look good or worse (pimples, bad hair day, etc).
So looks is quite unstable. And this is esteem based on that more unstable.

Even a supermodel Barbara Palvin feels ugly and ow self esteem. When having a bad looks day.

Western media makes it very hard of foids to be proud of their personality JFL, maybe when they're post wall. Everyone knows their only value is their beauty

 

[eduardkoopman]

Western media makes it very hard of foids to be proud of their personality JFL, maybe when they're post wall. Everyone knows their only value is their beauty

Must be, that's why in past I felt more confident. Even though looking like a low tier normie.
Because than I believed my personally or character mattered most overall.
Now I still like my character, but I let looks weight in as well alot more. And that is more changeful. Some days look good, and some days look not good..

I gotta fool myself again, that personally is all that matters. Bro..

 

[Melo95]

IF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 2K POSTS OR MORE THAN 1 MONTH OF ACTIVITY, YOU HAVE A FOID BRAIN

This is where you imply that it's a feminine trait. Jfl autism

 

[diggbicc]

I remember seeing some guys shit on girls who wore makeup, right in front of some bitch they didn't think was wearing any. That shit has to fuck someone up mentally, no matter how much positive reinforcement they get.

Thanks for noticing the typo, prolly the only person who read

did that happen irl with someone you know or did you see it on youtube or somewhere?

 

[DharkDC]

did that happen irl with someone you know or did you see it on youtube or somewhere?

nah, irl. Niggas would dunk on fakeup maxxed foids all the time in front of anyone they thought wasn't wearing any. Some girls had light makeup, trying to imitate natural beauty while frauding, but guys didn't know.

 

[DharkDC]

This is where you imply that it's a feminine trait. Jfl autism

I never said insecurity is a feminine trait, i said you begin to think like a foid. Completely irrelevant from insecurity. muh autism, nigga learn how to read

 

[DharkDC]

bumo

 

[GuyFromSingapore]

Yeah, being dependent on others validation is the best way to create low self-esteem and unhappiness(also a feminine trait since women need to be validated to know that they belong to the group and won't get excluded because they couldn't survive on their own evolutionarily-speaking), as bluepilled as it might sound.

I have the most Alpha profession. If you can guess what that it is. Looksmaxxing has distracted me from it.

 

[GuyFromSingapore]

This video should be very appropriate here.



I'm not a Narcissist. I feel miserable when I look at a deformed or disabled person and go "wow that's so sad, imagine living like that, damn I must be so shallow for being so obsessed with looks"

Sometimes I feel running away and being all alone and hide myself forever.

But welcome to the world. Where looking good gives you more admiration and friendship from people. And sexual selection of biology.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Self esteem sense based on looks, is fragile as hell.
But when you know the importance of looks, it is hard not to see how important it is.

Thing is.

If you believe your personality is the thing that is what is most important, and you are proud of your personality. Seelf d esteem based on your personality. That is more stable, because you always carry the same personality with you.

If you know, looks is what is most important. And you are proud of you looks due to looksmaxxing. You know you frauded it.
Plus each day, you can look good or worse (pimples, bad hair day, etc).
So looks is quite unstable. And this is esteem based on that more unstable.

Even a supermodel Barbara Palvin feels ugly and low self esteem. When having a bad looks day.

Brutal tbh, Palvin is easily one of the best looking female to exist.

I agree with your personality theory because your looks will fluctuate and eventually fade away. It is also alot harder to mantain looks, so if you place your self worth in your personality it will have better longevity. The issue is that your still have to be aware of your looks and actively mantain them.

 

[MansNotHot]

Would even say women have lower self-esteem than men on average although they get 20x more validation, and it has to do with their frauding(imagine you would paint yourself a whole new face on everyday and then say"just love yourself for who you are, be yourself" jfl) and hormones
Agree that if you are "faked" gl instead of 'naturally" your self-esteem will be lower

It's all about being effortlessly good looking, that needs to be the goal with looksmaxxing tbh(although some things are barely changable e.g. height, so you are fucked either way if you are short)
While your surgeries/orthodontic treatment or whatever are planed and your looks increase, you should slowly spend less and less time here, the obsession with looks to a point where your whole life revolves around it does more harm than good

Jfl if i could fake my attractiveness i would be happy af

 

[eduardkoopman]

if you place your self worth in your personality it will have better longevity. The issue is that your still have to be aware of your looks and actively mantain them.

