You were always non-NT (Brutal)

[hiwasuwor]

Many non-Nt assume that they turned out this way because of school but they don’t realize that it goes back much further, they were already nonNT before School even started. NT and socializing must be learned. Now you have schoolkids who have been playing with countless other kids since being a baby, they already socialized and learned for thousands of hours, then there are kids who have barely rarely socialized with any kids the same age, ofc they become the weird ones.


NT already begins in one’s early development. If you are three years old and your Parents are strangers who aren't connected in the local community, you won’t have friend, because friendship before kindergarten is only developed through Parents contact. if you dont have siblings or neighbors, dont have alot family playing with you, you are left with only Parents and few family visits to socialize with and you won’t learn how to socialize with same aged pupils. Then out of nowhere, from one day to the next, you are dropped into an overstimulated environment with dozens of kids who are more developed than you - it's over, you are now abused dog, the unlikeable kid.

 

[try2beme]

Im so tired of this forum thinking non nt is only autism

Extremely annoying. Autism is nothong compared to what i have to suffer with bipolar, and what schizophenics deal with

Austists are simply losers with no backbone and extreme anxiety

 

[Pikabro]

Yes this is so so so true. In babby school I had no friends and barely interacted with family. I just overheard random adult shit and my dad used to say dumb ethnic shit like ‘kuffars are animals not human’ which I ofc repeated to teachers leading to them calling counter terrorism (brutal). And I only really got into socialising at 9 yo by then I’m already in a complex environment with social cliques, hierarchies, layered social interaction (banter manipulation etc). So I ended up as autistic angry kid which continued into 13 yo. Then I jestered for a year. Then by 14 I became a quiet little pussy with no social or life skills, blah blah blah. But really I blame myself, clearly I must hate myself for letting myself end up like this.

Im so tired of this forum thinking non nt is only autism

Extremely annoying. Autism is nothong compared to what i have to suffer with bipolar, and what schizophenics deal with

Austists are simply losers with no backbone and extreme anxiety

Ok disability elitist

 

[Clown Show]

It's over...

Bad ending...

Villains have won...

 

[fuxkdakikez]

i am just ugly

 

[fuxkdakikez]

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[dopaminebeyondfried]

I'm hyper nt

 

[Pikabro]

Play is so important too. Legit these older vids from Jordan Peterson hit the mark on what causes absolute dog like me to exist.

 

[future slavic chad]

never knew peterson dropped those kind of blackpills

 

[Xtra]

Many non-Nt assume that they turned out this way because of school but they don’t realize that it goes back much further, they were already nonNT before School even started. NT and socializing must be learned. Now you have schoolkids who have been playing with countless other kids since being a baby, they already socialized and learned for thousands of hours, then there are kids who have barely rarely socialized with any kids the same age, ofc they become the weird ones.


NT already begins in one’s early development. If you are three years old and your Parents are strangers who aren't connected in the local community, you won’t have friend, because friendship before kindergarten is only developed through Parents contact. if you dont have siblings or neighbors, dont have alot family playing with you, you are left with only Parents and few family visits to socialize with and you won’t learn how to socialize with same aged pupils. Then out of nowhere, from one day to the next, you are dropped into an overstimulated environment with dozens of kids who are more developed than you - it's over, you are now abused dog, the unlikeable kid.

you're talking about actual autists the ones who scream randomly and throw chairs. personally i was very NT and social until i was 13-14 when i started rotting from the consequence of dealing with the pain of an awful environment, that explains why im non nt now even tho i used to be the complete opposite

 

[Entschuldigung]

I was very NT back in school

 

[hiwasuwor]

you're talking about actual autists the ones who scream randomly and throw chairs. personally i was very NT and social until i was 13-14 when i started rotting from the consequence of dealing with the pain of an awful environment, that explains why im non nt now even tho i used to be the complete opposite

no i didn't decribed Autists i described; non NT people, shycels, introverts and bullied kids who could have been saved if they had enough socialcontact with same aged pupils before first class grade