IntelligentCel
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It's over for most men. Being a man and average is no longer a viable option in 2024. Any claim to the contrary is a cope and reality denial.
Average men, generally speaking, can't get a date online or in real-life. Modern women, even these who are average, are aimed at top guys.
Average women are aimed at top guys, and wouldn't want to date their looksmatch.
Top women are also aimed at top guys.
Women are not interested in average men. This is because of hypergamy.
On the left: The situation back in the day. On the right: The situation nowadays.
Even if you use dating apps, keep in mind she is most likely dating other men too; has probably been on another date before the date with you, and will likely be on another date after the date with you.
In the context of women dating men, you are just another men.
Women have bunch of guys to on social media - TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram DMs, at the gym, at work, everywhere. They are bombarded with option literally every single second of the day, since every single second of the day, there are millions of men sending DMs. They can date and sleep with them at any moment, when you aren't looking.
Among the men women have, there are the following groups:
The friend zone guy: This is her emotional support, a simp who is always there to talk how perfect she is. He is waiting for the perfect moment to take advantage and make her cheat on you.
The dinner guy: This is the simp she uses for free dinners. He is the simp who is always ready to pay for the dinner.
The gym guy: This is the guy she laughs with and gets compliments from.
The sex guy: This is the guy she can and will have sex with when you aren't looking.
The “Just A Friend" guy: Yeah, no comment is needed here, everyone knows what “we are just friends" means.
Abundance of stimulation and dopamine is everywhere, which causes de-motivation, which is among the reasons that cause her to cheat on you due to no longer being motivated to be with you.
Modern women sleep with multiple guys, meaning they are desensitized. That means you are unlikely to have a long-lasting, committed relationship, because she doesn't view you as THE man, but as just another guy in a list of many more guys, just another number in a statistic that won't end with you.
If you have a relationship in this age, keep in mind she will cheat on you with someone of the hundreds of thousands of guys who are sending DMs to her on social media and are begging for attention, or someone who is “just a friend". Competition against you is ongoing everywhere.
Thinking otherwise, refusing to believe what I'm saying, is basically reality denial.
Modern relationships don't work in the long-run, and shortened attention span is among the reasons.
And no, it's not anecdotal. More and more men will confirm it. Also, statistics don't lie:
In the above statistics, this is the result of alienation, social atomization, decline, and social isolation. These are the results of the decline of the community.
If you are going to have a “committed" relationship, and you are imagining an actual committed relationship, you will be disappointed.
If you are going to have a committed relationship nowadays, it will be committed only in your head, not in reality. In reality it will be more like this:
In this image, gullible men are represented by the guy with the flowers; I'm talking about the 4th guy from left to right. In other words, you won't be neither the first man nor the last one. She is desensitized, won't be able to love you, and will cheat on you, then will blame you, will request divorce and get a significant percent of your assets.
Again, that's how relationships work nowadays, and that's a fact. Any claim to the contrary is a cope and reality denial.
Modern relationships don't work the way many men think they work. Many men are confused and don't understand the situation, which is why they become screwed, emotionally hurt, lonely, robbed by the “family court", etc...
Save yourself, don't attempt to build a committed relationship. The odds are against you. Better become a MGTOW and focus on yourself.
I'm not telling you to join inceldom. Rather, I'm telling you to understand that for a committed relationship to happen, certain conditions have to be met, and these conditions don't exist anymore in modern age.
You may date women and have sex with them, but don't be emotionally invested, because you will regret it.
Average men, generally speaking, can't get a date online or in real-life. Modern women, even these who are average, are aimed at top guys.
Average women are aimed at top guys, and wouldn't want to date their looksmatch.
Top women are also aimed at top guys.
Women are not interested in average men. This is because of hypergamy.
On the left: The situation back in the day. On the right: The situation nowadays.
Even if you use dating apps, keep in mind she is most likely dating other men too; has probably been on another date before the date with you, and will likely be on another date after the date with you.
In the context of women dating men, you are just another men.
Women have bunch of guys to on social media - TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram DMs, at the gym, at work, everywhere. They are bombarded with option literally every single second of the day, since every single second of the day, there are millions of men sending DMs. They can date and sleep with them at any moment, when you aren't looking.
Among the men women have, there are the following groups:
The friend zone guy: This is her emotional support, a simp who is always there to talk how perfect she is. He is waiting for the perfect moment to take advantage and make her cheat on you.
The dinner guy: This is the simp she uses for free dinners. He is the simp who is always ready to pay for the dinner.
The gym guy: This is the guy she laughs with and gets compliments from.
The sex guy: This is the guy she can and will have sex with when you aren't looking.
The “Just A Friend" guy: Yeah, no comment is needed here, everyone knows what “we are just friends" means.
Abundance of stimulation and dopamine is everywhere, which causes de-motivation, which is among the reasons that cause her to cheat on you due to no longer being motivated to be with you.
Modern women sleep with multiple guys, meaning they are desensitized. That means you are unlikely to have a long-lasting, committed relationship, because she doesn't view you as THE man, but as just another guy in a list of many more guys, just another number in a statistic that won't end with you.
If you have a relationship in this age, keep in mind she will cheat on you with someone of the hundreds of thousands of guys who are sending DMs to her on social media and are begging for attention, or someone who is “just a friend". Competition against you is ongoing everywhere.
Thinking otherwise, refusing to believe what I'm saying, is basically reality denial.
Modern relationships don't work in the long-run, and shortened attention span is among the reasons.
And no, it's not anecdotal. More and more men will confirm it. Also, statistics don't lie:
In the above statistics, this is the result of alienation, social atomization, decline, and social isolation. These are the results of the decline of the community.
If you are going to have a “committed" relationship, and you are imagining an actual committed relationship, you will be disappointed.
If you are going to have a committed relationship nowadays, it will be committed only in your head, not in reality. In reality it will be more like this:
In this image, gullible men are represented by the guy with the flowers; I'm talking about the 4th guy from left to right. In other words, you won't be neither the first man nor the last one. She is desensitized, won't be able to love you, and will cheat on you, then will blame you, will request divorce and get a significant percent of your assets.
Again, that's how relationships work nowadays, and that's a fact. Any claim to the contrary is a cope and reality denial.
Modern relationships don't work the way many men think they work. Many men are confused and don't understand the situation, which is why they become screwed, emotionally hurt, lonely, robbed by the “family court", etc...
Save yourself, don't attempt to build a committed relationship. The odds are against you. Better become a MGTOW and focus on yourself.
I'm not telling you to join inceldom. Rather, I'm telling you to understand that for a committed relationship to happen, certain conditions have to be met, and these conditions don't exist anymore in modern age.
You may date women and have sex with them, but don't be emotionally invested, because you will regret it.