I agree.
To add. self worth based on personality, has in general quit a big disconnect with reality. because often looks = personality. Well not totally looks = personality; but there is a scary big correlation how people rate peoples personality and their looks level.

Than the question becomes.
Have a stable sense of self worth based on falsehood/lies/self delusion.
or
Have a more unstanble sense of self worth more based on reality.

To be fair. It's not an easy choice. The better looking you ar, the better and easier it is to choice the latter.

 

[Pumanator]

It's hard beiing confident these day. If you try hard your looks like gymmaxxing or grooming well people see you as not confident. Even good looking people are having mental breakdowns cause of their looks, look at Connor Murphy for example. Ugly people who are nt can be seeing as not confident cause of their negatieve halo effect. I guess only good looking people who dont care about their looks are truly confident these days.

 

[Deleted member 2632]

When my jawline is sharp my self esteem is higher than any foids

Women have no self esteem they cry like every couple days for no reason

 

[Effortless]

I agree very much

One of the main reason I won't get surgery because I know once I fall into that rabbit hole there's no stopping since I'm already obsessed with softmaxxing which I wouldn't really call it frauding because it helps you be physically healthy and to a certain extent mentally healthy also. I've thought about surgery, thought about wearing lifts and roiding but I said no because at that point if a girl finds me attractive, does she actually find me attractive? she just likes me for who I am not if I fraud so hard.

Sometimes I wish I never found the blackpill, my life as a good looking semi bluepilled normie was so much more happier and content than I am now, it allowed me to live in the moment instead of over thinking it, ignorance is bliss as they say.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I agree.
To add. self worth based on personality, has in general quit a big disconnect with reality. because often looks = personality. Well not totally looks = personality; but there is a scary big correlation how people rate peoples personality and their looks level.

Than the question becomes.
Have a stable sense of self worth based on falsehood/lies/self delusion.
or
Have a more unstanble sense of self worth more based on reality.

To be fair. It's not an easy choice. The better looking you ar, the better and easier it is to choice the latter.

Well I follow the second opinion. If you end up on this website you have a more unstanble sense of self worth more based on reality. Its difficult to say which philosphy is better, one thing I have learnt from the blackpill is that ingorance is bliss. Being a deluded bluepiller is more comforting then facing hard truths. For some people living a bluepilled life will work. Trying to base yourself in reality is hard because real life is bleak.

While I think personality matters, personality is a very broad term. I have never met somebody and thought they have had a great personality, because the majority of people I meet have a good personality (atleast on surface level). You can only have a bad personality imo, a default personality is "good" by nature because most humans have relatively healthy brains and enough socialisation to be functioning humans.

Personality is irrelevant for sexual attraction. Negative personality traits are something the other partner is willing to look past provided your good looking enough.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Personality is irrelevant for sexual attraction. Negative personality traits are something the other partner is willing to look past provided your good looking enough.

I agree. personality is a vague concept.
I think I dissected that only 2 personality traits in a man matter to some extend that it's worthy of noting.
1. extrversion - introversion. Where extraversion helps, and introversion is a handicap. Main reason: extraverts meet more people.
2. being neurotic/anxious - being low neuritc/relaxed/calm. Where being calm helps to behave well/good enough socially and not late anxiousness prevent you from meeting people. Main reason: soically calm people meet more people and can have more relaxed convo's with them.

Besides above. Obviously personality disorders can and often are a high hindance block. Like being aspie or something.

/end about personality

That's imo the total of the personality pill. The rest of personality aspects matter little/limited, not worthy of noting much.

 

[Yliaster]

thread worth being pinned tbh

 

[Need2Ascend]

Jfl if i could fake my attractiveness i would be happy af

Yeah as a male you can't fake much about your looks tbh, unlike females it's all about bones which you can't paint on your face and body sadly, either you have it or you don't

 

[ropemaxx]

Giga cope thread
Foids have million times more self esteem than 99% of men. You guys are clueless

 

[DharkDC]

Giga cope thread
Foids have million times more self esteem than 99% of men. You guys are clueless

 

[ropemaxx]

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They do. Im serious
Girls have 10k matches on tinder, endless validation bla bla bla. Meanwhile men can barely get scraps
Sure chads have higher self esteem than all foids, but that is different.

dont come and say that self esteem comes from within because thats so bluepilled

 

[DharkDC]

They do. Im serious
Girls have 10k matches on tinder, endless validation bla bla bla. Meanwhile men can barely get scraps
Sure chads have higher self esteem than all foids, but that is different.

dont come and say that self esteem comes from within because thats so bluepilled

Nigga, just read the entire thread + my comments, I'm not gonna repeat myself

 

[ropemaxx]

Nigga, just read the entire thread + my comments, I'm not gonna repeat myself

I read it all and there are some random good points and yes most women have considered to have surgery.. but yet

they have endless validation, while millions of men go home, cry themselves to sleep with no one giving them validation, appreciation or anything.

The biggest transformations in this universe is when a 16-18 year old girl starts using tinder, or enters a night club for the first time. Suddenly she realizes the power of her sexual value. In an instant she has 100s of men at her feet like hungry dogs. You would be a fool to think these men have higher self esteem than her, regardless if its tied to her looks or not.

You underestimate womens power in this day and age.

 

[Deleted member 2632]

I agree. personality is a vague concept.
I think I dissected that only 2 personality traits in a man matter to some extend that it's worthy of noting.
1. extrversion - introversion. Where extraversion helps, and introversion is a handicap. Main reason: extraverts meet more people.
2. being neurotic/anxious - being low neuritc/relaxed/calm. Where being calm helps to behave well/good enough socially and not late anxiousness prevent you from meeting people. Main reason: soically calm people meet more people and can have more relaxed convo's with them.

Besides above. Obviously personality disorders can and often are a high hindance block. Like being aspie or something.

/end about personality

That's imo the total of the personality pill. The rest of personality aspects matter little/limited, not worthy of noting much.

You tell that coper, he is somewhat good looking normie so he believes his personality is worth a shit lol, imagine if he was turbo manlet or trucel face

Personality is a meme unless you are very High IQ individual and you can rally the masses like a great leader

Most people are dumb cattle and a pleasant appearance is enough to make people appreciate your company

 

[DharkDC]

I read it all and there are some random good points and yes most women have considered to have surgery.. but yet

they have endless validation, while millions of men go home, cry themselves to sleep with no one giving them validation, appreciation or anything.

The biggest transformations in this universe is when a 16-18 year old girl starts using tinder, or enters a night club for the first time. Suddenly she realizes the power of her sexual value. In an instant she has 100s of men at her feet like hungry dogs. You would be a fool to think these men have higher self esteem than her, regardless if its tied to her looks or not.

You underestimate womens power in this day and age.

The title is clickbait. In comparison to men, they have a higher self esteem, but it can be brought down easier than a guy.

Doesn't matter how much validation you get, if it's based of a fraud (make up, lifts, filters) it's gonna fuck you up.

Take a look at @Amnesia, this man has 4 inch lifts, coloured contacts and is larping as a young man, as a result, he blacked out his mirrors, cannot stay in an LTR and has episodes in where he thinks he’s ugly for days on end. The point is, he has an unstable self esteem as good looking as he is.

 

[BrazilianLooksmaxxer]

The biggest transformations in this universe is when a 16-18 year old girl starts using tinder, or enters a night club for the first time.

No, this transformation occurs at 12/13/14 when they start using instagram.
Tinder is a meme for psl autists, the vast majority of foids do not use it, mainly those with high SMV
And zoomers are not going to nightclubs, we are not in the 2000s
The validation that women receive comes from insta/snap/tiktok
Just like laids with chads